Would you look?

No. I'm not curious about stuff like that.

Yup, I'd be too curious in this instance to take the moral high ground.

I wouldn't, however, do this in a public setting with a stranger's email.

No.

I might innocently glance, but I wouldn't delve in. Generally, I tend to assume neither of us has anything to hide, so I don't really see it as a big deal either way.

No. No desire whatsoever.

Depends...

nope

yes, I would not dive. Skimming the surface is not deep dive fishing.

I'm saying what bill says.

and if that sonof adog ever% looks at myprivates he will have what is coming to him!

I've looked at the subject lines of the emails. If one of them said, 'girlfriend's photo and phone', I'd open it.

I've looked at the subject lines of the emails. If one of them said, 'girlfriend's photo and phone', I'd open it. ...............I think this is what I would do too

I'd try really, really hard not to.

I have done this

Would never happen. My wife doesn't even know how to turn a computer on let alone have email.

No maybe not who cares

NEVER! It's not my business and I have no right there. I would not want anyone to do this to me so I can't bring myself to do it to others. My husband has been gone for almost 2 years and I still have his private folder on my computer - I don't want to look through it. I haven't deleted it yet because all the music he downloaded is in there and one day, when I have time to kill, I'll go through it to select what I want to keep. All the other stuff I'll avoid. What would be the point of finding something that may have me questioning without the possibility of getting answers? What I don't know won't hurt me...

Yes, and I would probably feel guilty afterwards. Unless, I felt a certain suspeciousness towards someone that I felt something was "up", then it might be normal. Like spouses feeling like their spouses are doing something they both agreed on NOT doing that would hurt the relationship. Boy... that is a tough one.

Nah. I get enough of my own! Looking at theirs would be like collecting the mail from the mailbox, seeing who sent something but not opening the envelope. And if you wouldn't open an envelope that wasn't addressed to you ( and you wouldn't, would you?!) why bother.

With each lost love, it gets harder and harder to feel the way you talk about.

You lose faith in people after a while.

At least I do.

What are you talking about they? I've never had faith in people, only in me...

Being totally honest and open from the start will likely bring on the same in the other. If you don't freak out when he looks at another woman or accept that he's had a life before he met you, or never ever show the little green monster within; it will allow him to be honest, but that's only if he's a good man to start with.

I'm not naturally jealous.... I've learned to be less trusting though. It's disheartening..

I know dear... It's rough but I think it's his loss really.

It really, really is!!!

Nah. No point.

No, I have no reason to look (again).

No I would not. Careless for the person to leave the account open, but that is personel. However, if it was a child and maybe the child has been showing signs of rebellion, it may be your parently duty to see. risky at best.