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Is sharing genuine suicidal thoughts nothing more than a plea for attention?




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24No
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9Yes

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LindaH Survey Central Gold Subscriber Bronze Star Survey Creator Survey Qualifier
posted 11-Jan-2005 11:47pm  
Probably not.
spidertea
posted 11-Jan-2005 11:51pm  
NO.
Irene007 Survey Central Subscriber Bronze Star Survey Creator
posted 11-Jan-2005 11:52pm  
Not always...  * frown *
darkshadowsseeker
posted 12-Jan-2005 12:07am  
Sometimes.
BerrieGrrl
posted 12-Jan-2005 12:37am  
no, not if they're genuine.
EyesOfCharisma Bronze Star Survey Creator Gold Qualifier
posted 12-Jan-2005 1:22am  
I believe if u wanna do it........ DO IT. If you bring it up to someone, then you are trying to get help.....or attention...whateva
Biggles Bronze Star Survey Creator Gold Qualifier
posted 12-Jan-2005 7:13am  
It could be, or it may be fatalistic calm and knowing that you have to say goodbye or explain why before you kill yourself.
bill Survey Central Gold Subscriber Double Gold Star Survey Creator
posted 12-Jan-2005 7:36am  
Yes, but life in general is a plea for attention.

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jettles Survey Central Gold Subscriber Bronze Star Survey Creator Gold Qualifier
posted 12-Jan-2005 9:21am  
hhhmmm, i would tend to think yes. or you could call it, a genuine attempt at proving to oneself that no one cares about you and if noone reacts then i am right and will kill myself.
caviartaste
posted 12-Jan-2005 9:30am  
Absolutely not. It is a necessary reaching out for help in a time of need...it doesn't matter what for. If the person needs attention - there's a REASON they need it!!!
Sahndya
posted 12-Jan-2005 11:53am  
I think it would depend on if the person sharing the thoughts is open to accepting help. If they are genuinely reaching out, then it's not "nothing more". I knew one girl who constantly threatened just so she could get her own way (because everyone knew she came from a trouble background), but she wasn't open to accepting help or seeing someone professional who could help her. I think it gave her a sense of power or something, and that was really frustrating. But like I said, if someone share's those thoughts or feelings, and they're open to trying different methods of getting help, I think it's very positive.
cerealkiller Gold Star Survey Creator Gold Qualifier
posted 12-Jan-2005 11:57am  
Yes and no. For those not really serious about it I think it is mainly looking for attention.
For those really serious about it I think it is an attempt for help, an excuse not to go through with it.
Updown
posted 12-Jan-2005 12:01pm  
Sharing genuine suicidal thoughts is a call for help. Sharing false suicidal thoughts is a plea for attention.
Updown
(reply to bill) posted 12-Jan-2005 1:03pm  
What about hermits?
Enheduanna Survey Central Subscriber
posted 12-Jan-2005 1:20pm  
No.
kirst
posted 12-Jan-2005 2:23pm  
No.
bill Survey Central Gold Subscriber Double Gold Star Survey Creator
(reply to Updown) posted 12-Jan-2005 4:56pm  
Hermits draw attention to themselves by setting themselves apart.
Updown
(reply to bill) posted 12-Jan-2005 5:04pm  
That is true. They are the subject of much rumor and debate.
Iseult Quadruple Gold Star Survey Creator Gold Qualifier
posted 13-Jan-2005 3:42am  
Oh yeah, I do it all the time.
dora
posted 13-Jan-2005 12:29pm  
Of course it is more than a plea for attention, most of the times, and even when it is there's something wrong anyway and the person shouldn't be dismissed as an attention whore or a drama queen or anything. It's dangerous to do so.
iamdonte
posted 15-Jan-2005 1:22pm  
I wouldn't call it a plea for attention, but I would call it a plea for help (if nothing more than for someone to listen to how they felt).
JessicaWoman99
posted 16-Jan-2005 4:13pm  
Suicidal thoughts are not a plea for attention, suicidal thoughts are a plea! for help" HELP ME! I have been here and I have tried suicide a number of times , and my Therapist and the Police take me very seriously, and I am on medication Prozac for my depression, and I have no intentions of harming myself ever! now that I am who I am, in this life? Sharing suicide thoughts should not be taken lightly. Besides, who knows if I mean, what I truly say to them? I could just as easily fool them and commit suicide before they know what is happening! it can take a matter of seconds for a person to kill themselves I tell you this from experience, and what I have been through in life. I have been in Psychiatric Hospital Wards before for attempting suicide.
Iseult Quadruple Gold Star Survey Creator Gold Qualifier
(reply to JessicaWoman99) posted 16-Jan-2005 7:13pm  
I used to think like you, but once you get older you might come to realize that people see through such things instantly. Don't think too much of it, okay?
EyesOfCharisma Bronze Star Survey Creator Gold Qualifier
posted 17-Jan-2005 11:30am  
It always makes me laugh, hearing that people 'attempted' suicide... I mean crap, if you cant kill yourself right... What else do you got... It is just cries for help... I have never tried to kill myself, but I will tell you, if I wanted to do it, I could, it wouldnt be an 'attempt'
ASexyBabe
posted 18-Jan-2005 9:08am  
could be or not, I don't wanna make the decision about which it is
Iseult Quadruple Gold Star Survey Creator Gold Qualifier
(reply to EyesOfCharisma) posted 18-Jan-2005 12:41pm  
You're so funny  * smile *
I wish more people approached this matter the way you do. It would discourage many people to seek attention in this way, but rather to try to prove themselves positively.
EyesOfCharisma Bronze Star Survey Creator Gold Qualifier
(reply to Iseult) posted 18-Jan-2005 4:04pm  
will u marry me
Iseult Quadruple Gold Star Survey Creator Gold Qualifier
(reply to EyesOfCharisma) posted 18-Jan-2005 4:53pm  
YES!!!
EyesOfCharisma Bronze Star Survey Creator Gold Qualifier
(reply to Iseult) posted 18-Jan-2005 5:04pm  
woohooo!!!!!! Am I taking your last name, or are you taking mine?
Steelhorses
posted 18-Jan-2005 9:55pm  
The problem is that you do not know when they are genuine or not. After the third or fourth time, it gets to the point that it is not believable anymore. I have known one person that did commit suicide and that person never even discussed it. I think discussing it is a way for people to open communications with the person or people that are causing them pains.
Iseult Quadruple Gold Star Survey Creator Gold Qualifier
(reply to EyesOfCharisma) posted 18-Jan-2005 11:30pm  
We can take each others'!  * smile *
EyesOfCharisma Bronze Star Survey Creator Gold Qualifier
(reply to Iseult) posted 18-Jan-2005 11:55pm  
ok, ur last name is Sevedge...what is mine
pengy
posted 23-Jan-2005 3:14pm  
It is a plea for help!
southernyankee Bronze Star Survey Creator
posted 23-Jan-2005 3:25pm  
no, its more of a cry for help.
Melf Gold Qualifier
posted 23-Jun-2008 4:30pm  
Of course not.
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