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Do you think that most parents lie to their children?




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30Yes
9I do not know
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Zang
posted 1-Feb-2006 8:45pm  
Why would anyone want to have children if they couldn't tell them outrageous lies?!!  * grin *

Isn't that half the fun?  * wry smile *
FauxLo Survey Central Gold Subscriber
posted 1-Feb-2006 8:46pm  
Most parents lie to their kids about: Santa Claus, the Tooth Fairy, the Easter Bunny, god. Yeah... most parents lie to the children about all kinds of things.  * duh! *
ultamate
posted 1-Feb-2006 9:05pm  
Heck yes! When my son was little he saved two baby sequels that fell out of the nest and was about to be eaten by a cat. We bottle feed them goats milk (I think it was). I felt like they would be better cared for by someone who knew what they were doing and could release them back in the wild. I found a woman threw my vet who cares for injured/abandoned animals and took them to her. About two weeks later I called the lady to find out how the sequels were doing. She said they died three days later from dehydration (we were feeding them the wrong stuff). My son was so proud that he “saved” two helpless squeals; I never told him the truth. I would hope if a parent is going lie to their kids it's to save them from pain that’s unnecessary. I would never lie to him to make myself seem flawless. I know parents who do that and I believe it is wrong.
timothy
posted 1-Feb-2006 9:12pm  
Uh santa clause, easter bunny, president bush
paulyw Survey Central Subscriber Gold Star Survey Creator Gold Qualifier
posted 1-Feb-2006 11:09pm  
Sometimes. IT depends on the situation.
llamamama Bronze Star Survey Creator
posted 1-Feb-2006 11:49pm  
Yes, little lies though..
RGirl
posted 2-Feb-2006 12:02am  
I am sure there are instances in which it is best to lie to your child.
blondie20
posted 2-Feb-2006 1:14am  
Yes, I think most do.
Enheduanna Survey Central Subscriber
posted 2-Feb-2006 1:54am  
At some point or another, I'm sure they do.
kirst
posted 2-Feb-2006 5:32am  
Very broad question. It depends on the people involved. I don't lie to my children although we do play along with their beliefs in Santa, the Easter Bunny and fairies. I
patarnone
posted 2-Feb-2006 5:52am  
I don't know that my parents ever lied to me, so I can't answer for anyone else. I'm very sure times have changed from when I was a kid and living at home.
Amanda
posted 2-Feb-2006 9:21am  
At some point, I think so. I've always made a special effort not to lie to Caleb, although I don't always tell him the whole truth. When he asks me tough questions, I give him just enough information to make him happy.
FauxLo Survey Central Gold Subscriber
posted 2-Feb-2006 9:25am  
 * evil smile * Oh boy! I'm sure he's going to love hearing about The Birds.............................................................................................. and.................................................................................................................................... the.................................................................................................. b.............................................e........................................e..............................................s, over the span of his early teen-aged years.
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Wackadoo
posted 2-Feb-2006 9:29am  
I have no idea. That's a pretty generalized question. Some lies are told for good reason; to protect the child(ren). I don't believe it is done maliciously. If parents do fib, it's most likely done because they're trying to be good parents.
Galomorro Bronze Star Survey Creator Gold Qualifier
posted 2-Feb-2006 9:29am  
Sure they do. Maybe not so much these days as they used to though.
CarolL
posted 2-Feb-2006 10:36am  
Yes. There are a million reasons that we do this. Sometimes the subject matter is just too adult in nature for full disclosure, sometimes it is to give them some childhood fun (like Santa and the Tooth Fairy).
CGTREE Happy Birthday to Me
posted 2-Feb-2006 2:48pm  
Of course.
teatree
posted 2-Feb-2006 3:09pm  
Of course, but there are lies and there are lies. Many parents tell children about Santa Claus, the Tooth Fairy, the Easter Bunny, some even go so far as to tell their children about the Boogeyman. Of course, some parents tell far worse lies than these.
verouge
posted 3-Feb-2006 1:36pm  
Yes, sometimes, they have to.
Enigma
posted 3-Feb-2006 9:29pm  
Do you mean "lies" like Santa Clause or the Easter Bunny? Or do you mean keeping things from children that are none of their business anyway? I would hope most parents know not to tell their children everything... it's too much of a burden for them and it takes away from their childhood. So I'm not sure what you mean I guess! Sorry!
cloudhugger
posted 3-Feb-2006 11:30pm  
s k i p p i n g . . .
cerealkiller Silver Star Survey Creator Gold Qualifier
posted 4-Feb-2006 1:30am  
Mandatory. The little rats don't have to know the truth all the time.
gambler Gold Star Survey Creator
posted 4-Feb-2006 7:34pm  
All of them isn't it? at some point............... strange question
FauxLo Survey Central Gold Subscriber
(reply to gambler) posted 5-Feb-2006 4:15am  
Strange??? C'mon! Be honest. It sucks!
Lahdee Survey Qualifier
posted 5-Feb-2006 8:17am  
Can't think of a single time I've lied to mine. No they don't have to know everything, but being vague or not telling them everything is not the same thing as telling them something false.
gambler Gold Star Survey Creator
(reply to FauxLo) posted 5-Feb-2006 8:45am  
be nice, Lurid Hope is THE man , when it comes to making surveys...... we all cant hit "one out of the park" every time?...
FauxLo Survey Central Gold Subscriber
(reply to gambler) posted 5-Feb-2006 9:43am  
Perhaps when he decides not to be so demeaning to other survey creators for their survey creations then I'll be nice... but he's a d!c& and it doesn't sit well with me, the way he voices his thoughts on a survey. Isn't that what Qual is for, after all?
FauxLo Survey Central Gold Subscriber
(reply to patarnone) posted 18-Feb-2006 10:43am  
Pat? Oh Pat? Where you at? Pat?  * smile *
shorty189
posted 20-Feb-2006 12:02pm  
I don't know. I won't lie to my kids. But about what? Lieing bout money, sex, when they were kids? About what?
tpstocks
posted 23-Feb-2006 6:44pm  
case in point: santa claus, easter bunny, tooth fairy, etc.
Primus
posted 13-Mar-2006 6:52pm  
heck yeah
LJD
posted 18-Apr-2006 11:00am  
Lie about what?
CynShar
posted 5-May-2006 8:15pm  
yes there are some things kids shouldn't know ..now is that lying YES
trouble_11668
posted 22-May-2006 12:50am  
Yes, we have to. Santa...Easter Bunny...Tooth Fairie.

I had to lie to my children about their father....he wouldn't see them and would say mean things to them like "I came to pick you up but you were not there" or "you sit out side and I will pick you up and he would never show up" Did I lie...yea, I told them he had to go to work, he forgot, anything so they wouldn't be hurt. (This was while they were very young, once they got older I stopped doing this and let them figure it out on their own)

Now that my kids are older, I am honest with them...probably brutally so and sometimes they hate me for it, but they respect me for it as well. They know without a doubt that I am telling them the truth because I don't lie to them. I hate it when people lie so I try my best to not do it.
dullmoon
posted 22-Apr-2007 6:50pm  
In Kurowsawa's "Dreams," the mother explains why her child should not go out into stormy weather: "The sun is shining, but it is raining. Foxes hold their wedding processions in this weather. And they don't like anyone to see them. If you do, they will be angry." I always wished that my mother would have told me this story, instead of "you'll catch your death of cold." I think that it is perfectly fine to lie to one's children. Truth is not as noble or interesting as many believe.
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