Is it easier for you to forgive yourself or to forgive others?

Forgive others I guess, I dont know though, there are some people that I am pretty pissed off at right now. Maybe Im not a forgiving person, I DONT KNOW!!

To forgive myself. I tend to hold grudges.

I tend to forgive both. I'm not sure that it's because I am a forgiving person, or just that I'm a forgetful person.

Others.

others

Good question. Depends ....

I don't hold grudges, don't really care about staying angry or upset with someone else. I'm laid back and pretty much take anything anyone does without concern. However I do not forgive myself ever for major things. Some I will beat myself up on until I die.

Depends on what I or others have done - usually others though. I have a hard time getting rid of guilt when I've done something wrong and I'm not really the type to hold a grudge.

I never consider myself guilty.

because you love yourself

Forgive others definitely. I forgive others so incedibly easily..myself..not so much.

Myself , I think

I can forgive others much more easily. I simply feel 'they did the best they could in those circumstances' but when it comes to soemthing I did I am thinking 'I could have done better'.

i SAY BOTH

I was going to say myself, because, who understands me better than, well, me? But there are things that I have done that are embarrassing, from years ago, that I still physically flinch when I think about them or I see or hear something that reminds me of those events.

I find that I am just so naive when it comes to other people, I let them do whatever they want to me, at least if they're two-faced. So I think, I've decided, to just prevent this by trying to get some respect. I guess I've blamed myself for the fact that I can get treated very poorly. It must have been my fault because I didn't dress the right way, or walk the right way, or do the right things. Now that I can dress how I want to do and be more, well, "cool" because I've learned from my mistakes to not be so.. faulty, I assume people won't be driven to treat me like that. And if I do, maybe I should just.. get mad.

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I do NOT forgive anyone, myself included. Most of the stuff I do not forgive myself for is not taking advantage of situations that were right in front of me and like a dummy did not go for it... And not surprisingly most involve females and not going for it... ROFL....

Self.

I don't forgive myself much for trivial things. Big mistakes I would never do again aren't much problem though.

Forgiving others doesn't come up for me. I don't consider others in terms other than behavior tendencies to keep mind of. Forgiving goes hand in hand with expectations and judgments of others I don't have in the first place.

Others.

It's totally easier to forgive myself.

others

It's a little bit easier for me to forgive myself. Sometimes, I trust myself more than I can anyone else.

i hold things over my head and don't let go. hardly ever. i'm overly trusting when it comes to other people.