Have you ever cheated on a significant other?

Yes I cheated but I wish I could undo the past and kept what once was.

Many years ago when I was young I did (something like 20 years old). I was searching for what I thought I wanted and needed that was socially acceptable. Then I said fudge it when what I admitted what I needed and wanted regardless of what other people had to say about it.

No I have not...

I am currently sleeping with one man, dating another... and (whoohoo!) this guy I met out the other night just called me.. but I'm not attached to anyone... and I am having sooo much fun

No and i dont think I ever will. I found the perfect woman. I admit we do not have much of a sex life but sex is not marriage. We hold a bond and trust each other. I can not see my self with anyone else. for starters I suggest you get to know the person real well before getting to involved. We knew each other for four years before we even went out on a real date. We are still best friends and enjoy each other even when we do nothing.

Yeah. When I was 16. I feel bad when I think about it, but write it off as being young and stupid. He cheated on me first! So, I cheated on him with his best friend. One of those...you hurt me, I'll hurt you worse type of deals.

Since then, I've never really cheated. I've let things go too far twice, which I feel bad about. But, I stopped it before it went even further.

yes, i cheated and felt badly at the time. i probably shouldn't have done it at the time but i was confused, my life and our relationship was not going well, which neither one of us chose to recognize.............. needless to say i should not have strayed but i felt there was no other out. it has all worked out for the best. i have been together with my current partner(the person i strayed with) for 10 years.

All those wonderful suggestions, yet I choose other. I have in the past, awkward at the time, but I am not kicking myself about it. There wasn't much significance to the relationship.
How significant is the significant other? Living with someone without making a formal commitment does not mean they are going to be the one for the rest of my life, and dating someone for a stagnant 6 years neither of which, to me, qualifies as a real 'significant' other. Slipping away towards the inevitable end and fooling around? Does that truly qualify as cheating? My current love I could define as a significant other. I know that this is it, I don't think I have it in me to look for something else that may be missing, or lust for something. Who knows the future, really, but currently I know she is constantly wondering if someday I will wander, she asked me and I didn't know what to say.

No, and I've never considered it.

Yes.

what are feces???

Yes, but I don't really feel one way or the other about it now. It was a long time ago, and there wasn't much more than kissing involved.

No, never.

> All those wonderful suggestions, yet I choose
> other. I have in the past, awkward at the time,
> but I am not kicking myself about it. There wasn't
> much significance to the relationship.
> How significant is the significant other? Living
> with someone without making a formal commitment
> does not mean they are going to be the one for
> the rest of my life, and dating someone for a
> stagnant 6 years neither of which, to me, qualifies
> as a real 'significant' other. Slipping away towards
> the inevitable end and fooling around? Does that
> truly qualify as cheating? My current love I could
> define as a significant other. I know that this
> is it, I don't think I have it in me to look for
> something else that may be missing, or lust for
> something. Who knows the future, really, but currently
> I know she is constantly wondering if someday
> I will wander, she asked me and I didn't know
> what to say.

What a beautifully written emotional statement.

Other......... I have cheated on a past girlfriend, but then I did not consider her my SO, I have never cheated on my wife

Reminds me of the joke, where two women are talking and one says:

"I am dating two guys, one is thoughtful, attentive, caring and loving and considerate and the other is straight................."

funny that you say that.. I've been thinking lately that it's a damn shame my gay friend is gay... I'd dump them all for him.

*Hush*, ......... just listening to you (is that right?) sounds like an episode of Will & Grace

.. yeah he's definitely a Will.. and not a Jack (isn't that his name?)

Think so? so does his boyfriend get jealous of you?

Actually, he split with his man the same time I split with mine... so we're both single.. we went out the other night and it was so much fun.

*cough* So have you tried to "convert" him ?............

no I haven't.. I'm pretty sure he's all about the penis

But you just made me think of something funny... he's been thinking about buying the house right across the street from me... so we'll almost be like roommates

Uh huh...... its funny how gay men are the epitome of safe........... I remember once my wife was at an airport waiting for a flight, and this guy asks to sit next to her?... (My wife is pretty gorgeous and always attracts men) anyway she must have given him "bad vibes" and he says " Its Ok I am gay"

So they spend the next hour chatting etc, and he goes to catch his plane and he says "I,m not really gay, but I knew you would not let me sit and talk to you if I never told you that"

Regards David

ew.. that's just creepy to me..

I wonder if that guy thinks that approach actually works... like your wife was going to say... oh, well in that case, even though you started out our entire interaction with a lie, I'd love to have sex with you...

Yea, it is creepy, but I laughed when she told me

No, though once I was accused of cheating on her with her best friend...interesting as she lived 45 minutes away & I had no clue of how to contact her.

The second, I was accused of cheating via thoughts & emotions somehow.

Well, thank you.

> what are feces???

bad ex's.

> what are feces???

It's just a nice way of saying crap, crap, poop, poo, etc.

Yes I cheated, but I don't know if I have to regret cause I left both of the girls, I am sure it was a mistake, and I would not repeat it..

Nope, never have, but I've been cheated on before.

oh sounds like poo

hmm im sure its spelt differently..nevermind lol

I think it's spelled "faeces" or something like that in the U.K.

yes.. that would be it

Yeah, long ago, I had made that mistake. I wasn't caught, but I had to end the relationship because I couldn't bear what I had done. Furthermore, I had that happen to me many a time and I sure know how it feels. :(

Yes, I cheated on someone I was engaged to 18 years ago. I don't regret it and it served him right. Now I am married to the one I cheated with and have been married for 15 years. Best thing I ever did for myself.

I find myself sitting in front of my computer, answering this survey.

I would never want to see the hurt I caused. All it took was one time. Now the trust is gone. Will I ever get it back from my husband? Do not know ? But I will never do it again....

Only if they cheated first.

Kitti But two wrongs do not make things right... In the end two people get hurt and it leaves no trust at all between the two..... And kills what ever thay have together.... If not then but in time it willeat at you both ..due to you will worry what the other one is doing at all times...

Actually if someone cheats, I cheat back, work it out then punch them in the face and never look back. Payback is a motherfu*ker. As I get older this has happened to less often. I haven't dated anyone who cheated in 4-5 years.

I dont limit myself to just one person. I get all I can.

No, but I have yet to have a significant other.

No

No, I would leave him first. The only way I would cheat on him is if he cheated on me. What's good for the goose is good for the gander.

what kind of answer is, "No but if they hit me or treat me bad enough I might - for revenge and or to find their replacement." Why the hell wouldn't you just leave them!

Uh define cheating LOL