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multiple3-Oct-2008personal experienceIseult Silver Star Survey Creatorby votes41557.9%

  How do people of the same sex as you but taller than yourself make you feel?

I am asking this because being 6'1 I don't often encounter females taller than myself. However, it's not uncommon to meet someone of the same height or a bit shorter. I spoke to a girl the other day, she's 6'4, and just standing beside her and seeing our reflections in the mirror (we were in the public toilet) made me feel really small.

VotesAnswer
14It makes me feel...
11Other
3I like it
3I don't have this problem - I don't think I've ever encountered anyone taller than myself
3I don't like it
0Everyone is taller than me

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Iseult Silver Star Survey Creator
posted 3-Oct-2008 11:03pm  

They make me feel small. Like they're intruding on my territory. Like they're trying to take away my alpha-female status, godammit.
Strider Survey Central Gold SubscriberGold Qualifier
posted 3-Oct-2008 11:28pm  

short
JessicaWoman99
posted 4-Oct-2008 12:02am  

Does not make me feel any different another woman taller than i am and i am 5' 5"
llamamama
posted 4-Oct-2008 12:11am  

It doesn't really happen to me as much as you'd think..Most girls are my height or a little taller or a little shorter. So it's not enough where you have to crane your neck up or look way down.There is one exception that I can think of though where the girl is 5'11''..doesn't make me feel too weird.
Galomorro Bronze Star Survey CreatorGold Qualifier
posted 4-Oct-2008 12:17am  

I couldn't care less. I'm short but don't care.
cantilever Survey Qualifier
posted 4-Oct-2008 12:20am  

Mostly, only the giantesses are taller. And they make me feel good
Melf Survey Central SubscriberBronze Star Survey CreatorGold QualifierThis user is on the site NOW (1 minute and 3 seconds ago)
posted 4-Oct-2008 4:54am  

Eh.
bill Survey Central Gold SubscriberSilver Star Survey Creator
posted 4-Oct-2008 8:20am  

It's hard to say. I suppose I am subtly intimidated. I've read via various psychology books that height makes a big difference when it comes to pecking order. For example, most lawyers know that the tallest male on a jury is likely to be the leader.

For a woman, I wonder if it affects/limits who you date. I assume there's a fair bit of resistance to date a man who is shorter than you. I assume it would be hard for you to respect him and hard for him to cope with it, given social norms/expectations of male dominance.
Enheduanna Survey Central Subscriber
posted 4-Oct-2008 9:01am  

It depends. Is she taller than me and also a dog? Then she makes me feel unhappy. If she's taller than me and nice, it makes me feel good. I have no reaction to a person based on their height. I guess if they were majorly short or majorly tall, then I might notice it, but it wouldn't have any effect on how I felt about the person.
gambler Double Gold Star Survey CreatorSurvey Qualifier
posted 4-Oct-2008 9:03am  

*shrugs* I am 6ft 4" , its not often i find people taller than I , but it doesnt bother me
gambler Double Gold Star Survey CreatorSurvey Qualifier
(reply to Iseult) posted 4-Oct-2008 9:04am  

........we are all the same horizontal , sweety..........
gambler Double Gold Star Survey CreatorSurvey Qualifier
posted 4-Oct-2008 9:09am  

LindaH Survey Central Gold SubscriberGold Star Survey Creator
posted 4-Oct-2008 10:47am  

indifferent
romkey Survey Central Gold Subscriber
posted 4-Oct-2008 11:21am  

I'm tall, 6'4". Mostly I feel bad for them as it seems like I'm right at the limit of what people design for normally. It must be difficult being even taller than that.
Cain
posted 4-Oct-2008 12:56pm  

I'm 6'3'',and I've only met a woman taller than me once - she was 6'7'', a lady from Sweden, she was a proper Viking! Huge and beautiful with blond hair down to her waist.
Crayons Bronze Star Survey CreatorSurvey Qualifier
posted 4-Oct-2008 2:26pm  

I like it. I feel weird and awkward and gangly when the person next to me is shorter, sometimes.
southernyankee Bronze Star Survey Creator
posted 4-Oct-2008 2:29pm  

Unless the other guy is "stealing" away some woman from me who gets an advantage from being taller, I most likely wouldn't care.
Joanne Double Gold Star Survey CreatorGold Qualifier
posted 4-Oct-2008 3:07pm  

I prefer it to seeing someone of the opposite sex shorter than myself.
meowry New User
posted 4-Oct-2008 4:29pm  

I am slightly taller than the national average. But where I live, the average is even shorter. So I like to see women who are taller than I am (67 inches/170 cm).
they Survey Central SubscriberBronze Star Survey Creator
posted 4-Oct-2008 6:36pm  

It makes me feel normal.

Usually, I'm the big girl because I'm 5'9". I dwarf most women.
cloudhugger Survey Central SubscriberSilver Star Survey CreatorSurvey Qualifier
posted 4-Oct-2008 7:17pm  

It makes me feel ...a little bit horny.
jettles Survey Central SubscriberSurvey Qualifier
posted 5-Oct-2008 8:05am  

doesn't matter to me. i am 5'7" and i meet some women taller than me.
LJD Bronze Star Survey CreatorGold Qualifier
posted 6-Oct-2008 1:18am  

I have no feelings one way or the other.
Kristal_Rose Survey Central Gold SubscriberBronze Star Survey Creator
posted 6-Oct-2008 2:53am  

I've only encountered a couple people taller than myself, and when I do it makes me feel really wierd. That may be only because it's so rare fo me. They could be painted green and I'd probably feel the same way. Maybe not though. It has an imposing feel to it, like meeting some sort of god or space-alien. Still though, I can't imagine short people live with that sensation on a regular basis.
Kristal_Rose Survey Central Gold SubscriberBronze Star Survey Creator
(reply to bill) posted 6-Oct-2008 3:01am  

It's looking to me like SC members are taller than average. That might have some bearing on their fitting in here.

Anyways, one day a person approached me with their views on tall people, which made sense to me. He suggested tall people could not escape being watched, and therefore were pressured to fit the mold of high conduct. As far as leaders go, as those lawyers noticed, again it may be that there are expectations of leadership placed upon tall persons which they grow to fulfill. In grade school I spent a lot of time discussing things in private with my teachers. It hadn't occurred to me till now that height may have been a factor in that, but I'm sure such discussions had a bearing on the sort of adult I would become. Pure physics may nurture early maturity in some persons.
bill Survey Central Gold SubscriberSilver Star Survey Creator
(reply to Kristal_Rose) posted 6-Oct-2008 5:34am  

I seem taller on the Internet than I really am. *smile*
icurok
posted 6-Oct-2008 7:01am  

I dont' 'feel' anything..

I just think.. "oh, he's tall".
judgescratch
posted 6-Oct-2008 7:54am  

It just is.
Matty Survey Central SubscriberGold Star Survey CreatorSurvey Qualifier
posted 6-Oct-2008 8:02am  

I am 6'3" without shoes, so this doesn't happen very often, but when it does, it's disconcerting.
Kristal_Rose Survey Central Gold SubscriberBronze Star Survey Creator
(reply to bill) posted 6-Oct-2008 8:16am  

Maybe, except for that pumpkin president avatar. That makes it even creepier, tall person disguised as pumpkin.
bill Survey Central Gold SubscriberSilver Star Survey Creator
(reply to Kristal_Rose) posted 6-Oct-2008 10:34am  

I'm wider in real life than I am on the Internet.
moviesnob Survey Central Subscriber
posted 6-Oct-2008 10:43am  

I don't have any feeling about it one way or another.
Irene007 Survey Central Gold Subscriber
posted 6-Oct-2008 4:56pm  

It makes me feel short - I don't wear 5 inch heels for nothing... I suspect that this is an Iseult survey - am I right???
Irene007 Survey Central Gold Subscriber
posted 6-Oct-2008 4:57pm  

*laughing out loud* Do I win a prize??
cerealkiller Bronze Star Survey CreatorSurvey Qualifier
posted 6-Oct-2008 5:00pm  

indifferent. Most people are at least my height or up to 3" taller so this is normal. I'm 5'-11" tall. It feels stranger to me talking to another male who is much smaller, like a guy at work who must be only 5'-4".
Kristal_Rose Survey Central Gold SubscriberBronze Star Survey Creator
(reply to bill) posted 6-Oct-2008 7:11pm  

Considering you're global on the internet, that's scary too.
Otter Bronze Star Survey CreatorSurvey Qualifier
posted 8-Oct-2008 12:41pm  

I don't care, I'm 6'1" and they're alot of men taller than me, some women too.
Pomeranian
posted 10-Oct-2008 4:16am  

flushed.
soyring1 Bronze Star Survey CreatorNew User
posted 25-Oct-2008 4:31pm  

i feel unimprtant- like it's a competion I've lost



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