Would you stay with them?

No. Especially not if the excuse was 'I just passed by bad times and [was] week (sic) toward sex.'

No, If I really loved the person I would try, but I know it would fail because I would be vindictive and throw it back in her face all the time

No I would not stay with them. If they really value me and the relationship as much as they claim they would not have cheated in the first place. They may love me and be sincere in saying the do not intend to do it again, but I would not be willing to give them another chance. Someone who would do this is very selfish in my opinion and the person that they love most is them self.

depends on the person, I guess... It happened to me once, long in the past, and we tried to continue, but I didn't trust her and I was still pissed about it, so that failed pretty quickly. But, she also was nothing really special to me. If this happened with my wife, I'd really try to make things work again, somehow. But, it doesn't seem likely to happen either.

No. I don't believe I would.

I don't know.

No time to move on and forget them it is over said and done

watch this then get back to me:

If they really loved me, I don't believe they would betray me.

I wouldn't stay with anyone who cheated on me, no matter how 'week' they are.

If there are no children involved, I would not commit to the person. I'm not saying a person can't change however. But coming out the gate, you're buying serious problems of impulsiveness, lack of control from the cheater. . The cheater is the one with the problem, not the person who is being cheated upon. The person needs therapy.

When wanting to go into a serious relationship, you want stability. I left my first husband because of his infidelity, physical abuse. He was a very insecure man...due to his young life. I was too young to know and understand. He later apologized to me, after I married my present husband. His cheating on me has left a scar with me.

No.

probably not

I am not sure.. Maybe yes, but I guess I'll never be the same with them from inside and outside..

Fool me once, shame on you.....fool me twice, shame on me.

Bleh. My life is so past any consideration of relationships, sex, caring, who did what, etc.

Maybe, it would depend how stupidly in love I was with the guy...

Probably not, unless he wanted to open up the relationship so I could do it too.

I would dump her as the first time and not look back.

It doesn't sound like a mature decision. If I was not as mature as I am now, I would say....mmmmm.....I don't know. So, because I am what I consider a bit maturer than this situation, I would say I doubt I would stay in that relationship. I need someone more mature, I wouldn't be dating a youngster. I haven't gotten this old without gaining some sort of wisdom.

"Honey.. please! It's not that I don't love you. I do!. It's just that when the going gets tough I turn into a massive whore"

Buh-bye

I hope not, but I think it would depend on how long we had been together and how much I had invested in the relationship.

What you need to do is ask yourself this question, “How much do you love this person?” I do believe love can overcome all obstacles, infidelity is a serious breach of trust and to completely overcome the pain there must be a true commitment towards the relationship as well as towards this person. Be aware that the basic character of a person takes hold of any personality early in life so expecting big changes in someone’s character is probably not a good bet.

I don't think I would simply based on the fact that it didn't happen just once. You forgave them the first time, and they cheated on you again. Maybe, after you have a break from each other you can re-evaluate your feelings. If you don't have trust I don't see how you can have a serious relationship. So maybe it also depends on the type of relationship you are looking for.

HA no