What bothers you about a man wearing a dress?

Nothing really bothers me about it. If he's comfortable wearing a dress, who am I to have anything to say about it?

I believe men and women should dress as men and women. I believe in men and women roles. There is really no comparison. Men and women are to complement each other. I really resent when women try to act like men, try to get onto men's sport teams, or into men's clubs, for instance. I love men to be men. I love being a woman, love being treated as a woman. I don't like seeing a man in a dress...no offense.

A man wearing a dress looks like some queer and a jerk and he looks like a man to me

Men should act like men and wear mens clothes and same with women

Nothing bothers me about a man wearing a dress.....

That he looks stupid, because he does not look like a woman. Women's clothes are meant to be filled by a woman's curves.

However, I must admit that one of the most jaw-droppingly stunning creatures I have ever seen fill a dress was a transvestite in a drag show in Toronto. He dressed and looked like Marilyn Monroe in a hot red dress; he even had titties implanted (very generous-C cup at least, maybe even Ds), which he proceeded to flash to us--they were very convincing. The effect kinda wore off for me when the MC (who looked like a terminally-ill Céline Dion) mentioned that Marylin made excellent money as an escort because Marylin still had his penis. Apparently, some people are willing to drop a lot of coin to have sex with a Marylin Monroe equipped with a penis.

None of the above. Some guys, if they shave their legs & attempt to look feminine could look good in a dress, otherwise, guys look silly in a dress, but I still wouldn't care.

None of the above..
Gawd those choices were narrow minded..

Absolutely nothing. I used to wear them myself.

> Apparently, some people are willing to
> drop a lot of coin to have sex with a Marylin
> Monroe equipped with a penis.

Does that surprise you?

Nowt bothers me.

Is this just a guy in a dress or is it a transvestite? A regular old guy in a dress would look silly. However a transvestite would be all dolled up. When I worked in a mall (long ago when I was in high school), you could pick out the transvestites because they looked more "perfect" than the regular women.

Nothing bothers me about it. I don't care. Except that I do often admire drag queens' outfits; how they can walk in those heels is beyond me though.

Nothing. OK, that's not entirely true; some guys will wear a dress because they think it's just so coolly counterculture and makes them so different from everyone else. (This is really an endemic problem among a certain kind of computer geek.) I think it's just lame. But generally speaking I have no problem with men wearing dresses.

Does not bothers me but some Times I say that I wish I could look that good lol

Nothing bothers me about it. It's simply a cultural convention that western men do not wear what we call dresses.

There are some men who crossdress who have attitude problems that bother me, but that's got little to do with what they're wearing and more to do with why they chose to wear it.

Nothing.

You know, what bothers. Me well guess. ...........................................

Since I am one, not much.

If I can detect it then I feel sorry for their predicament. If they have to inform me, then I'm sorry they're not over it.

Nothing. I would hope to see more people dressing how they want to dress. I like seeing bold, unafraid people. They serve to sensitize people to diversity and quirkiness. That can only be counted as a good thing.

What bothers me? I wouldn't say I would be bothered really, I wouldn't judge one way or the other. What I thought about it would depend on his demeanour. Maybe he does it on a "dare" maybe it's Halloween, maybe he's a cross dresser... it would depend. None of these things are really what I would think.

It really doesn't bother me at all, unless he hasn't shaved his face. I feel as though dresses and stubble don't go together very well. If I have to shave my legs to wear a dress, you gotta shave your face.

> |> Apparently, some people are willing to
> |> drop a lot of coin to have sex with a Marylin
> |> Monroe equipped with a penis.
>
> Does that surprise you?

Let's say that I lost a bit of my innocence that evening.

That reminds me of one of my buddies who had never heard of guys who like taking it up the ass with a strap-on dildo attached to a woman. There were two couples; me, him, a couple of gals...we were having a little cocktail party at my place. One of the gals liked to taunt him with crap like that. He's very English. Easy to make him blush. Once she gets started I usually join in.

So this topic comes up and he says he's never heard of such a thing. So as soon as everyone has left, I scour the web for the best image I can find of the act in question, well lit, nice close up where you can see everything and who is doing what and exactly what gender they are...and I email it to him!

Next time I saw him he said it really didn't go so well with his morning coffee!

What might bother me? The chest hair curling out and over the v-neck of the dress. The sight of bony knees and hairy legs sticking out from under a skirt. The poor fit of the dress. But then, I don't have to look, do I?
If he's being over effeminate or obnoxious, then it becomes annoying.

I can't say I have ever seen a guy in a dress in public. I woul probably just chuckle a bit and move on.

That's pretty funny.

Yeah, I've told that story a few times. Usually in his presence...

> I can't say I have ever seen a guy in a dress in public. I woul probably
> just chuckle a bit and move on.

Men do look silly with those kilts and show off their hairy legs he he he

A man wearing a dress how on earth can he use the mens bathroom???

The fact that he looks better in it than me. chicken.

Nothing bothers me about it........... I would assume he was going to a fancy dress if he looked really bad

That I might see his dick and balls by accident if the dress gets lifted.

And that dresses aren't all that common even for women to wear these days so it would look out of place and then a voice in my head would be saying "just don't stare just don't stare".

the highlanders from scotland,the irish clan's, the greek's .the roman army. all had kinda dress's on! in fact a pipe band still wear's them to-day!

I would say just pull it up.

I don't know if I've ever seen a guy in a dress. I guess it wouldn't bother me most of the time, but if one of my daughters was going out with a guy who wore a dress I would tell her that "he has some problems and you need to find a normal guy". But on the other hand, I'm a guy who likes to wear fancy lacey women's panties, and I think I'm normal, and I look and act normal, so, does it really matter at all?

> I would say just pull it up.

But a man wearing a dress and going into the mens room?? I think not

I use the women's restroom, but I avoid common restrooms entirely, and dart through them rather than hang out.

That's true! He might not walk out of there in good shape, depending on where he is.

> I use the women's restroom, but I avoid common restrooms entirely,
> and dart through them rather than hang out.

Just my point we are women and we can use the womens bathroom? but a man wearing a dress

> That's true! He might not walk out of there in good shape, depending
> on where he is.

Some man might see him wearing a dress and murder' the poor bastard

> That's true! He might not walk out of there in good shape, depending
> on where he is.

A man wearing a dress he has a death wish'

Nothing Tommy. Why would you even have an opinion if you did not know this person?

I'm transgendered though. My license has said female for a few years now but that's not entirely the case yet. I figure the women are more comfortable and safer than the guys. The women might not figure I'm out of place except that I'm really tall. The guys are sure to figure out the moment I walk in wearing a dress.

Wow" you as well are transgendered , and using the womens bathroom is no issue in my life and I am seen as a woman

And besides using the mens bathroom could get you in hot water and get you arrested here in Colorado, and I carry a purse and wear skirts or dresses

I look very much female in my photos as in this one

Are you saying you're TG too, otherwise I'd hope it's not an issue for you to use the womens restroom?

Different places have different policies, if any at all. I think it really comes down to which ever authority person runs into you first and their opinion, which they will claim to be policy.

Ah very well. Is English not your first language, or are you trying to have your own style of grammer?

> Are you saying you're TG too, otherwise I'd hope it's not an issue
> for you to use the womens restroom?

It is not even an issue or a problem using the womens bathroom and what woman will walk in the mens bathroom?

> Ah very well. Is English not your first language, or are you trying
> to have your own style of grammer?

English is my only language I know being American

> Different places have different policies, if any at all. I think it
> really comes down to which ever authority person runs into you first
> and their opinion, which they will claim to be policy.

Who is going to check' under every womans clothes to see if she is transgendered or not , would be grounds for a lawsuit?

I have been many places including the Airport in Denver and using the womens bathroom is no issue in my life and security guards are right there at the door

> Ah very well. Is English not your first language, or are you trying
> to have your own style of grammer?

And acting like a lady , and being a woman what can anybody do to you or me and we are women

There was a time at an airport when I was wearing pants, in a hurry, and saw that the womens room might have a half hour wait, so I took advantage of being between genders in that situation. If it were at a metal concert, I'd probably just wait. Oh, there was a time at a rave also with a huge wait, and I not only did I use the mens room instead, I took a girlfriend along with me.

> There was a time at an airport when I was wearing pants, in a hurry,
> and saw that the womens room might have a half hour wait, so I took
> advantage of being between genders in that situation. If it were at
> a metal concert, I'd probably just wait. Oh, there was a time at a
> rave also with a huge wait, and I not only did I use the mens room
> instead, I took a girlfriend along with me.

I have done this as well with a friend me and her we used the mens bathroom at this Truck Stop because the womens bathroom was closed

And we girls got into big" trouble because somebody complained, 2 women using the mens bathroom

> There was a time at an airport when I was wearing pants, in a hurry,
> and saw that the womens room might have a half hour wait, so I took
> advantage of being between genders in that situation. If it were at
> a metal concert, I'd probably just wait. Oh, there was a time at a
> rave also with a huge wait, and I not only did I use the mens room
> instead, I took a girlfriend along with me.

Hi Kristal I see you are online and I get lucky' to keep this computer running CRASHES" all the time

New computer is coming this Thursday at 10:30 in the morning and this one I will bury it

> There was a time at an airport when I was wearing pants, in a hurry,
> and saw that the womens room might have a half hour wait, so I took
> advantage of being between genders in that situation. If it were at
> a metal concert, I'd probably just wait. Oh, there was a time at a
> rave also with a huge wait, and I not only did I use the mens room
> instead, I took a girlfriend along with me.

What is a girl to do? if womens bathroom not able to use

*other* only if he has noticable facial hair. Then he looks silly. Silly like Monty Python silly.

They'd complain more if you didn't use the bathroom. Our supermarket now inspects purchases and receipts as you leave. I'll complain tomorrow that next they'll hope to legally detain and torture innocent shoppers without cause or a trial..

Hopefully mine doesn't. It takes two solid weeks to reintall all my stuff. I had to do that two months ago.

Hardware seldom goes wrong. It'd be cheaper to just buy new software, unless you need a newer machine capable of editing live music and videos.

I'm going to be Marilyn Monroe for halloween, my Mary talked me into it...we are going to some shindig at the bar. I know I am going to feel like a drag queen. Maybe, just maybe if I do a little song and dance I'll get dollar bills stuck in my dress.

Cool! Hope YOU can walk in those heels! Good luck! I'd love to see a foto of that.

> They'd complain more if you didn't use the bathroom. Our supermarket
> now inspects purchases and receipts as you leave. I'll complain
> tomorrow that next they'll hope to legally detain and torture innocent
> shoppers without cause or a trial..
Complain more if we did not use bathroom? It is wrong' to use mens bathroom

> Hardware seldom goes wrong. It'd be cheaper to just buy new software,
> unless you need a newer machine capable of editing live music and
> videos.

This sounds like the computer I am getting this morning at 10:30 in about 50 minutes from now I cannot wait

This computer I am on is crap and pile of junk

We will see how I look...if I feel photoable...otherwise it would be really fun to post the pic here.

If it ran better when you first got it, it's all the junk that's been loaded since then, and not the machine itself at foult. Save your parts from the old machine. Your old hard drive would be useful for doing backups of your new computer. Most computers are set up to install a second hard drive. If you're really lucky, you can add the old memory to your new machine as well.

> If it ran better when you first got it, it's all the junk that's been
> loaded since then, and not the machine itself at foult. Save your
> parts from the old machine. Your old hard drive would be useful for
> doing backups of your new computer. Most computers are set up to install
> a second hard drive. If you're really lucky, you can add the old memory
> to your new machine as well.

I am keeping the old pile of junk computer for parts , and I have Brand New Gateway Computer with 256 mb of ram lots of memory then old computer , I had only 80 mb of ram and all used up

I'm not bothered if he looks cute in it and if it is somewhat flattering. If, however, he has a beard and/ or just looks disgusting then, of course, I think he shouldn't do it. I have seen examples of both by the way.

There should have been an "Other" option here.... Well if he has the legs and figure to pull it off then ok...otherwise no...

Some men look really bad in a dress, but some look great.

I wouldn't wear a dress but I like to wear pantyhose.

That the boys are hanging out. Gross!

Nothing bothers me about people in dresses, male or female. I absolutely love men in kilts.

I might get jealous if a man looks a lot better than I would.

that i wish i could look that good, if he passes, and looks really hot sexy and feminine.

I love wearing skirts, but I don't wear dresses too often right now. Dresses are not very forgiving of body flaws.