What is the worst thing a person could say to you?

Won't tell. I'm not in the habit of handing weapons to my enemies.

When they say something about me that is utterly untrue. I just can't stand that.

I know, I know... Brian you are dumb because you read books!

It's already been said, but I don't wish to share it with you. It was and is too painful.

I didn't even think of myself when I made this survey. It's difficult to come up with 'the worst'. The most I was ever hurt by words has already happened. I grew up with this invisible mark. My mom was 19 when she had me & my father skipped town before I was born, so I was all those dirty secret words- illegitimate, bastard, fun stuff like that. When my mom married & had a family I was never really part of the family. I was the only one with a different last name. I used, well, it felt like borrowed, my step dad's name for school, but it wasn't 'really' mine. In the 6th grade I had my first 'best friend'. We both had bad things to share so it made us pretty close. Well, we got into an argument in class & I said something hateful to her & she yelled, 'Well, at least I know who my father is!' That was the worst thing a person could say to me.

Now, its not words but a look. I'm on disability & hate it. I'm ashamed of it & I know there are people who scam to hitch a free ride on disability & I am terrified of being lumped in with them. I avoid as much as possible to end up telling people, but when I do I always wait for that look, that, 'I just watched you walk up here through the parking lot, you aren't disabled.'

You betrayed me!

Honestly, I don't think there is anything. I don't let things get to me.

saying I'm a bad parent.

> I didn't even think of myself when I made this survey. It's difficult
> to come up with 'the worst'. The most I was ever hurt by words has
> already happened. I grew up with this invisible mark. My mom was 19
> when she had me & my father skipped town before I was born, so I was
> all those dirty secret words- illegitimate, bastard, fun stuff like
> that. When my mom married & had a family I was never really part of
> the family. I was the only one with a different last name. I used,
> well, it felt like borrowed, my step dad's name for school, but it
> wasn't 'really' mine. In the 6th grade I had my first 'best friend'.
> We both had bad things to share so it made us pretty close. Well,
> we got into an argument in class & I said something hateful to her
> & she yelled, 'Well, at least I know who my father is!' That was the
> worst thing a person could say to me.
>
> Now, its not words but a look. I'm on disability & hate it. I'm ashamed
> of it & I know there are people who scam to hitch a free ride on disability
> & I am terrified of being lumped in with them. I avoid as much as
> possible to end up telling people, but when I do I always wait for
> that look, that, 'I just watched you walk up here through the parking
> lot, you aren't disabled.'

You shouldn't feel ashamed! You are one of the people who have earned it, you cant help your physical condition. Yes, there are some people who have ruined it for the rest of us, I know some people who have never worked a day and they get SSI for being drug addicts or just stupid and lazy, something "curable". Then you have people who are really disabled and need the help, so don't lump yourself into that category, you have NOTHING to be ashamed of.

I don't care to answer this question because it could give useful information to enemies

It would have to be said by one of my ex-friends, Lynn, just stating how much she really does hate me now .
Last week she ran away from home, for a few hours. She's not exactly the most stable girl, so me and another mate, Hayley, went round to her house to give Lynn's mum as much info as we could about her dodgy boyfriend - he's a stoner/17, not 16/tried to pick her up from school in a stolen car/offered her weed at "The Drug House"/is only after sex. Myself and Hayley couldn't do anything, so we went home. Lynn how hates us so much, because what we did split up her and her boyfriend. We only wanted to help. Her wrists are a state (from cutting), and she blames us.

We're going to have to let you go. I've heard that more than once.

Worst - probably "You're under arrest".

You're wierd.. I mean how untrue and hurtful

I think the only one who could say something that would deeply hurt me is my son and that would be, "You have been a terrible mother, I hate you!"

I love you but not enough....

Thanks.

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My answer is in my reply on this survey.

I don't think there's any one thing, but a series of negative comments and remarks, repeated over a long stretch time, have gotten to me, to the point where I was doubting my self-worth. I'm divorced now, so that problem's solved!

I did go and read that. That was an awful thing for some one to say.

That is pretty bad. My 17 year old son committed suicide and I don't know how many people told me he was in hell. Even when your child has passed away you still worry about them, you don't just stop being a mother. (this is reason 65,738 why I don't trust religious people) I was already on the edge of losing my sanity forever and then to have that added to it, fudging self righteous bastards! I'm still bitter about that, I finally went to a physic and she helped me through it, we had a long talk about and she assured me that my son was now at peace.

Let's not go there.

Yes, it is.

Some people are butt-holes. I'm glad that you worked through this. Losing a child, no matter how, is a devastating thing.

I am used to people saying things to me so i could handle anything they say without being hurt

It's not so much what is said, but who says it. A total stranger can say something to me and it probably won't bother me. But, if someone I loved and cared about said the same thing, it might hurt.

It would have to be something about finding jesus or some other kooky religion. I really like when the right wing yahoos ring the phone asking you to comment on pornography or abortion or one of their other percieved social issues of high importance. I once answered the telly-fone to someone from the 700 Club or some other putz org who somehow got my number asking me what I thought of homosexual movies like Brokeback Mountain. I told them something along the lines of: "..oh how much would they love it if they (PUT NAME HERE) had more movies about how someone was found drunk passed out on the floor, smeared with Dollar General whipped cream and ranch dressing from head to foot, dressed in a fluorescent green tutu, pink 44-DD bra with water-balloons in the cups, a full-head gorilla mask, a red ball-gag in mouth, size nineteen army boots on the wrong feet, a glow-in-the-dark Jesus butt-plug up his ass and his softening dick having been in the anus of a 300 pound yorkshire sow, herself with a full Mary Kay makeover and the words "SATAN IS MY dog" painted on her side..." (or something similar to this...) let's see them explain THAT away with th' fudgein' King James Bible.
"uh.. I think there was something in Isaiah.. let me check." (They'd already hung-up.... GRIN!)

Update: Whoops! The pig had the words "Prophet Mohammed is My dog" written on it. Also no pigs were killed, or injured, or subjected to un-necessary stress during the making of this film. Oscar nominations welcome. News at 11. Some assy required. No MSG. Your mileage may vary from published standards...etc..etc..

Nothing because: "Sticks and stones may break my bones but names will never hurt me" ha ha ha ha ha

You are a lie.

> I don't care to answer this question because it
> could give useful information to enemies


YOU UNANSWERER!!

It's already been said

I could always use a good raspberry...

im going to rape you....and then im going to kill you

Here here!

I can easily explain that without a "Bible", you have no respect for anyone, not even yourself.

no...." Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will emotionally destroy me"

"Yes it is my business"