Keep It Comin', Love: What's the longest you have ever stayed in a relationship that you wanted out of?

From the time you started feeling "this is enough", what is the longest amount of time you have stayed in that romantic relationship?

Votes	Answer
1	Not a moment after I decided I should leave the relationship. I left immediately.
2	A day, at most.
5	A couple or few days.
3	Weeks.
8	Months.
6	I continued to weather the relationship for years.
4	Sadly, decades.
2	The longest amount of time was [fill in the blank], but I was indecisive - on and off - after that first thought.
1	I have never been in a relationship that I felt I should leave.
2	I have never been in a relationship that I decided it was time to leave - my partner made the call.
4	I have never been in a relationship that...well, I've never been in a romantic relationship.
1	I am still in a relationship that I think I should leave, so - undetermined.
1	Next time the creator leaves me with no good choices, I'm calling it quits [OTHER]:

User	Comment
Amanda	posted 28-Sep-2007 8:27pm About a year.
labjog	posted 28-Sep-2007 8:30pm I have been with the same man for about 15 yrs, about 5 yrs ago I decided it was enough, but I have not left yet. We make each other pretty miserable at times.
they	posted 28-Sep-2007 8:44pm About 7 years. The feeling started about 3 months into it.
RGirl	posted 28-Sep-2007 8:44pm Years. It was when I decided it would be better to live life as a straight woman than who I really was.
MacGregor	posted 28-Sep-2007 9:19pm Maybe a few days until I could get things sorted out. There are a few relationships that I SHOULD have gotten out of earlier, but I didn't realize it at the time.
ausfox	posted 28-Sep-2007 9:30pm I stayed in a relationship for 2 years longer than I should have when I was younger. I found out that he had cheated on me when we had been together for a year, but we didn't break up. All the trust was gone, but we stayed together for another 2 years. Young and silly.
moviesnob	posted 28-Sep-2007 9:52pm A couple of days at the most. When it's done, it's done.
Enheduanna	posted 28-Sep-2007 10:12pm Weeks, but not months.
LJD	posted 28-Sep-2007 11:26pm 45 years
mrmarm	posted 29-Sep-2007 8:47am Define relationship, there was this ugly thin girl who was disgusting and I was friends with her, mainly for the sake of saying you were friends, never the less she used to constantly hit on me and try to persuade me to go out with her, I got sick of it because it was annoying so I just stopped talking to her.
mrmarm	(reply to LJD) posted 29-Sep-2007 8:48am 45 years
Enigma	posted 29-Sep-2007 11:44am Not a minute longer. Once I've made the decision (for whatever reasons) it's just not fair to either party to keep it going.
JessicaWoman99	posted 29-Sep-2007 9:35pm hee hee a day at the most and he was a real jerk
docgbrown	posted 30-Sep-2007 12:24am 8 months
ultamate	posted 30-Sep-2007 11:00am Before I got married it was when I realized he was going to want sex some day soon. Once I got married though, I knew I had to endure my commitment forever. Forever lasted 7 months the first time and 4 years the second time.
ultamate	(reply to they) posted 30-Sep-2007 11:06am Myself and some of my friends all say we wanted to end it after 3 months. I wonder what it is about 3 months?
EyesOfCharisma	posted 1-Oct-2007 6:59pm 4 years.
cerealkiller	posted 2-Oct-2007 2:14pm Hah, this coming Sunday will be 25 years. Don't congratulate me on 25 years of marriage but rather on 25 years of patience and not killing her.
cloudhugger	posted 2-Oct-2007 6:30pm Months, as in a few or a bit less.
thecomic22	posted 4-Oct-2007 10:22pm 3 years.
BenSimpleton72	posted 7-Oct-2007 6:55pm 4 years
FauxLo	posted 12-Oct-2007 3:16pm FoxTurtle was once stuck with a shell that he had to moult for months before he could get rid of it, so...
autumnlight	posted 2-Nov-2007 1:10pm It took me about 5 months to end my last relationship - I knew it wasnt going to work but kept on anyway.

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