Have you ever had a friend forgive something of you that you would not have forgiven them for?

I've never been in this situation.

Probably.

FoxTurtle is unsure, so...

I can't think of anything. I have had people forgive me for things, but then I would also forgive them and have done for other things.

Ummmmm, ya sure.

No. I don't think I've done anything that bad to anyone. When I am in the wrong I will say so. So often it is both people were at fault anyway, and that is how it became a mess. I can remember one thing I always felt guilty about though and I felt even more guilty because the person not only forgave me but was my friend. I felt I owed her something but as I said, we were both at fault.
When I was a teen, when I didn't have a girlfriend I was a big flirt and I hate to admit it but getting girls that had only previously dated guys was a bit of a game to me. I didn't realize until I was 17 that sometimes there comes a responsibility for being a girl's 'first'. I broke this girl's heart because I was just playing on a momentary crush but she really fell for me. She showed up at this club totally wasted, following me around yelling things at me- things that were true. She was in a lot of pain, but was so embarassing to witness. Her friends were trying pull her away, my friends are trying to push her away. She just kept coming and then she dumped a huge cup of Pepsi over my head. In seconds I had an ex girlfriend get her in the girl's bathroom. She was ready to kick her ass but the girl wouldn't fight back. She was just on some broken hearted masochistic trip and Sailee wouldn't fight her proper unless she fought back. So we left her pathetic and alone and drunk in the bathroom. I left with a smile on my face because it was all so dramatic and I felt I had power to get some one to do something for me like that. It is up there on the worst things I ever did and was forgiven for, but she admitted to being an idiot when she showed up wasted.

But I never intentionally broke her heart. I had no idea she'd like me that much and that I was important to her because she'd known she was gay all this time, etc. I had no idea she was so vulnerable. She not only forgave me but we became friends. I always felt guilty though.

No. There isn't anything anyone has done that I haven't forgiven. I don't anticipate anything like that ever happening.

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Yeah, I guess, but I usually don't remember anything long enough to hold a long grudge.

Yea..... stealing her boyfriend. She pissed me off & had it coming.

dunno, maybe, quite obviously.

I don't really don't do bad things to my friends and if I did I'd give instantaneous apologizes.

Probably, although I can't think of anything right now.

No.

no? I'm not sure. I haven't really done that much that requires being forgiven, I think.
I think I'm forgiving, though... so, maybe I've been the one doing the forgiving...

i have forgiven myself, and that has proven to be most difficult...prior to this state of continual forgive-ness/empathy/understanding, I'm quite certain that I would have held a grudge or something to that effect

I dont remember doing anything to any of my friends that they'd need to forgive.

I might have and i probably did at one time

> FoxTurtle is unsure, so...

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This is a profound question; there was a time in my life that I was an angry young man. I was so stubborn that if I felt crossed it was the end of the world. I was always right! And I held everyone accountable. Until I realized I was wrong, and in order for me to receive forgiveness I had to first forgive. To answer the question, yes, but I overcame it, now I forgive everyone.

No

No. I am usually more forgiving of others then they are of me

Yes.

No.

No.

yes

No.

Oh Yes!