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Is it morally wrong to have sex before marriage?




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13Yes
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ROCKMAN
posted 29-May-2005 9:40am  
No! HELL NO!!

I'm not married, but I live with my Woman and we have sex all the time and will continue to do so. * smile *
Galomorro Bronze Star Survey Creator Gold Qualifier
posted 29-May-2005 9:52am  
Not at all.
CGTREE
posted 29-May-2005 10:44am  
Of course not. I don't believe in marriage.
autumnlight
posted 29-May-2005 10:59am  
No, not at all.
darkshadowsseeker
posted 29-May-2005 11:23am  
Depends on the age of the people involved.
Maarten
posted 29-May-2005 11:24am  
No of course not. Wake up and step into the real world!!
Maarten
(reply to darkshadowsseeker) posted 29-May-2005 11:24am  
How many children that have married do you know?
they Bronze Star Survey Creator Survey Qualifier
posted 29-May-2005 11:33am  
Nope...

Hell, I'd be a virgin because I plan to never get married.
kirst
posted 29-May-2005 11:37am  
I believe that it's wrong (don't know about the "morally" part) to have sex without a strong emotionally commitment. Looking back, I wonder why I felt compelled to have sex with several of the people that I did. Wouldn't do it again.
bill Survey Central Gold Subscriber Gold Star Survey Creator
posted 29-May-2005 11:46am  
Is it sexy to have the wrong morals before marriage?
Is the moral of marriage wrong before sex?
Marry the wrong sex before the wrong morals.
bill Survey Central Gold Subscriber Gold Star Survey Creator
(reply to they) posted 29-May-2005 11:47am  
You really should just get married... stop being stubborn! Give in, be like everyone else!
they Bronze Star Survey Creator Survey Qualifier
(reply to bill) posted 29-May-2005 11:57am  
 * laughing out loud * I won't do it! If they change the laws, maybe... until then, no way.

In registering Mary for school, I came across a hurdle... Since Rod and I aren't married, he has no legal guardianship over her apparently. They want a marriage certificate or a court custody document to prove that he can pick her up from school or whatever.. but I think I've found a way to get out of all that. I think it's total BS though.
Maarten
(reply to they) posted 29-May-2005 12:43pm  
That's why we got married. Or else I had fill out a zillion forms so I could be her legal father, or something.
LindaH Survey Central Gold Subscriber Gold Star Survey Creator Survey Qualifier
posted 29-May-2005 12:44pm  
Anchorage schools allow the legal guardian to designate 2 people (besides mom or dad) authorised to pick the kid up. It can be any 2 people. Grandma, mom's best friend, anyone mom or dad writes in that space.
Enheduanna Survey Central Subscriber
posted 29-May-2005 1:04pm  
No.
Biggles Bronze Star Survey Creator Gold Qualifier
posted 29-May-2005 1:14pm  
No, but it may be morally wrong to have sex before marriage if you believe that sex before marriage is morally wrong...
Frostbrand Bronze Star Survey Creator
posted 29-May-2005 1:58pm  
Only if that was your upbrining. People who want to wait don't annoy me, but people who want EVERYONE ELSE to wait too need to just move to Iran or something.  * rolls eyes *
romkey Survey Central Gold Subscriber
posted 29-May-2005 2:10pm  
I think it's more likely morally wrong not to have sex before marriage.
Iseult Survey Central Subscriber Silver Star Survey Creator Gold Qualifier
posted 29-May-2005 2:37pm  
No.
bill Survey Central Gold Subscriber Gold Star Survey Creator
(reply to they) posted 29-May-2005 3:12pm  
You can think of it as an act of solidarity with gay couples, who have those sorts of problems as well. Maybe, you could start a trend for straight couples who want to make a political statement in favor of gay marriage. We could refuse to get married until they let gays marry too.  * smile *
sexy1
posted 29-May-2005 3:12pm  
no not at all!
thevelvetcure
posted 29-May-2005 5:25pm  
No, it depends upon your personal morals.
they Bronze Star Survey Creator Survey Qualifier
(reply to bill) posted 29-May-2005 11:03pm  
Nah, I'm just riding on the gay coat tails really... I didn't work towards having the rights that I do. I just take advantage of the rights that gay couples have struggled for. I also take advantage of stupid tax laws... I'm like a parasite really  * wink *
bcollins
posted 29-May-2005 11:31pm  
No but it may be illegal depending on where you live.
bombill
posted 30-May-2005 12:36am  
No. The Bible, which many use as a standard of morality, does cite it as a sin, but I feel that was much more important before birth control. I'm more inclined to say sex before love is the problem. Even so, recreational sex is a risky but not necessarily bad thing to do.
bill Survey Central Gold Subscriber Gold Star Survey Creator
(reply to they) posted 30-May-2005 7:13am  
leech!
Zang
posted 30-May-2005 9:21am  
I suppose it could be...
TrinityAnn
posted 30-May-2005 11:17pm  
not in my opinion, its smart not to though, because you are less likely to obtain a sexually transmitted disease because you are more likely to be (forgot the word but it means you only have one partner you sleep with) and if your married then it will probably be the same mate for many years if not forever
gambler Gold Star Survey Creator Gold Qualifier
posted 31-May-2005 8:12am  
Who's morals?................No
paulyw Survey Central Subscriber Gold Star Survey Creator Gold Qualifier
posted 31-May-2005 9:51am  
Well, I am actually undecided, assuming the couple has sex, and the women gets pregnant, and shortly after the baby is born, they break up. That is one thing I don't like to see, because the man who got women pregnant is responsible for the baby until s/he turns 18, by paying child support unless the baby lives with the father, and the mother pays the child support.
Matty
posted 31-May-2005 8:56pm  
yes, but I certainly wasn't perfect
kmacinct
posted 1-Jun-2005 9:40am  
 * duh! * These day's sex is not associated with a commitment anymore.

Just like a divorce was taboo years ago, so was sex before marriage.
Now it's a way of life.
whizkid
(reply to CGTREE) posted 1-Jun-2005 2:33pm  
dude, what's up with the morality thing. look homie, morality may be keepin you up at night with a standing woody. just say 'i do' in your head before you get down with your babe,
nonamejj18
posted 1-Jun-2005 6:37pm  
im going to hell if it is.....
Irene007 Survey Central Gold Subscriber Silver Star Survey Creator Survey Qualifier
posted 1-Jun-2005 9:53pm  
Gawd no! Like I said before; we take sex too seriously. We take ourselves too seriously too...
Irene007 Survey Central Gold Subscriber Silver Star Survey Creator Survey Qualifier
(reply to nonamejj18) posted 1-Jun-2005 9:55pm  
> im going to hell if it is.....

Don't worry! I've been there and back; it's not so bad!!  * wink *
ElvisFan67 Bronze Star Survey Creator
posted 2-Jun-2005 2:52pm  
I guess it depends on whether or not you're a Christian.
nonamejj18
(reply to Irene007) posted 2-Jun-2005 3:58pm  
lol good to know
julysky
posted 2-Jun-2005 11:45pm  
No, not anymore thanks to the ever changing structure of marriage
darkroomdanny
posted 3-Jun-2005 5:55pm  
No, I don't think so. (A Vicar friend of mine even admitted to having intercourse with his wife before marriage) I think it's ok if you're in a committed loving relationship.
spin_spin_sugar
posted 19-Jun-2005 6:36pm  
It's like test driving a car
teflon01
posted 28-Jun-2005 4:44am  
Who the F&%k cares!!!! People should drop this one already. It's gonna happen no matter how many times we discuss it.
Amanda
posted 3-Jul-2005 1:35am  
I certainly hope not!!!
Angel_01
posted 6-Jul-2005 3:31am  
The bible says a mam shall not lay with another man and a woman shall not lay with another female.
cloudhugger
posted 10-Aug-2005 10:18pm  
I cannot and will not answer this question.
cloudhugger
(reply to bill) posted 10-Aug-2005 10:20pm  
Yay Bill!, where do we start?
bill Survey Central Gold Subscriber Gold Star Survey Creator
(reply to cloudhugger) posted 11-Aug-2005 12:18am  
too late for me...
nigel71
posted 5-Sep-2005 11:57am  
Nope , whatever consenting adults choose to get up to and all that ( living with someone before commiting to marrying them is good to in my experience - is a big part of why I'm in a happy marriage now instead of the hell on earth I could've easily been in )
patarnone
posted 11-Sep-2005 4:39am  
No.

Define "Morally."
thecomic22
posted 4-Oct-2005 12:10pm  
well then forgive me father for i have sinned.......
aeconometrics
posted 30-Oct-2005 2:57am  
God Made it very clear one man one woman in the context of marriage. to me , premarital sex is wrong
inlove2004
posted 31-Oct-2005 8:45am  
no i dont think it is because you want your husband/wife to satisfy you for the rest of your life and how will you know if they do if you dont at least have sex with them once before you get married
inlove2004
(reply to bill) posted 31-Oct-2005 8:49am  
why do you think it is so wrong does this mean that you dont do it. i sure do im in love with my man. YOU should try it some time.
bill Survey Central Gold Subscriber Gold Star Survey Creator
(reply to inlove2004) posted 31-Oct-2005 8:59am  
I'm not sure what you're responding to... Initially I made some joking posts here... then, I tried to convince "they" to get married (which is kind of ironic at this point). Then, I was suggesting that straight people should refuse to get married in protest until laws are changed to allow gay marriage. But, I've been married for 9 years or so, so it's too late for me to do that.
inlove2004
(reply to bill) posted 1-Nov-2005 8:28am  
im sorry i didnt know what you were talking about but it didnt offend me so it is all good. im glad that you are happy. sorry about all that
kitti723
posted 9-Nov-2005 8:24am  
No, It is human nature. What do you think people did before the church was conjured up? What did man and woman do before the tradition of marriage?
FauxLo Survey Central Gold Subscriber
posted 29-Nov-2005 6:12pm  
...it's lame NOT to have sex before marriage. If you don't kick the tires and drive it around the block a couple times, you might just end up with a lemon.
RGirl
posted 18-Feb-2006 2:58am  
No, sex is natural. You need to be responsible, but its nature.
Gomezy3k
posted 5-Jul-2009 3:38pm  
Nope. Wish I had.
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