Once you die, what do you think people will remember you by?

Hopefully that I was a good parent to my son.

Being a nice, fun, sweet person. And pretty too.

who knows...i have this way of just kind of 'blending in', so for many there might not be a whole lot to remember. for those who do know me? hopefully something having to do with being a good mom, good friend, etc.

depends which people you are asking about

the crater I made when I exploded

My tombstone? But wait... I am going to be cremated... so I guess my urn.

The people who knew me will remember me by having known me. No-one else will remember me.

Hopefully, they'll just remember that I cared about them.

That I had a propensity to believe in people, and to try to get them to believe in themselves. ...That's about it.....

Hopefully that I was nice and tried to help.

The smell of rotting flesh...

For some time, a few chess problems.

Depends on who is doing the remembering. Family would say I was boring, a robot, strange, quiet, a liar, a perverted sick individual.
Outsiders would say I was a quiet, nice, laid-back, intelligent person.

that I was a supperstar of sex

at least thats what I hope

I won't be remembered.
At any rate, My parents will die before me and i will die alone and unloved with no one to mourn me.

Maybe thinking like that is hurting more than it's helping?

Old photos?

My name.

Lurid, sweetie, I've often been curious as to what makes you feel this way? I mean, you don't have to tell me - but you can tell someone....
There are so many people in the world, and you don't have to be alone. You're one of the most fun people here to talk to. I think if you were to ever leave SC - you would be sorely missed. You are much more dear to everyone here than you realize.
I believe sometimes we all underestimate how much other people around us care. I know I struggle with this. I only have a small group of people close to me, but I have to remind myself all the time that it takes effort to stay in touch with them and do things with them....because I am one of those people who would be just content to stay in my house and sit on my couch until someone picked up the phone to call me. Unfortunately, much to my dismay, friendships don't work that way, and I have had to reach out of my comfort zone to maintain some of them.
I know that there are alot of circumstances in our lives that can not be changed, and that makes things harder for some people. I don't know if that is the case with you, but it is with me. Sometimes it's easier if you tell people up front - hey, I have "this".....show them your baggage - if it's bigger than a carry-on, and let them make a decision up-front, whether or not they want to stick around. I learned from a dear old friend of mine, that it saves alot of pain in the long run.
Sometimes, people will suprize you. You get all the rough stuff out of the way first - and then they know it's pretty much smooth sailing after that.
And there are some things that we do have control over.....and that is where the old saying "if you want your life to change - change your life!" comes in.... Sitting on the couch doesn't change it. (ok, now I'm talking to myself )
I empathize with you very much sometimes.....email me if you'd like to talk. My address is on my user page......

I appreciate your sentiment.
It comes as at a much needed time for me.
I'm basically a very complicated person,
most people immediately recognize something imposing about me,
I inadvertently intimidate with my intellect and intuition,
then become an object of ridicule
because I am introspective and socially withdrawn.
It's a lot worse than it sounds,
and it's lonely way to be.

so you're not most people.... ....neither am I.

A nice and friendly guy and a great dad!

that i got by
eating moldy rye
and i would always try
to be high

It depends how old I am when I die.