What makes a person kinky?

When your boyfriend suggest that he would like to have a three some with your best friend.I don't like sharing!!!!
I'm selfish like that!!!!>

When what gets them off differs wildly from what gets the rest of their general community off.

Actually, I've asked a lot of people this question, and the most popular response is the use of sex toys. As soon as you start using toys during sex, it gets kinky.

Well, if they were bent into one position for a long time they may have trouble straightening themselves out again............

?

hmmmm.... I thought that was normal.

I don't know.

the person's brain, of course.

Depends on your own definition of kinky. There are some things I deem kinky that may be absolutely normal to another person. i.e. using a feather is okay, using the whole chicken is kinky LOL

Richard! You randy scalawag! Are you looking for ideas??

I'm not kinky, so I can't speak for others. That would be too presumptuous.

I hate that word. I guess it means something like turned on. I think if two people (or more) are in the right situation where they feel attracted to each other, that can make a person "kinky". I don't know. This whole survey reminds me of bad associations.

well, Kinky is being/looking slutty without, being/looking slutty. Hmmmmmm...

Nature & Conditioning.

No.

Being a pervert makes a person kinky.......and being kinky makes a person a pervert.

Just checking!

little sleep and too much caffeine/alcohol/drugs

Hare Krishna!

Trauma during childhood.

Sexual creativity

40 years ago a blow job was considered kinky. Now of days whips, handcuffs, hot candle wax, goldenshowers, are considered kinky. while 10-20 years ago ice, whip cream, and chocolate syrup, were considered kinky. As the general public becomes more self aware and comes out of the dark ages of ignorance, they learn much about themselves and the world around them. People learn that they are not alone and that life can be more fulfilling.

Whips and chains, and all that

kinky in my eyes is eating someone elses crap. Oh no nevermind thats gross not kinky.....hmmmm I don't know what kinky is

Their sexual desires

Doesn't matter 'cause it's only kinky the first time.

I have noticed over the years that most of the USA population keeps to "their trees", so to speak.

So, since I like exotic (exotic, not erotic!) women, I am kinky?

So, what is a sexual toy?
A pillow to prop up your partners hips?
A lubrication gel to facilitate Mother Nature?
A penile extender to compensate for poor genes?
Just when does it become kinky here as opposed to "compensation".

So, my being slumped over my computer all day in pursuit of a livelihood is kinky?

Normal for you maybe...ahh...can I borrow your playthings for the weekend?

Perfect answer...say, ya know, I never noticed up to now exactly how lovely your are...bend over, willja. >

Darn! And I just bought a whole flock of chickens.
Want one to pluck?

No, no, no! Hearing our answers is what HareKrishna finds kinky. Sort of literary voyeurism.

I beg to differ, you can be very kinky.
You just don't know it...yet.

That's so sad, because I had something really kinky in mind for you. >

Oo-oo-oo. I like this definition.
So, I'll bring the lace and you bring the leather.

Ah ha!

Sneaky sneaky!

"Nature & Conditioning" is what makes a person kinky?
Well, that about raps it up, gang. You can all go home now to your private perversions. No further input necessary.

Actually, I would have thought "Unnatural" and "Stimulating" might have been better qualified as what makes a person kinky.

But what does a little ol' pervert like me know?

I think most kinky perverts prefer to remain anonymous.

uhhhh no sharing that constitutes uncleanliness.

This comes from experience does it?

Ya know, I was thinking of changing my name to "happymetoo".
Whadda ya think?

(he said pouring a cup of coffee and setting the alarm for 3:00 AM)

So, tell us about your trauma.
(he said note pad in hand)

So...ahh...mary...you can call me by my real name: Salvador Dali. >

Oh, Johnny, you are a naughty, naughty boy.
What you need is a good spanking.
I'll send you the address of my dominatrix.

Don't forget the quadrupeds.

LOL Sure

You don't know what kinky is????????

Hey, ASexyBabesToys, yer not doin' yer job!

As opposed to career goals?

Maybe I just don't consider many things kinky. I have 2 groups desireable and undesirable.

When I was 5 years old, I was shocked to find some very explicit sex magazines in my parents bedroom. I was frightened at first but couldn't stop myself looking through them. They were full of photographs of people participating in lewd and deviant behavior. So I invited all the neighbor children(boys and girls) to come and see them, hoping they would be just as shocked. They were. To alleviate our shock and terror at the thought that grown ups actually did this sort of thing, we all stripped naked and acted out various scenes in the books.
It felt really funny. It made my tummy ache. I loved it.
I remember this picture where a very large dark haired man was naked with a huge erection, He had three or four beautiful naked women chained spread eagle to a wall in a dark dungeon.
Soon after, I would have friends in my bedroom a lot to "play" and we would explore each other's bodies.
This one time, I was "playing" with a girl named Anita. My mother walked in and caught us naked and rolling around together in the throes of passion.
The trauma of getting caught and the shame my mother made me feel(she spanked me too) somehow fanned the flames of my perversion. If it is dirty and bad and something I shouldn't do....I want to do it all the more.
Anymore questions?????

Ahh...let's take a look at taht for a minute. I propose all sexual activity fall under the "uncleanliness criteria". Just think of the things we do for sexual arousal.

We embrace (bare skin rubbing bare skin)
We kiss (saliva exchange)
We touch (transfer of body oils and perspiration)
We fondle (contact between normally covered and uncovered body parts)
We lick (there's that saliva thingee again)
We suck (no comment)
We fornicate (lots of interbody cell transfer going on there)
And that's the "normal" stuff".

So, tell me which part is sanitary?
You have already violating most of the cleanliness rules your mom taught you when you were young.

Sex is incredibly "dirty"...if you do it right!

The forbidden parts of sex are always the most attractive.

I am saddened to hear you started so young. Five years old seems a bit early to me.

Thank you for sharing. (Giving Twistermine a GIANT warm non-sexual hug)

we= yourself and whoever you are talking to and the 2 of us are not the we you are talking about. I only do those things with ASBT and he is a clean boi.

Ewww. I hope you two wash.

Side note: "boi" in Portuguese means "bull" or "toro".
I suspect your unintentional typographical double entendre is true.

Don't beg, it's beneath you!

I wasn't begging, but could we discuss this "beneath you" thingee a little more? , back at ya!

(that's the closest I could get to sticking my tongue out at you!) And NO, we can't discuss the "beneath you" thingy you dirty old man!

Don't cry for me, Argentina. It was a lot of fun! Those are actually some of my favorite memories from an otherwise horrid and painful childhood.

Darn! That is not exactly the response I would expect in a survey entitled: "What makes a person kinky?". ...(looking dejected)
Guess I'll have to gather my sheep and go home.

Baah

Still, Ms. Twistermine, I look at my boys and smile because at ages 10, 6 and 5 they still are pretty innocent. Although my ten year old is beginning to ask more questions.

Luckily, my wife, the medical student, has a great software program about the human body, including some technical audio visuals, which I think he is old enough to understand. In fact, I need to do that this weekend. Wish me luck. (WHERE'S MY DADDY TRAINING MANUAL?)

(perk)
Don't say it unless you mean it!

Sorry fella, you ain't my type!

Darn! You have no idea how many times I hear that...
(sulking)

It's because you're a guy-I'm into fems. It doesn't mean we can't be friends.

Ahh...(changing the subject only slightly)...what is your type?
(Listen up guys, we may get a kinky response outta kate yet)

Ahh...so there ya go. You might already be what some would call "kinky". I think it makes you more interesting.

So, your original statement was that you are not kinky. Which now begs the question (original question of the survey, I might add): what makes a person kinky?

(waiting with bated breath)
Please hurry, I am an ex-smoker.

How does being gay make me kinky? That's the way God made me, I didn't have any say in the matter any more than I had a say in my hair color, eye color or any other physical attribute. I still won't say what makes a person kinky, to each their own.

My statement, kate, was:
quote - SOME would call "kinky" - unquote.

Despite the enlightened age we live in, homosexuality still does not have universal acceptance. To hetrosexuals, same sex relationships might appear "kinky".

Darn, I really was hoping you might provide me an idea or two to take home tonight.

We are sexual beings from birth. I know it is hard as a parent to look at a child and see them as sexual beings, but they are. At four years old I knew the facts of life from a technical, medical standpoint through a wonderful series on British television about "The Facts of Life." Teaching a child about where babies come from and how their bodies work regarding reproduction does not take away their innocence.
My daughter was masturbating from an early age. I never once made her feel it was bad or shameful, I did however tell her it was "Private" and let her know the acceptable and unacceptable times and places she could engage in such activity.


I do agree however that children do not neeeeed to be taught about things like bondage and other sexual kinks at a young age. If they inquire though, you better damn well give them a straight answer or you might lose their trust later on. Small children will take a simple form of an answer and be satisfied...the older they get the more details they want.

I think the worst for me was being made to feel ashamed of what I think was a perfectly natural curiosity about sex. That was the "trauma" for me. Being made to feel ashamed of sex play with other children. Being made to feel bad and dirty.

It is guilt and shame that does more to damage children and take away their innocence than a parents honest answers to questions about the mechanics and the emotions of human sexuality.

Good luck with your bois!

Sure! You can change your name, everyone can be happy! :)

Why do you have to get up at 3:00 am?

hey how come my smileys don't work?

Your forgeting the nose.Ms.SueBee taught me how to do it.Go to the HELP button on the bar,click there it'll teach you how to make all kinds of faces & more. ..... : for the eyes... - for the nose & ... ) for the smile

If it gives you kinks...........

Hare Krishna!

I didn't know I'd have to play judge on my comment! Damn! ...let me go get the penal code so I can decipher this...

By my reckoning it depends on where you are. If you were in the middle of Wisconsin- probably people would think that. If you were in Washington, DC, you might be as common as white bread. So by my definition at least, it would entirely depend on your community, and "most of the USA" seems a bit large to consider a community. You're not even living in the US are you? I thought you were in Brazil? You would be the one to look around at your community and how they react to your choices to make that call, not me.

Sorry, I'm the wrong person to ask for "ideas." I guess I misunderstood your question-I was a bit tired at the time.

I don't know what the word 'kinky' means.

Other peoples opinions.

Okay Dali

I had the "Daddy" talk with my oldest. He was quite bored with it all. Too technical, I imagine. But as you suggested, it was straight forward questions and answers. No guilt, no shame, no BS. Kids have built-in BS detectors.

lol Got me!

3:00 AM, because you mentioned kinky is a function of a lack of sleep.
So, "happyu", I'll meet in you in the kitchen at 3:00 AM near the coffee pot. Clothes are optional.

Love, kisses and large amounts of kinky,
Happymetoo

(damn, these jokes don't work if I gotta explain 'em.)

You check the penal code and I'll go buy some more batteries.

Tell ya what, you just bend over that there dictionary and I'll help you discover what kinky means.

(sigh) And because you were tired my wife and I spent the weekend arguing over "feathers" or "leather".

Things were so much simpler when we were just starting out: we could only afford duct tape and a fly swatter.

I stand corrected. Does this mean you'll spank me?

Actually there is an old joke about this:
Newly married couple go to the village rabbi, because the groom has made some sophisticated "demands" of his new bride.

The rabbi hears the tale and shrinks in horror, forbidding the couple to do any such thing.

Not thoroughly satisfied with his answer, the couple goes to seek the counsel of the rabbi of the largest temple in the state.

"My children," says the rabbi, "God has blessed you with each other to seek happiness as you see fit."

"But our rabbi said..." protested the couple.

"And since when," answered the sage, "does a small town rabbi know for big city sex?"

Doing something sexual that doesn't fall within the acceptable sexual norms of straight sex, handjobs and headjobs.

This may take a few minutes...

What may take a few minutes...Big City Sex?
Well, of course, silly.

ROFL (rolling on floor laughing)
"sexual NORMS of straight sex, handjobs and headjobs"
You are hysterical!

Be careful, I hear the Amish don't get too much head.

putting on clothing of the opposite sex

I hear they don't get too much of anything.

Well, no one knows what goes on behind closed barn doors.
"Now, Miss Sarah, you just sit in this bucket, and I'll spin it."

Thanks! I felt like i was on the outside or something....

OH! I'm a bit slow, sorry!

Trust me, I know what you mean!!Sometimes too,if you hover your cursor over the happy faces it'll show you what to type.