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Do you consider this "dishonest"?

Someone asks you about the state of something, and you tell them all the positive aspects but leave out the negative stuff, knowing they wouldn't be happy



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11Yes
7No
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4I don't know

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Psychopath Silver Star Survey Creator
posted 5-Jan-2010 8:36pm  
I think that it is dishonest to only give a one-sided picture of something when you know there is also many negative aspects.
Iseult Survey Central Subscriber Silver Star Survey Creator Gold Qualifier
posted 5-Jan-2010 9:07pm  
No. I call this TV news.
dab Survey Central Subscriber Gold Qualifier
(reply to Iseult) posted 5-Jan-2010 11:38pm  
Oh, I don't think TV news and dishonest are incompatible.
Iseult Survey Central Subscriber Silver Star Survey Creator Gold Qualifier
(reply to dab) posted 5-Jan-2010 11:57pm  
No, but I was going by the definition the creator has provided us with - presenting us with one side of the thing. They often do that, especially if they take an official party stance.
LJD
posted 6-Jan-2010 1:27am  
Depends on the "something". If you're selling something, it would be dishonest.
Kellzzy
posted 6-Jan-2010 2:40am  
If someone is trying to make a decision based on the information you give them and you omit relevant details in order to bias them, that's dishonest.
bill Survey Central Gold Subscriber Gold Star Survey Creator This user is on the site NOW (7 minutes ago)
posted 6-Jan-2010 8:32am  
It depends on the situation. Is it your wife asking if she looks fat in this dress? Or is it a general briefing the President on the situation in Afghanistan?
Biggles Bronze Star Survey Creator Survey Qualifier
posted 6-Jan-2010 9:53am  
It depends on the situation. If someone asks what you think of a meal that they prepared, I think it's quite acceptable to comment on everything you enjoyed and quietly ignore anything that you didn't like. If a patient asks a doctor what their health is like, it would be very dishonest to tell them that they had an excellent heart and lungs but neglect to tell them that they had bowel cancer.
Enheduanna Survey Central Subscriber
posted 6-Jan-2010 11:56am  
It really depends on the context. If they asked how what they're wearing looks, I would consider it polite and, perhaps, merciful to focus on the positive. If it's about what they can expect from a visit to the dentist, then I would consider it dishonest. And mean.
cerealkiller Silver Star Survey Creator Gold Qualifier
posted 6-Jan-2010 12:36pm  
No. I do this all the time.
Melf Gold Qualifier
posted 6-Jan-2010 1:02pm  
If they asked me, then yes, it's dishonest. If I told them out of the blue, then no, it's not.
romeoandjuliet
posted 7-Jan-2010 7:47am  
It depends
they Bronze Star Survey Creator Survey Qualifier
posted 7-Jan-2010 11:27am  
It depends
gambler Gold Star Survey Creator
posted 7-Jan-2010 3:10pm  
No, everyone does this when selling a house or Car....................
llamamama Bronze Star Survey Creator
posted 8-Jan-2010 10:01pm  
Yeah. They specifically asked and you didn't tell them everything.
Crayons Bronze Star Survey Creator Survey Qualifier
posted 9-Jan-2010 1:55pm  
Well yeah but that doesn't mean there's anything wrong with doing it.
Icarus Quadruple Gold Star Survey Creator Gold Qualifier Happy Birthday to Me
posted 11-Jan-2010 11:26am  
No, it is not dishonest at all. You have told the person a bunch of truths about a subject. This is probably what the person wanted to hear anyways. You've made the person happy, when you could have instead made them sad, so you've done good thing for them.
Zang
posted 14-Jan-2010 11:31am  
It depends. Am I selling them a car, or is my wife asking me if this dress makes her ass look fat?
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