| User | Comment |
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dab   | | posted 21-Jun-2008 6:26pm |
Your answers should be answers, not additional questions.
As to your question, if you dressed that way when he became your boyfriend then wanting you to change now seems ridiculous. |
Melf    | | posted 21-Jun-2008 6:36pm |
Maybe you should think about if you are attention seeking or not. But, it's mostly his problem. |
gambler  | | posted 21-Jun-2008 6:38pm |
I cannot answer this with out pictures................alot of pictures *cue stupid grin* |
LindaH   | | posted 21-Jun-2008 6:53pm |
Continue to wear what you want and feel comfortable in. Your boyfriend is not your parent, and shouldn't be trying to control what you wear. It's a stupid thing to complain about. Do not change something so superficial and unimportant to "keep your bf happy" If he can't be happy unless his girlfriend is dressed how HE wants her to dress, then he's not selfless enough to have a girlfriend. If he's feeling threatened by other guys 'chatting you up' then he has TRUST issues. If he trusts you, he wouldn't care that other guys talk to you. I'd never stay with a guy who had a problem with me talking to other guys. Your guy needs to be enlightened. |
| JessicaWoman99 | | posted 21-Jun-2008 8:38pm |
You should start complaining about what he wears he cannot tell you what to wear to bad for him , enjoy
being a woman and keep wearing your short skirts and dresses do not let him talk you out of this |
| kcthedog | | posted 21-Jun-2008 8:48pm |
I dont know how old you are but I would say your boy friend is immature and is insecure. He has a right to make suggestions but not to 'tell' you what to wear. |
| Galomorro | | posted 21-Jun-2008 10:08pm |
Sounds like this could lead to future trouble if he's gonna be worried about other guys looking at you. If it were me I'd continue to wear what I want and feel comfortable in. |
| kirst | | posted 21-Jun-2008 11:02pm |
Keep your wardrobe, bin your boyfriend. He sounds like a control freak. |
| jess82091 | | posted 22-Jun-2008 1:54am |
I don't really think it's a boyfriends place to tell their girlfriend what they can and can't wear. I think that's for you to decide. I think he can voice his opinion about it, but ultimately if you still want to dress the way you do, than he should respect that or break up with you if it's that much of a problem for him. Actually, I think that guys should flaunt there girlfriends...he should just be like, "Yeah, isn't she hot? Haha yep, that's my girlfriend."  |
| mrmarm | | posted 22-Jun-2008 2:58am |
You should wear what you want as long as you ain't naked in public or wearing something illegal to me he soudns like he's trying to control you, don't cave in cause them he'd think he'd he able to tell you what you to do next and then controlling your life. |
| bill | | posted 22-Jun-2008 8:25am |
wear what you want... reassure your boyfriend that you're only interested in him |
| rustygirl50 | | posted 22-Jun-2008 8:42am |
He'd rather see me running around naked. But I'm not going to do that.. |
| they | | posted 22-Jun-2008 8:49am |
Men that do this are usually the bad ones.
Ditch him, and find a good one -- One that makes you feel good about the way you look and dress.
This is his problem, not yours.
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| llamamama | | posted 22-Jun-2008 10:28am |
Well, if you dress like a skank, yes..if not nah..
I picked "Does my bf have a right to complain about what I wear" |
| Enheduanna | | posted 22-Jun-2008 1:05pm |
Your boyfriend doesn't have a right to tell you what to wear, but he does have a right to tell you how he feels and you have an obligation to protect his feelings, at least within certain parameters. What I really think is that you should think about why you like wearing such short skirts. As someone who wears skirts, I know that the really short ones are usually less comfortable because they require constant attention so as not to flash the entire world. I suspect you like the feeling of sexiness you have in these clothes, and there's nothing wrong with that, but it's understandable that your boyfriend feels like it's not solely for his benefit. Maybe you can tell him you like to feel sexy for him. (Assuming you do.) |
| southernyankee | | posted 22-Jun-2008 1:27pm |
Yes, he certainly has a right to complain, likewise you have a right to keep wearing what you like to wear; just like both of you have the right to break up with the other one (hint hint).
Complaining is pretty much a god-given right that everyone has if you can make a legitimate case for it. Not wanting others to check out your bf/gf is a valid one. |
| Gomezy3k | | posted 22-Jun-2008 1:44pm |
Hey continue to wear what you want to wear.. the shorter skirt or dress and the tinier the cut offs or shorts the better...show those goodies off... the rest of us guys love the Hooker tramp look...and enjoy looking at girls showing their goodies when they bend over or go up stairs (by the way, don't wear underwear, that is an even hotter look)... |
| docgbrown | | posted 22-Jun-2008 3:50pm |
I wish I had your bf's problem. I can only get my wife to wear a skirt or dress if we are attending a formal occasion and as soon as it is over she is back in pants or shorts. If I knew your guy I'd slap him on the back of his head and caution him to count his blessings. |
| jettles | | posted 23-Jun-2008 9:31am |
this has about 7 surveys in one! this shouldn't have gotten out of qual...... that being said: your being faithful or not has nothing to do with whether or not he complains about what you wear. and he has the right to complain about what ever he wants and you need to decide whether to continue to listen to the complaints and comply. so you and he either have trust or not! |
Iseult  | | posted 23-Jun-2008 12:13pm |
You should be careful about what you wear not because of what your boyfriend says, but for yourself. Women will wear all kinds of revealing clothing, and yes, of course, they have full right to wear whatever the hell they want, but it can sometimes draw unwanted attention. Unless attention is what you want, in which case disregard what I just said. |
| Jody | | posted 23-Jun-2008 3:04pm |
Your boyfriend does have a right to express his discomfort with what you are wearing, and if you love him you will work with him to come to agreement on a solution that has both of you comfortable. Certainly there are skirts and dresses available that are longer than what you are wearing. Would you be comfortable wearing those? |
| cerealkiller | | posted 23-Jun-2008 6:58pm |
How the hell did this pass????
You should wear mini skirts, no panties, high heels and see-through blouses with no bra. |
| stellarlove21 | | posted 23-Jun-2008 8:31pm |
I think you should wear what you want. It sounds like your boyfriend has some jealousy/control issues that he needs to get a handle on. I think it should be a warning sign when your boyfriend starts commenting on your weight, what you wear, where you've been, etc. |
| Pomeranian | | posted 24-Jun-2008 12:07am |
are you FLDS? I need to know this before I can answer. |
| Biggles | | posted 24-Jun-2008 7:07am |
Maybe you should ask yourself why you feel more comfortable in short skirts rather than more modest clothing? Is it because you link your worth as a person to your ability to appear sexually attractive? If that's the case then maybe your boyfriend has a point, but it certainly doesn't give him any right to dictate what you choose to wear. |
| cloudhugger | | posted 25-Jun-2008 7:33pm |
This is a planet of free will. You can wear and do what you want. He can complain aobut what ever he wants to. |
| Matty | | posted 27-Jun-2008 1:03pm |
I think you consider his input, while he understands your comfort level. I don't see a black and white response to this. |
| LJD | | posted 30-Jun-2008 11:36pm |
Personally, I think women, or girls should dress with modesty. If a girl or woman dresses seductively, there is nothing left to the imagination. Creating lust is not a good thing. |
| diabeticdave | | posted 19-Sep-2008 12:20pm |
Hey cerealkiller. They found a woman dead in my town last week. She was totally naked in a bath tub full of milk. She had a banana in her mouth, and a spoon in her butt. The police think it was a cereal killer. Have you been around here ? |
