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Have you ever been a person's friend only because you were sexually attracted to this person?

Have you ever mutually became friends with someone only wanting a sexual relationship with this person?



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14Yes
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mrmarm
posted 24-Dec-2007 7:27am  
Yes unintentionally though.
they Bronze Star Survey Creator Survey Qualifier
posted 24-Dec-2007 7:34am  
No
labjog
posted 24-Dec-2007 8:06am  
No, quite the opposite, I get shy and clam up.
gambler Gold Star Survey Creator
posted 24-Dec-2007 8:22am  
No, I dont think so........... they need more than that for me to be friends with them
Amanda
posted 24-Dec-2007 9:39am  
Nope.
jettles Survey Central Gold Subscriber Gold Qualifier
posted 24-Dec-2007 11:08am  
no.
Enheduanna Survey Central Subscriber
posted 24-Dec-2007 11:41am  
I have become sexually involved with people I recently met and gotten to know them after that, so I guess so. But I don't think I've ever pretended to be interested in getting to know someone just because I wanted to sleep with them. If I meet someone and I'm sexually attracted to them, it can be a little difficult to separate that out from the other reasons I might want to become friends with them. It's really all part of a single package deal. The only times I've had completely casual sex with someone, I have not been interested in trying to become friends with them.
thecomic22
posted 24-Dec-2007 12:32pm  
No.
JessicaWoman99
posted 24-Dec-2007 2:30pm  
No I have not and never I am just a friend to whom ever it is
Crayons Bronze Star Survey Creator Survey Qualifier
posted 24-Dec-2007 6:20pm  
I'm at that age where you're sexually attarcted to everyone.
Melf Gold Qualifier
posted 24-Dec-2007 7:22pm  
Yes. According to my Philosophy teacher, it's all too obvious  * grin *
Pomeranian
posted 24-Dec-2007 9:28pm  
Never.
RGirl
posted 24-Dec-2007 9:30pm  
If I am attracted to some one it isn't just because I want to have sex with them, it is because I want to have a romantic relationship and I have always liked to keep my romantic attractions separate from my friends. I can tell right away if I am interested in some one romantically or just as a friend, and I've always been honest about it. I have accepted friendship from some one who I acknowledged attraction to but they didn't feel the same way.
moviesnob
posted 24-Dec-2007 11:10pm  
I guess I should say yes, but typically I am only sexually attracted to someone if I find their personality attractive.
bill Survey Central Gold Subscriber Gold Star Survey Creator
posted 25-Dec-2007 6:50am  
I'm going to say, "no", but it's possible that my sexual attraction influences many relationships I've had, so much so that I'm not even aware of it.
ElvisFan67 Bronze Star Survey Creator
posted 25-Dec-2007 8:59am  
I'll admit that I have, with friends' and relatives' wives and girlfriends. But of course I was smart enough to keep it all to myself and not reveal it to them.
LindaH Survey Central Gold Subscriber Gold Star Survey Creator Survey Qualifier
posted 25-Dec-2007 2:22pm  
No. I don't become physically attracted to a person without being attracted to their personality. Being attracted to their personality is the main reason I want to be their friend.
kcthedog Survey Central Subscriber
posted 26-Dec-2007 11:41pm  
I am sorry but this is a stupid question! If you are attracted to someone “sexually” or otherwise, OF COURSE! you will seek to be their friend. Do you think that if you are NOT friends will have a chance to have sex with them?


Duh!

LindaH Survey Central Gold Subscriber Gold Star Survey Creator Survey Qualifier
(reply to kcthedog) posted 27-Dec-2007 12:37am  
The question could be taken that way, but I took it to mean that the one and only reason you wanted to be their friend was to get them in the sack, and nothing else.
kcthedog Survey Central Subscriber
(reply to LindaH) posted 27-Dec-2007 1:05am  
I think I get what the questions intention was; you mean to ask “Have I ever intentionally faked friendship in order to have sex with someone”, right?

That answer is no!
I would want to be friends with anyone I had wanted to have sex with!

cloudhugger
posted 28-Dec-2007 7:53pm  
Been there, done that...only ends up horribley.
cloudhugger
posted 28-Dec-2007 7:58pm  
I have had friends who have known that I wanted to sleep with them, and they pretended to be my friend so they could use me. That is pretty fudging cold.
mrmarm
(reply to cloudhugger) posted 28-Dec-2007 11:19pm  
Yeah I sometimes have difficulty determining why I so badly want to be friends with someone and don't instanteously realize it's only for abit of fun, I still do a little but only to people who deserve it or who I actually hate.
mrmarm
(reply to kcthedog) posted 28-Dec-2007 11:26pm  
I should've put mutually been friends with someone; what if this person ony wanted to be friends and you only wanted to get somewhere else. Also what about people who hook up for convenience I wouldn't say their friends, but whatever (shrugs).
kcthedog Survey Central Subscriber
posted 28-Dec-2007 11:34pm  
My answer would be not recently, although when I was younger I didn’t even need to know their name, I was ready and willing. But time has made me realize that women are people to and sex is so much more rewarding when you connect on a personal level and it is not all about sex.
Gomezy3k
posted 5-Jul-2009 1:07pm  
Well duh..of course. In the hopes you can get laid eventually.
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