What do you believe is the ultimate way to get revenge on a cheating partner?

I have my ways but I can't disclose such vital information

Tie him to the bed, make him extremely horny ......... then leave him there all frustrated. > I have many other possible methods of revenge, but this is the most likely one I would use.

I don't believe revenge has any value.

o yes it does!!!

Do you at least dream of getting revenge, although not carry it out?

By living a joyous and fulfilling life. Of course, that's not a bad way to live even if you don't have a cheating partner.

Oh, I don't know...I'm not really into the whole revenge thing.

The one time I did have an unfaithful partner my friends and I joked about a very nasty dinner party we could throw which would make him very uncomfortable (only because of the company). I guess I realised that the reason he was unfaithful was because the relationship wasn't going very well and neither of us had got around to breaking it off. He was genuinely sorry, so why try to get back at him? We're still good friends BTW, which is quite amazing.

I suppose it depends on the circumstances. Just over a year ago I was in a relationship with someone who had a girlfriend and a daughter (of course I didn't know about either of them). Soon after we started sleeping together, he sort of disappeared and didn't call me for a couple of weeks. When he finally did get in touch he just explained that he had a girlfriend and daughter and the reason he had not been around is because she was starting to suspect! I felt used, humiliated and cheap. This made me want to get revenge, but he's not an easy person to get revenge on. I think I eventually got revenge on him, although it was unintentional.

Move all their stuff into a storage locker, and when they come home, hand them a cheque for the balance of the rent, security deposit, utilities, whatever, and tell them where their stuff is.

Chop off his dick and shove it down the doges throat while he watches, then kill the dog in front of him.

revenge isn't going to make you feel better in the long run, imho

Not giving a crap.

My ultimate revenge on my cheating partners was to avoid all contact with them and just let them see what they lost and what they'll never get back because of it.

To tell her you cheated even before she did. A bit childish perhaps, but it feels great when you see the look on her face!

Did you just read American Psycho, Jewel?!

By being happy living without him.

Bless their relationship.

My-ex (of 7 years & 2 kids) married my brother. They're still my best friends.
I had a deep two year relationship till recently with a woman who continued her existing relationship most of the while.

hehehe, no, I've been cheated on though, it makes my teeth grind lol

Break up with him/her....you don't need to get 'revenge'

Forgive them

Forgive them.

Hey! We never agree! Cut that out!

Actually, I was thinking it over, and I have an addendum: forgive them and don't *ever* let them forget you forgave them.

If you don't forgive you get cancer.

no revenge, just leave the relationship

I'm not a big believer in revenge. I'd rather make adjustments in my life (most likely cut my partner loose) and be happy.

That's a harder situation to take so easily. How did you get revenge unintentionally?

Not be there when they come crawling back.

Leave.

A couple of months after all this, he contacted me. He said that he was in love with me and wanted us to work things out. He explained that when he was with me, he was planning on leaving his girlfriend to be with me and that things were complicated. I told him that I had no interest. He then developed an obsession with me, constantly calling me, begging to see me, crying down the phone and would not take no for an answer. I eventually decided to try being friends with him (bad move). We met up and he made it clear that he wanted to be with me and under no circumstances he would take no for an answer. The next day I changed my phone number and e-mailed him to say that I changed my number because I didn't want to speak to him again and if he turned up at my house I would call the police. I also said that if he e-mails me I would ignore it, I also explained why I was doing this, to enable him to forget about me and get on with his life. So that was that, I never heard from him again. I wouldn't really call it revenge, more like taking control of the situation. It must be hurtful to be told that someone has changed their phone number because they don't want to speak to you again, but my goal was not to hurt him.

It sounds like you did the best thing as kindly as you could. You're right though, it's not really revenge, it's taking control of a bad situation.

Well I do feel slightly bad that it had to be that way, but also felt good that I was calling the shots.

I beleive living well is the best revenge

I beleive living well is the best revenge.

I believe living well is the best revenge.

Oops! Did I do that?

Yep! You sure did!

cheat with his brother

Cheat back on them. Then rub it in there face.

When it comes to ultimate vengeance, eternal damnation does the trick nicely.

walk away and never look back, like they were never in your life

Walk away and never talk to them again. In other words...none at all.

Killing them, but I don't believe in revenge.

Hide frozen shellfish in a hollow curtain pole. The smell will drive them crazy

Ignore her for the rest of your life.

you should not even try to get revenge. if that's what you really want to do, then just walk away from the relationship.

i kicked my EX in the balls and told him that next time he should keep them in his pants

To move them out without notice. (if living together)
To leave the relationship. (they always want what they cannot have, & they cannot have you anymore!)

i don't know... i, by now didn't really have many seriously relationships with guys, just makeouts, and those, but i know that when i was cheating on my boyfriends, i didn't feel guilty at all. but i was freaking out from jealousy when he'd do that to me. so there are the ways... not like abusing him, but some, you-may-call low things to do, but they still work. you feel better

I don't believe in revenge.

Leave them.

cuff her to the bed naked and don't stop until she suffers

You mean rape her?

Well a subscription to Playgirl sent to his parent's house sure felt good. So did 12 extra large seafood pizza's (He's allergic) delivered to his house at 2 a.m.

Success is the best revenge.
That's kind of my motto.

What the hell is thta supposed to mean?

You are 1 sick puppy.

I am not really into revenge, but I think would just ignore them. If we were married, I would probably divorce him, because he would no longer have my trust.

My (I wish) girlfriend, Tara and I went to a rave at her neighbors apartment. It got to that point where everyone was pairing up to leave (and I couldn't find her) so I went home (her place) took a shower and changed, hoping that perhaps she might direct a lot of sexual energy my way. I heard her in the loft when I got out, she heard me too since I glimpsed her looking out her curtain at me. Then her and her one night stand had a few rounds together while I had no choice but to listen. My karma I suppose for even amplifying the kali energy I saw on the floor. I quietly packed and left in the morning, tears in my eye, when buses were running and was followed by ascension of mary energy. I had been hoping for quite a while to have a warm day to go to the beach with her, this day was warm enough but i wanted to go to purify myself further alone. She called the moment I got home, talked her way into accompanying me (we went to malibu to tan and fly kites), arrived with apology flowers. My theme song was one I had so disdained a week earlier, Cher's "Do you believe in life after love?" I looked away from her most of the ride, and instead took on a new found appreciation of Blondies "Heart of Glass" wearing some thin skyblue shades she handed me. She'd ask me backing up if it was clear, and I'd answer yes without even looking. In spite of the fact that she's known I wanted to marry her at first sight, and insisted that we not talk about anything other than sun, water, and sand, she still had to keep laughing about her latest exploit to me. I definitely feel like I failed to make a positive change here, but I'm not going to take it personally. To be honest she's been quite a bad influence, I was on that dance floor with a lot of pissed-off energy manifest as bullish stomping steps and such, because I resented that it wasn't her I was dancing with. I was definitely the raunchiest thing out there, outdoing all the dominatrixes, cross-dressers, and other folks with a lot of spiritual energy, years of theater dance training, and an absolutely anything goes attitude. It was far more severe than the art-party in which I met Tara and made out on the floor with another gal in time to the music for an hour with an audience gathered. I'm just looking for a Walton's relationship. Maybe I'm not. Why else would it always be so crazy? Crazier in fact with each new relationship; the married out of highschool actually was sort of 'Waltons' for a couple years.

Put them on the Reader's Digest Mailing list.

Wow. You don't mess around.

I don't believe in revenge.

Hare Krishna!

Oh good, you caught both channels.

"Oh good, you caught both channels."

I figured was for the joking threat and was because in fact you don't mess around on a partner. I could add to that I'm now becoming an abay vendor of Viewmaster reels (the 3D pictures we looked at as kids) and now I have to manage 20 email folders for different transaction states and a database of about 40 fields of info for hundreds of records. I plan to automate it all soon. .. but until than I might as well be in the Readers Digest book club.

OIC! You have 20 email folders?!!

I just counted. I have 153 email folders. 2 of those are for Survey Central, one's for my family. Most of them are for research colleagues in sciences and spiritual matters. 29 are for ebay processing. You should see how many hundreds of folders are on my computer.

Yikes! How do you cope?

This is why computer programmers go on the fritz, and get state support. I'm still not quite up to the level of programming intensity I had some years ago. I used to write tools that automated and integrated the other programs and screens that allowed non-programmers to write complex queries.

Put itching powder in all of their underwear (if you have access to their undie drawer) and make them think they contracted something. >

What does "go on the fritz" mean?

Get so stressed out that they work for 30 hours straight but accomplish about two hours work, if not making matters worse.
The only way I can do it these days is to tell myself I don't have to; That I have a leisure day, and any programming that intrigues me is welcome.

OIC! 10Q! Hare Krishna!

Kill your partner and the one he/she was cheating with.

I've been cheated on twice and I handled it the same way both times. My ex and I were only together for about a year and a half and I found out from one of his friends that he had been cheating. Appearently with multiple girls. That evening I very calmly told him that I couldn't see us being together forever and because of that we were waisting our time. We broke up... without him even knowing I knew. We've been friends since the break up (several months ago). About a month after the break-up he decided he wanted us to "work it out" I told him what I knew and that he would have to work to regain my trust and until then we are only friends. I've spent the last 4 months being spoiled rotten. He can't do enough. I'll probably let this go on for a while longer before I tell him he doesn't have a chance in hell.

'...waisting our time.' hmm..
I was in shock when I hit your last sentence.

Why's that? The way I look at it is I gave this man everything I had to offer only to have him cheat on me and now he has the nerve to want me back?!?!

There's a difference between confused, irresponsible, ignorant, & possibly repentant; and intentionally malicious. His motive was not to cause you misery. And even if it were.. fight crime by becoming a criminal? I was in shock because you first sentences made you look uncommonly of another character.

All I know is that it sure is making me feel better and hopefully when he feels the heartache as I did it'll make him think twice about doing that to some other poor girl.

You're too nice and sexy to be treated like that!!

I wish more guys thought that way...

It's terrible how some guys treat women!!

Yea well, it's not all guys. Just the ones I date.

You'll get lucky one day

I really hope so. I've had such bad luck I'm ready to swear off men. I'll just live the rest of my life alone with my cats!

Good luck

Thanks

If my husband EVER cheated on me I wouldn't get revenge,I would just kill him dead,I would do it in a heartbeat!!!!I've thought about it many times & I know that I would spend the rest of my life in prison but I wouldn't care.After 29 years of married life,it would be over anyways.

theres two id do if they were out one night walking home id ramp onto the curb and make sure i was doing at least 70 before i hit them then torch the car and report it nicked in the morning (id have to be seriously provoked for this)or just take them for a drive and act normally take them to a field and shoot the fudgeer or just a plain old beating and a knife/bottle across the face so they would be scarred and permenantly ugly especially the woman

thats not revenge thats just pervy man

by posting a picture of him caught leaving the shower on the internet, like I did at http://briefcase.yahoo.com/my_ex_boyfriend_naked

Wow! That looks quite effective. ICQ number and everything.

If they're really into themself, especially their hair, switch their shampoo with Nair.

Well i have had this chat with loads of my friends and we came up with some really good ideas. Some of these were things like drilling a tiny hole into their bath (small enough so they dont notice it) so when they run a bath it leaks and they dont know where the hell it is coming from. These revenge acts were going to be acted out on my ex, who was a DJ. We had one idea where we would get every record he had and scratch a tiny line on them so they dont play anymore. Other ideas were things such as putting brown sauce all over his bed as it stains when in mass amounts.

I need to find a way to get revenge on my partner. He talks to other women and does lord knows what with them but he doesn't know that I know about it. I dont want to do the same to him but I do want revenge or at least to make him feel hurt like he's making me feel hurt. Any suggestions. I'm new to this relationship game but not to dating. We're pretty serious or at least I am. I tried the no sex thing, I've tried the talking it out but he's a very very very good liar and always knows how to get out of the heat.