Spanking my 5yr old son

Well, I doubt the keywords spanking and urination are going to really get me anything relevant on Google.
It's probably just that when he gets hit the bladder is shaken up kind of like. I mean, it makes sense to me. Maybe he's getting spanked too hard. I've never heard of that.

No. Does he wet his bed at night?

> No. Does he wet his bed at night?

No he doesn't,just only when he gets a spanking.

Maybe a different form of discipline should be administered other than physical.

You shouldn't be spanking your son in the first place.

It's you who is not normal. Stop spanking. Your son will only hate you for it.

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this may be a medical condition worth looking into. What does that child do so awful he needs to be beat so often a month for anyway?

Why are u spanking him? That's not normal!!

I can't even remember spanking my kids - is it really necessary? I have two well balanced adults who were reared without spanking, go figure...

Maybe he's peeing when you spank him because he doesn't like his mommy posting pictures like that on the Internet.

Five year olds can be weird, you should confront him about that.

Are you sure you're not talking about your dog and not your kid? Do you know what it means when your dog pisses on the floor when you look at him the wrong way?

Abnormal. Check with the doctor. Be prepared to have him/her reprimand you for your parenting. Change over to a time out or natural consequences discipline style.

um, i dont think we ever spanked our son. usually, hes not that bad and doesnt deserve it.

Well I have never heard of this...But I'm guessing he gets either nurvis or something and he can't help himself when he gets spanked... My suggesttion is so stop spanking him!!! violence is not the answer!

This whole survey seems odd...I think this (and you) are fictional.

Hah, bet people will say spanking is bad. Just handcuff the rat to the bed like my wife's ex did to the boys when they were little.

As a man, I would never spank my daughter. I feel this could lead to her putting up with abuse in relationships.

My wife doesn't really spank either, except for the occassional smack in the mouth when Cynthia is fresh. But I can count on one hand how many times this has happened. So, I am not a big fan of spanking to begin with. Haing said that, it seems apparent that spanking is a severe punishment for your child.

I would recommend the punishment I use...a soap sandwich. Cynthia hates this; though, she has had only 2 soap sandwiches in her life. Anyway, the mere mention of a soap sandwich immediately corrects the offensive behavior without violence.

I have heard of this and the way you correct this is for you to drink a gallon of bleach before you spank him. It works like a charm.

Good one.

Yes, my kid did that when he was about 5, but he eventually grew out of it. YES... I am one of the few who still believe in spankings.

Yes, if he if frightened enough

No i do not recommend spanking him they call this child abuse in most states

> No. Does he wet his bed at night?

Would this be considered child abuse in most states ? because laws have changed in my 50 years

> Well I have never heard of this...But I'm guessing he gets either
> nurvis or something and he can't help himself when he gets spanked...
> My suggesttion is so stop spanking him!!! violence is not the answer!

Oh yes just what i said violence spanking a child is child abuse CG Tree and nice to see you back again!

Spanking, unfortunately, has been frowned upon by the law. There is a difference between spanking, and beating. I used a switch, or a hot wheel track. I was the only disciplinarian, with the exception of once or twice by my husband. My husband said "he didn't want to be the bad guy". I admit, I was tough. But, I couldn't be with four children at once most the time. I admit, on some things, I was naive. Through all my children's misgivings, not being perfect...I love them, and they know I do, and they love me. We never part without saying we love each other.

Probably you've terrified him and he's lost his sphincter control. You should take him to see a doctor though. Also, stop beating your small child and get yourself some guidance on alternative methods of discipline.

Thanks!! my computer broke for a long time...and i still don't have one but I have a library close to my house now.. I mived to edmonton from north Bay ontatrio recently!

> Thanks!! my computer broke for a long time...and i still don't have
> one but I have a library close to my house now.. I mived to edmonton
> from north Bay ontatrio recently!

Oh wow Edmonton bet it is cold up there and my computer has been crap as well
and here at home my pipes have frozen plus my hot water heater went out and life just sucks talk about not
feeling so good ??

You may be creating a new problem...you may want to try something else because he may be experiencing emotional trauma because of the thought of being spanked.

Yeah it's pretty cold here...But it was just as cold in Ontario...just not for such a long time. Just a few days ago it was like -35 with the wind chill and now it's up to +2 or during the day. It's so random. But thats ok. That sucks about the pips freezing! and the water heater going out! Life sure throws you a curve ball once in a while eh. I have a had a few curve balls in the past few months. Hopefully things get better for you!

> Yeah it's pretty cold here...But it was just as cold in Ontario...just
> not for such a long time. Just a few days ago it was like -35 with
> the wind chill and now it's up to +2 or during the day. It's so random.
> But thats ok. That sucks about the pips freezing! and the water heater
> going out! Life sure throws you a curve ball once in a while eh.
> I have a had a few curve balls in the past few months. Hopefully
> things get better for you!

Yep if i ever make it thru this winter the first thing this summer is ? heat tape all my water pipes and winterize under my home and really insulate this place real good for the next winter of 2009 2010

Gee we have been minus -10 below out here in Colorado and at times we get even colder than that but i just leave my
water dripping all night long to prevent my pipes from freezing up

Ahh yes the old leave the water running trick!! I forgot about that one.

> Ahh yes the old leave the water running trick!! I forgot about that
> one.

But then i got struck down again my car broke down and had to be towed home gee one thing after thee other

Yeah yeah...thats the way it goes...one bad thing happends and then its all down hill from there.

> Yeah yeah...thats the way it goes...one bad thing happends and then
> its all down hill from there.

And my car is still broken down and all because of these flexible fuel lines on my Chevy Lumina they just do not make
these from Chevrolet so i went online and looked them up?
Sent out lots of email to salvage yards and got lucky in Minnesota they had them for $32.00 and will get them the
faster way that i can to Colorado and gee cannot believe this is happening to me

No, this has never happend with my kids