What are your worst defects?

Sometimes I get impatient when I need to be patient, and sometimes I'm too patient when the situation calls for less.

Where do I start? Sometimes I am short with people and I don't think before I speak. I get very depressed at times and want to give up on things. I have a party in my mouth (as Dr. Phil would say) when things go bad. I hold on to anger for a long time. I can't seem
to forgive my ex/my father for crapting on my life. I am always in a religious crisis- is there/ isn't there? If I think long enough, I can probably fill the page. These are on the top of my mind

I am WAY too modest about my perfection! No, actually, I have a tendency to let little things get to me, and I have a tendency to put myself down and compare unfavorably to others. Those are my main character flaws.

I have a weight problem.I love food!!!

I have no patience with my husband,he usually takes
a loooooong time getting his thoughts out.

I can't stand it when people are not paying attention
to their driving.

I'm get jealous when my husband is paying too much
attention to another woman.

My microwave oven takes too long to make popcorn.

My coffee maker takes too long to make coffee.


In a nut shell,I have no patience.

why didn't you say, "what are your worst character flaws?" defects makes it sound more harsh.
self esteem issues.

To many of them to be mentioned...

Oh, right, like I'm going there.

I'm a control freak. I'm a neat freak. I'm a semi-nymphomaniac (yes, that IS a defect). And I use my sexuality as a defense mechanism.
No one is ever going to talk to me again on SC

character flaws only?
moodiness
dependency
loneliness
anxiety
fear
shyness
quietness
I take things too seriously.
I don't have fun around others.
I am a hermit.
I become mute around other people.
I'm not trusting.
I am indecisive.
I lack self confidence.
I'm too sensitive.

I'm a faithless hussy

I sometimes talk too much.

Does SueBee know?

You shrug too much.

Do you think I'm blind?! LOL

I really don't feel like thinking about my faults right now. I've been too moody lately as it is.

I scratch my head too much & I eat too much sometimes.

According to my girlfriend, my pomposity and vanity.

I'm not.......really

I have difficulty accepting things the way they are, and get all wrapped up in trying to "fix" broken friendships, relationships, situations, etc., instead of learning to enjoy life as it is. I think that to some degree wanting to fix things is good, but after a point it gets to be too much and is a symptom of not knowing how to relax.

I can be insecure and jealous, and have a tendency towards co-dependence. I react to frustration with anger. Those are the big ones.

Impatience

I can be very sensitive and take people's critiscms or jokes to heart very easily. I have a short temper. I cant just wear slobby clothes to the shops, I have to look perfect all the time.I whinge.

I lack confidence in certain areas.
Sometimes I know what I *should* do and don't do it.
I'm over concerned at times about my family's judgement of me.
I like to give, but I don't always like to receive - it makes me uncomfortable. In particular, I can't take compliments.
I'm afraid of moving on in some ways although I'm looking forward to others.

It's all part of the parcel, and we like the parcel

Would you like them alpahbetically or in order of importance?

Oh, no, wait, I left my list upstairs.

Awwwww.

Oh, character flaws! I was going to say that I can't wear jeans with no underwear because my balls tend to want to go down one of the legs, bt now I'll say that I am too judgemental.

Yep...and she likes me anyway......

*laughs*
balls balls balls

I'm very impatient.

it would either be my third arm or my second head.

I'm a smug, self-satisfied, pompous, sanctimonious bastard...but I'm actually pretty nice once you get to know me!

I believe you!

Oh balls! I'm going to have to stop saying balls. I wasn't aware of this problem.

It's no problem......

*raises an eyebrow*

really.......

Being brutally honest is what other people would say. I don't have an answer.

You can't get out of bed in the morning.

That is not a defect silly boi that is you kept me up to late!!!

Thank balls for that.

I'm very LAZY, I basically can't achieve my goals because I'm blocked by anxiety and perfectionism and laziness.I'm an egoist.I just think to myself very often.I'm often insensitive and cold.Then there are things like being shy which isn't a real flaw but it's hard to deal with in this extraverts society.

Can't really answer this one, due to the fact that I'm perfect.

Mental Illness

sarcasm, and being a general smartarse

Not being naturally glittery.....

Moody. Very self critical. Anxious. Addictive. Procrastinator.

How do you use your sexuality as a defense mechanism?

Ummm...best paraphrased as a distraction from what's important.

eating habits

Shyness.