| User | Comment |
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bill    |
fun |
Crayons   |
Part of our culture, and efficient because then you don't have to go through the divorce thing and lose your stuff. |
Galomorro  |
I think it's fine. That way you'll know if you're compatible should you later wish to marry. |
Melf  |
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| LindaH |
Inevitable, seeing as so many people don't believe in marriage |
| Cain |
I think premarital sex is the norm. I'd be stuffed if it wasn't. |
| LJD |
It's wrong....for those that indulge, they will pay the price in many ways....guilty conscience, unwanted pregnancy, disease. God said no, and for a reason. |
| LindaH | | (reply to LJD) posted 3-Aug-2008 3:58pm |
Married people get unwanted pregnancy and disease too. A piece of legal paper is no protection.
Non-married long term monogamous partners have no higher rates of disease and unwanted pregnancy than married couples.
Only those who find it wrong get a guilty conscience. |
| ausfox |
Fine |
Iseult  |
Whatever. If you want to abstain from sex before you get married, good for you. |
| moviesnob |
I think it's fine. Nothing wrong with it. |
| Pomeranian |
If all the other animals get to do it then why shouldn't we? |
| cloudhugger |
I prefer not to talk about pr***al s*x. I don't even want to spell it out. |
| llamamama |
Ya know, I don't know. |
| they |
A wonderful way to discover your partner before you marry them. |
| ElvisFan67 |
As long as it's done with protection, I'm cool with it. |
| jettles |
what it is............ it doesn't bother me one way or the other. |
| romkey |
A damned good idea. If you're going to commit to staying with someone for your whole life, you'd better know that you're sexually compatible with them. |
| Irene007 | | posted 4-Aug-2008 12:56am |
It's fine. I don't see how signing a contract makes it any different. |
| Irene007 | | (reply to LJD) posted 4-Aug-2008 12:57am |
> It's wrong....for those that indulge, they will pay the price in
> many ways....guilty conscience, unwanted pregnancy, disease. God
> said no, and for a reason.
Do you live in the Bible Belt? |
| cantilever |
I think premarital sex is essential. So is post marital sex! |
| dab |
Yes, I would have to go with "I think premarital sex is". No question about it. |
| Matty |
I think this is essentially an outdated concept. However, I don't think that's a good thing. I think women lost much personal power once men discovered women like sex, too. I don't see many men respecting and honoring women like they used to. It's a shame really; I think sex has been devalued.
Finally, this survey is poorly written; evidently English mechanics are devalued as well. |
| Matty | | (reply to Irene007) posted 4-Aug-2008 8:55am |
Do you really feel marriage is little more than a contract? Ouch! I respectfully disagree with that idea. |
| Irene007 | | (reply to Matty) posted 4-Aug-2008 10:20am |
Yep, I do because with the divorce rate existing today; it's little more than a piece of paper. No one seems to be able to make any real commitments to relationships nowadays. I personally preferred marriage than just common law, especially with children - which we "practiced" creating before we got married! ...but that's just me... |
| LJD | | (reply to Irene007) posted 4-Aug-2008 11:17am |
I live in liberalville, in California. About a 40 minute drive inland from San Francisco. I live in Silicon Valley.
I was born in the heart of the Bible Belt. We came to California when I was two years. |
| ScubaScott | | posted 4-Aug-2008 11:40am |
I'm all for it.
Why wait and build it up into this huge thing on your wedding night and put all this pressure on yourselves... only to have it last ten seconds and say "THAT'S what we waited for"? Wouldn't you rather be good at it and make that part of your wedding day/night incredible instead of clumsy? |
| Enheduanna | | posted 4-Aug-2008 11:54am |
I think the idea of waiting to have sex until you're married is stupid. If it's something someone wants to do, that's fine, but there shouldn't be any pressure on people to do it. |
| Matty | | (reply to Irene007) posted 4-Aug-2008 12:20pm |
You are seemingly describing what you view as a societal reality, but that's not quite what I meant. While I certainly understand the point you're making, personally, I could care less how society views premarital sex, marriage, or any of that stuff. Further, I have no problem being Quixotic, if it's for something I believe. What I meant to ask you directly was do you view marriage as little more than a piece of paper in your personal life, or does marriage have a different meaning for you? |
| Irene007 | | (reply to LJD) posted 4-Aug-2008 3:34pm |
Hmmm.... Sounds like your roots are still in the belt!  |
| Irene007 | | (reply to Matty) posted 4-Aug-2008 3:40pm |
I was married and I took it seriously - trust me, it wasn't easy at times but... It's funny because a year before I met my husband, I swore that I'd never sign a piece of paper that said I belong to someone and yet I did get married. Also, the fact that I became pregnant the very next day ensured that we would remain together. I'm glad we did. |
| kcthedog | | posted 5-Aug-2008 12:44am |
I think premarital sex is....sex before marriage! I win! Premarital sex IS sex before marriage !
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| Matty | | (reply to Irene007) posted 5-Aug-2008 7:50am |
Well then, we share some things in common. I love my wife dearly and would never get a divorce; I will never cheat either. But there are days when a really nice rack will make me stare at my ring after that woman is out of sight.
Also, before I got married, I envisioned myself fudging every woman I could get my hands on; I never saw myself as married.
But alas, things changed when I met my wife. When we first met, she refused to do anything with me for a long time. Perhaps that's what initially created my longing for her.
Anyway, maybe you you are just longing to find true love again; good luck and God bless you. |
| Irene007 | | (reply to Matty) posted 5-Aug-2008 10:46am |
Yep, I am longing but I seem to be looking in the wrong places... |
| Matty | | (reply to Irene007) posted 5-Aug-2008 10:54am |
I am sorry, Irene; I read your User's page and remembered that you were a widow; that must be awful. I can't even imagine how I might feel. I don't even know how to properly offer condolences; I think that anything I would say would sound stupid in the context of how you must feel.
As far as the wrong places, who can say what the right places are? I think these things are all about chance anyway. I met my wife in the most unlikely place imaginable. |
| LJD | | (reply to Irene007) posted 5-Aug-2008 11:52am |
Yes, I believe you're right  |
| Irene007 | | (reply to Matty) posted 5-Aug-2008 12:49pm |
Thanks Matty - I've moved on and don't dwell on the past; it's pointless and hurts for nothing. I'd rather look at the new opportunities that my change in life has brought on and I'm having fun doing what I want when I want but sometimes I'd like to settle down again... I don't really know what I want right now, so I'm not looking for anything - I'm just taking one day at a time.
So where did you meet your wife? |
| Matty | | (reply to Irene007) posted 5-Aug-2008 1:30pm |
On a beach in Equador...when we were both on vacation. I stared at her rack for about an hour before she brought me over a picture and suggested I attach the picture to my glasses so I could look at her long after she left.
See, there may be some potential when somone can't take his eye off your boobies.  |
| Irene007 | | (reply to Matty) posted 5-Aug-2008 2:26pm |
Hmmmm..... Depends on the beholder! Trust me! Just last night, I somehow ended up downtown with some friends and I wasn't really dressed to go out. I was wearing shorts and flats but I had a pair of high heels in the car (I don't even remember why they were there in the first place but I was glad that they were!) and put them on to jazz it up a bit. Sheesh! Went into a shop, got a little too much service and compliments. I had to get out of there - then we went to a bar and the woman I was with and I entered before the guys we were with did. Within a minute - a table of 5 appeared next to us; one of the guys kept staring; it was embarrassing! I didn't know where to look. It wasn't for the other woman, she's 7 months pregnant so... I was real happy when our friends showed up. Attention is fine but there's not that much quality attention. Too much of it can make one feel kind of lonely - it's strange really. |
| Matty | | (reply to Irene007) posted 5-Aug-2008 2:36pm |
I can understand that, and I suppose that I would not want to be stared at like that either. However, please be aware that I love to stare at boobies and will come up with any lame excuse possible for doing so. Think of it like this; that guy was...admiring you...in a way that's complimentary.
Or, you can just say, Matty, you're full of crap, there is no excuse for rack staring.
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| aquawolfy |
I dont think its good |
| Irene007 | | (reply to Matty) posted 5-Aug-2008 9:38pm |
It wasn't my rack they were staring at last night apparently - it was my legs (when I was standing anyway)... After I wrote my other message, I remembered some other guy who gave me a look when I was entering the club then I noticed him again at the other end of the terrace were we parked ourselves, he was still giving me the look - then I noticed he was sitting with another woman!! It was nice that he was so far away.  It's not like I was wearing a plunging neckline or anything, it was the short shorts.... I won't wear those in town again! All this reminds me of a funny tee-shirt I saw online; Please tell your boobs to stop staring at my eyes!! In this case, they were staring at my eyes, just to get my attention. *sigh*
Something funny just happened on my way to my customer's, I was on the highway - speeding a little in the passing lane - and this guy came up real fast behind me. He was about to start tailgating so I'd change lanes when I spotted a cop in the far right lane. I stepped on the brakes (which slowed him down somewhat), I changed lanes while he took notice of why I had braked in his face. As he passed me, I looked over and he gave me a wink. Now, in this case, I know it wasn't because of my 22 inch wheels or my face! It felt good!  I rendered a good service to a cute guy, unwittingly! |
| cshakisia |
i am against it but i fell in the same trap i wish i would have waited |
| cerealkiller | | posted 13-Aug-2008 7:14pm |
mandatory, and especially before adult age. |
| justjulie | | posted 16-Aug-2008 8:03am |
tis the only kind of sex there is |
| JessicaWoman99 | | posted 20-Aug-2008 1:24pm |
I think that if your horney then premarital sex is great" |
| Wicksy |
Fine. Sex is there to pro-create, it doesn't matter when you do it (although over the age of consent of course!) |
