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Is your life the way you expected it to be?




 

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Jody Bronze Star Survey Creator Survey Qualifier
posted 29-May-2009 2:18pm  
No, not really. It's more difficult and unpleasant than I thought it would be, but more deeply satisfying.
LindaH Survey Central Gold Subscriber Bronze Star Survey Creator Survey Qualifier
posted 29-May-2009 3:09pm  
I never expected anything.
LJD Survey Qualifier
posted 29-May-2009 3:46pm  
Yes, and no.
JessicaWoman99
posted 29-May-2009 4:01pm  
Yes my life is the way it should be
Crayons Gold Star Survey Creator Gold Qualifier
posted 29-May-2009 4:13pm  
Not even a little bit. Then again, when I was younger, I thought all teenagers were the same, and they always had boyfriends and did cool things.
bill Survey Central Gold Subscriber Double Gold Star Survey Creator
posted 29-May-2009 5:21pm  
I don't think I have a lot of expectations.
shizzneessbud
posted 29-May-2009 8:37pm  
hell no, i always wish i could die. but i don't have the guts to do it.
Enheduanna Survey Central Subscriber
posted 30-May-2009 11:59am  
Not really. But in a good way.
Iseult Quadruple Gold Star Survey Creator Gold Qualifier
posted 30-May-2009 5:33pm  
Some aspects.

It would be foolish to expect everything to go the way you've expected it to. (I know, I shouldn't've used expect twice).
Cain
posted 30-May-2009 5:54pm  
Right this moment? No, not in the slightest. This was not in the plan.
meowry
posted 30-May-2009 11:12pm  
I didn't expect much for my life (if ANYTHING), so--all problems considered--it's better! (Even though it sux...for now....) Well, it could be a lot worse.
cantilever
posted 31-May-2009 2:39am  
No. As a young girl/teen, I would never have envisaged I would be single, unattached and a lesbian at age 27
But who's complaining??
Lahdee
posted 31-May-2009 6:16pm  
Yes, except for all of the crazy people.
jettles Survey Central Gold Subscriber Bronze Star Survey Creator Gold Qualifier
posted 31-May-2009 10:16pm  
yes and no...... not all of it i guess but then i never "expected" anything specific!
cerealkiller Gold Star Survey Creator Gold Qualifier
posted 1-Jun-2009 2:59pm  
No, but all my life I could never visualize beyond 3-5 years into the future or if I'd even be alive.
Snoopyfan
posted 2-Jun-2009 2:17pm  
Not really
zecevicleila
posted 3-Jun-2009 10:55am  
Nope.
Biggles Bronze Star Survey Creator Gold Qualifier
posted 5-Jun-2009 8:22pm  
Broadly speaking, yes. My chosen career is very different from anything I had mapped out for myself as a teen, but if I went back in time and told my 14 year old self what I'm doing now, I don't think that she would be shocked. She might wonder why I didn't turn out to be a human rights lawyer though.
cloudhugger Bronze Star Survey Creator
posted 8-Jun-2009 2:23am  
I had no expectations. It is what it is. I would hve been surprised if I was married to a guy, had a stable realtionship, children and a white picket fence.
Really, I had no plan but to go go go where ever, what ever.
Wicksy Gold Star Survey Creator
posted 8-Jun-2009 9:59am  
Strange but nice
they Bronze Star Survey Creator Survey Qualifier
posted 10-Jun-2009 11:04pm  
Meh.
jeff71913
posted 19-Jun-2009 8:39pm  
Pretty much.
autumnlight
posted 24-Jun-2009 4:39pm  
Not really. I expected to be a bigger success by this point I suppose. I don't know why, since I'm not particularly career orientated.
coffee5437 Bronze Star Survey Creator
posted 25-Jun-2009 8:46pm  
Not hardly! I find it more interesting and surprising than I thought is would be. Thank goodness. That which does not kill me only makes me stronger. There have been times I thought it couldn't get any worse but it did. Times I thought I would be miserable for the rest of my life. Melodramatic you think but those are places I have been and gotten through. I have been happy, felt a failure & accomplished, experienced loss, been sick enough to wish I weren't conscience or dead, laughed, cried, blah, blah, blah. I had a wonderful childhood, emotional teen but a great time, a too young bride (19). I have made many mistakes but I have had more good times than bad and thank god for it all.
docgbrown
posted 27-Jun-2009 6:20am  
Noper
Kristal_Rose Survey Central Gold Subscriber Silver Star Survey Creator Survey Qualifier
posted 7-Jul-2009 4:28am  
No, but's it's how I could have expected it to be if I'd given it much thought.

I had many dreams when younger, and in unexpected ways have lived to fullfill those dreams (..some highly improbable ones even). Hopefully that will keep going on, because I still have a few thousand more unfulfilled dreams yet.

It's actually amazing how well I knew by the age of seven that I'd be spending the millenium in Alaska of all places, that I would eventually settle down to working in brass mechanisms after pioneering in computers and media, that I would work on steam vehicles and flying machines, that I would become a mystic.

As much of a rennaissance person as I am, the seeds of most of what I was to become were already evident to me by age seven. I thought I would live in something closer to a palace than a studio apartment though.

Generally though I expected from age five to age 30 to be the next Disney or Gates. That never happened.
What did happen though was counselling/mentoring played a large role in my life. I don't know why that didn't occur to me, because it's something I had been doing all along since young without giving much thought to.
rich34668
posted 14-Jul-2009 1:29pm  
NO
Melf Gold Qualifier
posted 29-Jul-2009 5:21am  
Already no.
mandy Gold Qualifier
posted 1-Sep-2009 2:11pm  
no
Rosemary
posted 19-Oct-2009 4:11am  
no
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