Do you think it is okay to be a bisexual?

Yes..I don't see why not..

yeah, I have a couple of guy friends who are. I'm straight and I don't have anything against people who are bi . It's their choice.

No, it's like totally wrong. It's against the law, too.

Your choices make clear that you don't approve of bisexuality. There isn't a straight (no pun intended) "yes" to choose from, only lukewarm endorsement: "yeah, but only for a while"? "I guess"? What the hell is that?

Personally, I'm not a member of the bi-club, but I think it's okay.

Maybe it's against the law where you live, but that doesn't mean it's against the law everywhere. Also, your definition of right and wrong is not universally accepted. Not on this issue.

By the way, bisexuality is not against the law in Ontario.

I wasn't being serious. I thought the whole 'it's against the law' was a clue to it.

The question, at least from my perspective, seems ridiculous and I was taught when I was young that stupid question requires a stupid answer.

Sorry for taking your answer at face value. It is a stupid question, though...

Where's the "yes" option?!

other Yes.

> Where's the "yes" option?!

Quite a few of the qualifiers asked for a 'yes' option.

Yes.

OTHER... YES!

I'm sure they did.

Yes. Just plain, yes.

yeah, as long as your partner knows what you're all about.

What kind of choices are those?
Not that there's anything wrong with that...

> No, it's like totally wrong. It's against the
> law, too.

I got it...that was hilarious!

whatever works for you.

Certainly it is. "I guess" is not the answer I would choose -- I would choose a definite YES.

Yes.

How the hell did this pass qual?
I am getting so tired of such pissy, half-assed surveys getting by, that I am about ready to leave forever.

Where is the 'yes, absolutely' answer? Bad survey!!

Sorry... for my contribution in getting this passed. I just wanted to see how folks would vote on it, given the options available. I thought it was crappy, but I couldn't help myself.

I don't care.

What happened to a just plain "yes" answer? As far as sexuality goes, if you are happy with it, then that is all that matters. who gives a flip what anyone else things.

Crap for options. Yes, it's okay, unqualified.

Only if your a woman.

> No, it's like totally wrong. It's against the
> law, too.

The "law” has no business in anyone’s bed room.

I asked a preacher once if it was a sin for me to drink. He answered my question with questions. Would you be ashamed if anyone knew? Do you feel that it is a sin (wrong)? Everyone has there opinions but the only person that can answer the question is the individual. They should just be sure they are going by there own believes and not someone else.

that is not god's purpose

Please enlighten us, oh have'r of answers... What is your god's purpose?

Where is the plain "Yes" option?...........

Whatever floats your boat

I dont judge people's lifestyles, according to christianity im going to hell for living in sin by living with a woman and not being married yet

I noticed you didn't put a 'Yes' option there. /:|

Yes.

Actually, that's according to the catholic belief system.
The christian belief system says that, doing 'x' action is wrong, and one shouldn't do it, but crap, people make mistakes, so try sincerely not to do it again.
Also, the reason these things are 'wrong' by chrisitian values can be explained with this phrase:
"It's not wrong because it's forbidden, it's forbidden because its wrong."
This means that the only reason christian rules say you ought not to do 'x' action, is because it will hurt you in some way, spiritually, emotionally, physically, etc...
Catholic beliefs say the opposite. This is evil and if you do it then you are evil too and deserve to burn. Also, give us lots of money.

> I dont judge people's lifestyles, according to
> christianity im going to hell for living in sin
> by living with a woman and not being married yet

There are plenty of so called Christians that are going to hell with you too.

NEWSFLASH! No one is going to hell. It's okay. I'm here now.

I say, you fall in love with who you fall in love with. For your whole life.

How about plain yes?

It is the things that are not in the bible that some christians condemn me for, like smoking, profanity, social drink, living with a girlfriend, and some things that do not apply to me such as having long hair, tattoos, secular music, they have a "im going to hell list" for those sins that are not biblical, none of those things listed have a biblical reference without interpreting the context to fit their own desires.

Many are called but few are chosen as according to Jesus

> NEWSFLASH! No one is going to hell. It's okay.
> I'm here now.

I wish I could believe live on earth is hell. I'd just kill myself, but I don't want to take that chance.

STOP BEING GREEDY!

Yes.

bisexuals just means to have fun both ways for the people that are they like it both ways

Nope! No sense in it.

You know, a christian buddy of mine said something to me the other day. He said, "you know, I wonder if jesus really was the immaculate prissy man he's made out to be. Look at the people he was hanging out with. Junkies. Vagrants. Prostitutes. They wouldn't want to be with him if he was a pretentious cleanfreak. Heck, he worked as a fisherman. I could just see him and his buddies laughing and swearing and dirty as anything. I think we've got it wrong when we condemn people just for their behavior, because even that is against the what jesus says about love people as they are. *You* may be closer to God in your life than I am in mine, cuz you're simply being REAL, man. You're being *honest* about who you are and you're not putting on some 'Christian' act. Maybe we need to learn from you."

I thought that was pretty cool. And I thought it makes sense, too. I believe people like you mentioned give christians a bad name, with their snobby religious attitudes. That's why I dont like Christians, honestly, because most of them try and make me feel like crap smeared on their white robes.

And in that list, the only thing I can think of that may be valid would be the one about living with your girlfriend. 'Sex before marriage is supposed to be wrong cuz its not a spiritual consummation of the unity that God meant for us.'

But like, whatever, you know?

yeah i know what you mean, i believe in God but i'm not sure where he is or how to find him, i dont find him at church, why i stopped going, my user page says that i'm agnostic, but i think there is a God i just don't know for 100% sure

yes, just yes.............
why couldn't you have a full array of answers that included a YES answer.

why would that be??

I know there is a God, I just have lost faith in him... or something... every time i try to figure things out, I just get very stressed out.

So it frustrates me and I say fudge it.

I know what you mean there is hundreds of religions and hundreds of different versions of God, i dont know which is right if any, i was raised on christianity, so thats' what i figure, but i have no clue.

It just seems natural for women to be bisexual....and there would be more of a chance of me getting a three some with two women and me....

yep, me too...

I know i should go to church and try to live a better life and i feel bad about it, but again maybe i do not care enough to change?

Yes, I don't mind Christians, it's the 'Christian' act you mentioned that gets to me.

Is the pope a catholic?

Seems that you've already made your mind up about what the answer should be. There's no "yes" option without a qualifier or hesitation. I think it's definitely okay to be bisexual... maybe because I am...

I have mixed feelings. From a religous standpoint I would say I feel that it's not o.k. Ideally, and naturally, it should be one man and one woman. However, from a social standpoint I feel that whatever is done by between consenting people who are mature enough to decide such things for themselves should be a private matter. Everybody all over the world is doing his or her own thing, including the politicians who make the laws telling us we can't be doing the same things they are doing. "There is none good, no not one." Regardless whatever you call bisexuality; sin, vice, hobby, recreation or whatever, what gives any one of us the right to say that what I'm doing is o.k, but what you're doing should be against the law?

no dont be greedy ;)

No, according to the bible, you should not have sex with the same sex, only the opposite sex.

just for mine!

To each is there own.. I am Bi Sexual and I like it.. I have nothing again it....WOMAN KNOWS WHAT A WOMAN WANTS !!!!!!!!

Definitly. Yes there are always the jokes about being greedy, but so what. If it makes two people happy then what does it matter if a person is seeing a boy one month and a girl the next?

I am bisexual, but I wish I were strait. but not because of embarassment.

yes, who cares? do what makes you happy.

if your a girl

Hell yeah, I think it's okay! I'm one, and my boyfriend says it's perfectly okay, but he also said he'd rather have me than my girlfriend. He's a one-woman man. Never thought a black girl could be a bi, did ya?

It's definitely okay to be bisexual--I am, so I would be kinda weird if I thought it wasn't, but I do think (and know from personal experience) that you should never take this as a reason to have both a girlfriend and a boyfriend at the same time...It's too easy to hurt people that way. My ex-girlfriend was spending so much time with her boyfriend that I didn't feel like she loved me any more.

Yes, for your whole life. You are what you are.

to each his/her own, why no just yes option?

sure. you are who you are.

To the extent sex is pleasurable, why does it matter which chromosome is dominant in the person you are pleasing? I'm male and I enjoy checking out people of both sexes who appear to me to be good looking. Maybe all those years of masturbating as a kid numbed my sensitivity to the point of believing it does not really matter to me who's attached to the hand that's fondling my penis. Rather, its in how the job is done! Just an example. Now, that's only the sex side of it. Of course, add the dimension of an intimate relationship, and the question becomes another entirely.

Yes

Of course it is.

I see nothing wrong with being bisexual.

none of the above. YES would be a good choice for an answer

sexual orientation isnt something u choose for a certain amount of time ."okay im gonna be gay from may till july...." no doesnt happen like that.

yes...it's more natural than people admit