How do you generally cope after a serious romantic relationship in which you have been involved comes to an end?

not a clergy member, please. Take Revenge, Go On With Regular Life, Talk with Friends, Family, Therapist, Pack my Schedule

Getting dumped by a guy I'd been dating for almost 2 yrs. was one of the best and worst things that has happened to me. I coped by leaning on my friends, prayer, and trying to remember why the relationship ended. I realized that I couldn't place all the blame on him, and remember that things happen for a reason. I did end up losing 14 lbs. because I just couldn't eat. (Don't worry, I gained them back) You find out how strong you really are when you suddenly wind up without your significant other. I WILL SURVIVE by Gloria Gaynor was my theme song!!!

I checked quite a few off, but I also checked other. I would probably spend a lot of time by myself just thinking. I'd need some time alone to compose myself. I would enjoy walks outside and think about what went wrong. Not in a depressing way, but only in a way that I may learn from the experience. You need time to mourn the relationship, yes, but then life usually goes on.

I have never been in a serious relationship so I don't know.

I used to rush right into a new relationship, as fast as I could find one, but I seem to have gotten over that. I do call up old flames and indulge in some casual sex...I find that helps to remind me that I'm beautiful and capable, something I find a little hard to hold onto at such times. Fortunately, I have a really good support network to get me through the blues.

oh, nearly all!

well, although the answers given pretty much covered most of what I have done, there is also the suicidal response...but maybe this isn't considered "coping"...

how about not generally coping?? or feeling really sad for a long time?? and unable to get involved in another relationship?? - mostly i just go about my life, and at times feel intensly sad or lonely.

I like the revenge bit.

Beth: Yes! Don't you think that song should be taught to all girls everywhere, as preparation for life? You need attitude when you break up with someone...

I haven't really had to deal with this. But I checked "smoke too much" just to be on the safe side.

consider suicide

Wow, eight choices from only one breakup!

I try to work through my feelings, so I can truly get past them. This often involves a combination of introspection and talking with friends and family. I will also sometimes make sure to do fun things, to keep my spirits from dragging too badly. Also, I never throw away things or toughts of ex'es, as they are a part of my life, and contributed to who I am. I see no need to try to pretend that the relationship never existed.

I've never been in what I consider to be a serious romantic relationship. I date, but I don't consider that being in this kind of relationship.