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  How do you feel when you hear a friend completely butchering a story?

You and a friend or acquaintence (hypothetical, please) share an event that turned out to be quite a story. You hear the other person tell the story, leave out the funniest important details, and get the time line events all wrong. The story ends up being boring and tedious, and you are standing right there.

 
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10 I want to interrupt and correct all the details as the story is being told.
9 Other story mangled response.
8 I want to interrupt, and personally tell the story the way it really happened. It's the facts that make the story!
4 I let the friend finish telling the story, than later, I seek out the person who heard the butchered story and tell them how it really happened.
4 I walk away, or busy myself with some other task so I cannot (be tortured) hear.
4 I don't care how the story comes out as long as the friend telling it is having a good time.
1 I listen intently to the story (even for the umpteenth time) being told and it does not bother me a bit.

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cloudhugger Survey Central Subscriber Bronze Star Survey Creator
posted 13-May-2008 8:48am  
All these choices are phases of what I was, where I was on this, and where I'd like to be. I have a tough time sitting and lovingly listen to a great story get fudging mangled...oops, see? but I would love to be able to sit and listen knowing the friend was having a good time telling it the way the wanted to.
they This user is on the site NOW (2 minutes ago)
posted 13-May-2008 8:56am  
I would probably interrupt and supply details.

But then, that would be expected of me by my friends.... It would be more like we are telling our story together, instead of them telling it alone.

This happens all the time with a friend of mine whenever we tell the story about our first acid trip together. It was a pretty crazy story.
bill Survey Central Gold Subscriber Gold Star Survey Creator
posted 13-May-2008 10:05am  
yeah, this sort of thing is certainly frustrating and hard to deal with... I picked almost every answer... probably the best thing I can do is interject a little with non-conflicting details that add to the humor of the story. Or, maybe since they are getting it wrong, make stuff up that's even more absurd to mock them.
Iseult Silver Star Survey Creator
posted 13-May-2008 10:27am  
I try to spice it up.
Enheduanna Survey Central Subscriber
posted 13-May-2008 11:26am  
I would probably interrupt here and there and say "Don't forget to mention..." or something to encourage them to include interesting or funny parts. I wouldn't intend to take over telling the whole story, although if that ended up happening, I would be glad that I got to tell it better!
Frostbrand Bronze Star Survey Creator
posted 13-May-2008 12:34pm  
I've done all of the top 4 options. I guess it depends on my mood, who the friend is, exactly how they're butchering the story, etc.

However, if the story is prefaced by a statement like "If I remember it right..." or "I'm paraphrasing here," or some some other qualifier, I generlaly leave it alone.
Melf
posted 13-May-2008 4:13pm  
I want to rip their throat out.
aquawolfy
posted 13-May-2008 4:41pm  
I have to have details!!!
Crayons Gold Star Survey Creator Gold Qualifier
posted 13-May-2008 4:56pm  
Never happened to me.
Galomorro Bronze Star Survey Creator Survey Qualifier
posted 13-May-2008 9:48pm  
I can't check anything off because I do not know anyone who does this.
docgbrown
posted 14-May-2008 1:20am  
It can pain me greatly and the situation dictates the varied responses
Enigma
posted 15-May-2008 5:55pm  
Kill them. I love stories and I hate when they're fudgeed up by someone who can't tell them.
Maarten
posted 16-May-2008 7:51pm  
I want to interrupt and correct all the details as the story is being told.

I allow NO ONE to fudge up a perfectly all right story!!
cloudhugger Survey Central Subscriber Bronze Star Survey Creator
(reply to they, bill, Enheduanna, Frostbrand, Melf, docgbrown, Enigma, Maarten) posted 17-May-2008 8:54am  
 * smile *
I no longer feel like I am the bad guy when a great story is marred by incoherent rambling.
Melf
(reply to cloudhugger) posted 17-May-2008 12:03pm  
 * grin *
RGirl
posted 25-May-2008 7:57pm  
I wait for the friend to finish and then add something like, "But the funny thing was..." or "What she forgot to mention was..." OR I interrupt by saying, "Don't forget to tell them about..." and then let the person add it to the story.
Zang
posted 6-Jun-2008 6:00pm  
This sort of thing has happened to me many times. Actually, I have this tendency to doubt my own memory of the events if someone else tells it differently.
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