Sign On
Create Account

Click Here

Last

TypeCreatedCategoryCreatorSortVotesHidesRating
single14-Oct-2004sex/relationshipsthevelvetcure by votes63958.0%

Advanced_Stats

Have you ever taken a break from a long term relationship successfully?

I would classify a long term relationship as two years or longer, and successfully gotten back together afterwards.



VotesAnswer
24No, I haven't done this.
9Yes, and this was my experience...
8No, I've never been in a long term relationship
6No, it wasn't 'successful'
2Other
1No, because I don't date

UserComment
pandora
posted 15-Oct-2004 6:40pm  
Dammit, I've tried.
Biggles Bronze Star Survey Creator Survey Qualifier
posted 15-Oct-2004 7:36pm  
I've never been in a long-term relationship.
Enheduanna Survey Central Subscriber
posted 15-Oct-2004 7:53pm  
No; by your definition, I am currently in my only long-term relationship. We haven't taken a break.
EyesOfCharisma
posted 15-Oct-2004 9:17pm  
Nope...If we broke up, it was for a reason....
bill Survey Central Gold Subscriber Gold Star Survey Creator
posted 15-Oct-2004 9:45pm  
The closest I came to this was I fooled around with a girlfriend (my first, actually) after I got back from college for the summer (where I'd had another relationship). There was no intention to get back together, I think it was just comfortable and it happened.
moonstone
posted 15-Oct-2004 11:34pm  
no
MacGregor
posted 16-Oct-2004 10:56am  
Yes, my boyfriend and I broke up for about a month after dating for about two years. It was a long distance relationship and we were fighting all the time. I was calling him WAY too much and feeling like I was doing all the work in the relationship. After not taking at all for a month we both realized that we didn't want to see other people and were commited to working things out. Things were amazingly better after that and we've been married for four years now and are doing great. I would say though, that if either of us had dated other people during that time it would have been too hard to get over that.
judgescratch
posted 16-Oct-2004 11:39am  
Yes, but we weren't broken up for long (compared to how long we were together, but at the time it seemed like forever). And, while we were broken up, we still talked to eachother, about our problems and life stuff in general. It takes a lot of work, and committment, but it can happen, it did for me! (We're still successfully and happily together for 7 years, and a year ago we were broken up for several months.)
Maarten
posted 16-Oct-2004 6:42pm  
How long is a break??
thevelvetcure
(reply to Maarten) posted 16-Oct-2004 9:13pm  
In my case ... most likely over a year  * frown * A month or more, I suppose it's all relative to the amount of time spent together.
moviesnob
posted 17-Oct-2004 12:02pm  
No, because I've never been in a relationship that long.
juliw
posted 17-Oct-2004 5:55pm  
nope
iamdonte
posted 17-Oct-2004 10:11pm  
yes, I was married once for 16 years...we are good friends now.
thevelvetcure
(reply to MacGregor) posted 18-Oct-2004 5:09am  
I hope one month will be all it takes, but then again, with me going off to Uni, I just hope to be in semi-regular contact.  * wry smile *
thevelvetcure
(reply to iamdonte) posted 18-Oct-2004 5:09am  
Any hopes/plans of getting back together, or is that totally out of the question?
iamdonte
(reply to thevelvetcure) posted 18-Oct-2004 7:15am  
totally out of the question - but I am glad that we are friends since we have two children together - makes things much easier when dealing with them.
bonniath
posted 18-Oct-2004 9:10am  
Took a 6 month break from a marriage, got back together, then after a couple years, the marriage finally disintegrated totally! * broken heart *
thevelvetcure
(reply to iamdonte) posted 18-Oct-2004 1:09pm  
A very important factor with children involved.  * wink *
caviartaste
posted 18-Oct-2004 1:54pm  
My husband and I dated waaaay back when I was a freshman in college and he was in high school - but the timing just wasn't right for either of us and we were TOO young! We both needed to live a little more..... I broke it off because I couldn't do a long distance relationship while I was away at college....then after college I married someone else.
Funny thing is - I never let a single year go by without knowing what was up with him - without talking....always checking in....
And finally, when my first marriage was over and my divorce was final, our friendship turned into something bigger than we ever imagined. I discovered he was the love of my life and always had been.
It was staring me right in the face all along!!!!  * shock *
baybean
posted 18-Oct-2004 2:34pm  
yes. we dated off and on for about three years, took a two year break, which included my moving cross-country, but now we are back together and we both know this is it. We were young (in our 20s) and feeling too big for our own britches, so to speak. A lot has happened, especially when my health began to fail, and such problems gave both of us a lot of perspective. I have since recovered and it actually brought us closer together; such a cliche, I'm sure! ... We have every intention of making this a lifelong commitment. ... FINALLY! We knew from the beginning that the other was "the one" but we were both too stubborn to admit it :).
heyzeus1
posted 18-Oct-2004 2:48pm  
why do you ask?
i think in most cases it would not work. sometimes it does. it depends on the people.
Zang
posted 18-Oct-2004 10:11pm  
I guess that would depend on your definition of "successfully" in this context.  * raspberry *
thresholdking
posted 19-Oct-2004 12:32am  
About 4 times
icurok
posted 20-Oct-2004 9:03am  
How long does the break have to be for it to be a break?
TheDoctor
posted 21-Oct-2004 5:35pm  
No. I sometimes wish my recent divorce were just a break. My ex-wife is a great gal and we drifted apart when three members of her family died in a house fire a year into our marriage. I'm just very thankful she hasn't pulled away from me completely because she has never gotten over it. She lost many friends for her devastation unfortunately so she needs as many as she can maintain.
RGirl
posted 19-Feb-2006 2:15am  
And I was A OK. Don't need a relationship to have a fulfilling life.
Gomezy3k
posted 5-Jul-2009 4:03pm  
Yes I finally pried her grubby fingers off me and escaped town.
Last
Advanced_Stats

If you'd like to vote and/or comment on this survey, please Sign On

 
Link this survey: http://surveycentral.org/survey/19683.html

Hits: 5 today (166 in the last 30 days)