Do you ever flirt with members of the gender to which you are not attracted?

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filiasan

posted 20-Mar-2007 2:45pm

Sometimes I accidentally flirt, but it's not as if I'm really flirting. It's the others' warped perception.

RGirl

posted 20-Mar-2007 3:13pm

No. I did when I decided to live a straight life. It sucked and I was usually under the influence.

CCsHottieMami

posted 20-Mar-2007 4:02pm

I ALWAYS flirt!

Well....I used to all the time.

Maarten

posted 20-Mar-2007 5:14pm

So the question is: do I flirt with men?
No, I don't.

CarolL

posted 20-Mar-2007 10:05pm

no, why would someone do that?

CarolL

(reply to CarolL) posted 20-Mar-2007 10:06pm

have you been flirting with the mailboy again?

llamamama

posted 20-Mar-2007 10:23pm

Uh..no.

CGTREE

posted 20-Mar-2007 10:53pm

Yeah sometimes... just my good friends though... just for a laugh. Our girlfriends like it too.

Enigma

posted 20-Mar-2007 11:42pm

Do you mean do I purposefully lead someone on letting them think I am homosexual when I'm not? That would be a cruel thing to do to someone. Only a freak would think something like that would be funny.

Zang

posted 21-Mar-2007 12:56am

I have. Not recently. When I worked in property management I used to flirt with all the women. I looked after an office building in the heart of Davie Village. After a while, there being so many gay men working there, I started flirting with them too. I also tended to be "in the closet" about my heterosexuality.

I recall there was one fellow that worked at Xtra! West, that I would flirt with shamelessly. One time he approached me with a question; "I have all this camping gear in the trunk of my car..." I interjected with "And you want to invite me on a camping trip." (big smile) He continued "No, I was wondering if you had a vacant storage locker I could just borrow for a couple of days..."

Zang

posted 21-Mar-2007 12:58am

Actually, I just remembered I have done it more recently. Last year my friends took me out for dinner on my birthday and we got a little loaded and I was flirting with the waiter. Mostly to embarrass my friends and because it was fun.

Zang

(reply to Enigma) posted 21-Mar-2007 1:02am

> Only a freak would think something like that
> would be funny.

So you're calling me a "freak"?
I'll take that as a compliment!

Actually, I think "flirting" is a lot more subtle than all that. See my story above.

docgbrown

posted 21-Mar-2007 3:53am

I have, but rarely. I�ve never started out to do so on purpose, but, for some reason homosexual men find me attractive, especially when in uniform. I haven�t gone that way and am not interested in trying it, but it is surreally interesting to have folks you�re not at all interested in, keenly interested in you.

they

posted 21-Mar-2007 8:57am

No.... I don't really no how to flirt.

Wackadoo

posted 21-Mar-2007 9:10am

No. Thought never crossed my mind and never would.

blondie20

posted 21-Mar-2007 10:22am

No.

gambler

posted 21-Mar-2007 11:08am

No............ weird question *frown*, I guess if your gay it would make more sense?... a lesbian flirting with a guy, as opposed to a hetrosexual male flirting with another male...maybe I am wrong

jettles

posted 21-Mar-2007 12:04pm

i wouldn't say it was the gender to which i was not attracted. i flirt with men on occasion......... it's innocent and there is no intention there.

Danger

posted 21-Mar-2007 12:46pm

I flirt with everybody.

Iseult

posted 21-Mar-2007 1:29pm

As a drunken joke, yes. It's not even flirting, it's more bunch of lewd comments about someone's breasts/ass.

Why would I want to flirt with the gender I am not attracted to?

thecomic22

posted 21-Mar-2007 3:39pm

Nah

autumnlight

posted 21-Mar-2007 7:15pm

No, why would you do that?

Amanda

posted 21-Mar-2007 9:56pm

Not seriously. Friends and I will jokingly flirt with each other.

hypersky

posted 22-Mar-2007 6:09pm

The odd time, sure. Feeling sexy and empowered is pretty cool, irregardless of the flirtee.