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Did you have second thought moments before a wedding or commitment ceremony?




VotesAnswer
13I have never had a wedding/commitment ceremony.
10I have never had thoughts about canceling a wedding/commitment ceremony.
3Yes, I had second thoughts before a prior wedding/commitment ceremony but not with my present one.
3Other
1Yes, I had second thoughts before my current committed relationship.
0I have had second thoughts and cancelled it at the last minute.

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nonamejj18
posted 12-Jul-2005 3:57pm  
ive never been married or had a commitment ceremony WOOOOOOOOOO lol
jettles Survey Central Gold Subscriber Gold Qualifier
posted 12-Jul-2005 5:45pm  
hmmm, it seems i am not worthy of a wedding in these united states........... and no i haven't had a commitment ceremony.
Enheduanna Survey Central Subscriber
posted 12-Jul-2005 6:11pm  
I've never had a wedding or commitment ceremony.
Amanda
posted 12-Jul-2005 11:19pm  
Second and third and fourth thoughts, but went through with it anyway. How dumb can a person be? Oh well. You live and you learn.
Irene007 Survey Central Gold Subscriber Silver Star Survey Creator Survey Qualifier
posted 13-Jul-2005 5:45am  
No second thoughts for anything except maybe having my second baby; I thought: "What the FUDGE am I doing here again?!?" But that was the pain speaking...
Irene007 Survey Central Gold Subscriber Silver Star Survey Creator Survey Qualifier
(reply to jettles) posted 13-Jul-2005 5:46am  
> hmmm, it seems i am not worthy of a wedding in these united states...........
> and no i haven't had a commitment ceremony.

What do you mean not worthy?
jettles Survey Central Gold Subscriber Gold Qualifier
(reply to Irene007) posted 13-Jul-2005 6:57am  
> |> hmmm, it seems i am not worthy of a wedding in these united
> states...........
> |> and no i haven't had a commitment ceremony.
>
> What do you mean not worthy?

i am a lesbian and not allowed to lawfully wed in these united states!

CarolL
posted 13-Jul-2005 7:03am  
Haven't had one. That would be a pretty bad sign, though, wouldn't it?

Just an observation about the new qual system. Technically this question doesn't make sense because there should be an 's' on 'thought' in the question. The way it's written, we are being asked about 'second thought moments' which is something I have never heard of...
I am not criticizing, just observing the results of the new system.
iamdonte
posted 13-Jul-2005 11:28am  
I had second thoughts before my commitment ceremony and my wedding. I think I should have stuck to that second thought before the wedding.
Irene007 Survey Central Gold Subscriber Silver Star Survey Creator Survey Qualifier
(reply to jettles) posted 13-Jul-2005 9:29pm  
Well... Come on UP! You can do it here!  * wink *
gambler Gold Star Survey Creator Gold Qualifier
posted 13-Jul-2005 9:50pm  
have never had thoughts about canceling a wedding/commitment ceremony.
jettles Survey Central Gold Subscriber Gold Qualifier
(reply to Irene007) posted 14-Jul-2005 8:06am  
we have seriously talked about it. we have friends who have been married in canada. we would feel a need to move permanently because that marriage would not be recognized in the US either. we have the discussion about 3 times a year.
Irene007 Survey Central Gold Subscriber Silver Star Survey Creator Survey Qualifier
(reply to jettles) posted 14-Jul-2005 9:14pm  
> we have seriously talked about it. we have friends who have been
> married in canada. we would feel a need to move permanently because
> that marriage would not be recognized in the US either. we have the
> discussion about 3 times a year.


Aren't some states allowing it now? Or is everything still up in the air?
jettles Survey Central Gold Subscriber Gold Qualifier
(reply to Irene007) posted 15-Jul-2005 10:26am  
mass has marriage but it is only recognized by mass and vermont has civil ceremonies again only recognized legally by vt. so unless we are willing to move to those states and don't expect anywhere else in the US to recognize us legally. it's going to take a while!
Irene007 Survey Central Gold Subscriber Silver Star Survey Creator Survey Qualifier
(reply to jettles) posted 15-Jul-2005 10:44pm  
 * laughing out loud * I was married in Vermont! I  * love * Vermont!
sexy1
posted 9-Aug-2005 12:18pm  
nope
mve17
posted 16-Aug-2005 2:14pm  
meh nope
patarnone
posted 7-Sep-2005 1:55am  
One was enough. Had I known then what I learned later.
Melf Gold Qualifier
posted 26-Sep-2008 2:49pm  
No. Commitment ceremony? That's drier than a tin full of stale rich tea biscuits.
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