What do you dislike the most about yourself?

Right now, it's superficial really. Just a stubborn beer gut that will not go away no matter how many crunches and sit ups I do.

oh come now, you seem to be a very enjoyable person.

enjoyable, ok...you just don't know what i see when i see me, i 'wish' i could see me as other's see me

Just look in a mirror and start making funny faces.

My procrastination.

My salary.

Well, I do have a bad habit of slouching--so that's probably the worst thing about me.

bleh...well, in the past few months i've had the opportunity to really look at myself and my weaknesses, and i hate that i've always been a pushover. sometimes i worry so much about making others happy that i compromise my own happiness. gotta stop that. that's all i'll say for now cuz i could go on and on. i don't hate myself entirely, but i can be quite critical.

My body.

I'm not patient enough and I'm fat.

My anger.

I wish I wouldn't go through spells of low motivation - where maybe I wish I had another job, but I don't work as hard towards getting one....that kind of thing.
Thing is overall, I'm pretty keen on myself, and I'm pretty content, so that makes for not alot of reason for me to look around or move around.......I just keep saying....I'll just stay until they piss me off and that has turned into 6 1/2 years. So a wee bit more career ambition would be nice....it's just that I used to live to work and then I had a major life event and found out that working is not what life is all about and instead of slowing things down - my motivation came to a screeching halt. Now I don't know any other way of seeing things...... I can't find the grey area anymore....

Bleh

impatience

My impatience.

Nothing right now.

that's the best idea/suggestion i've heard yet!

> I'm not patient enough and I'm fat.

Your kidding right? From that pic you posted on your user page you look FINE Good lookin gal.

Don't look in the mirror and then just think possitive.

i'm positive that i'll make funny faces at myself later on


(thanks)

Sometimes, I think I'm too sensitive to someone's ulterior motives, but maybe I'm even making them up!

OK, as long as your positive.

absolutely positive!

My insecurities.

The fact that I am predisposed to fear and worry.

my anxiety/panic issues

Thank you.

It's just my own neurosis, really, that I've got to look like Serena Williams.

The fact that I am afraid of vomiting and have Emetophobia. Well, I hate eveything about myself...

My lack of confidence.

Anxiety

My weight.

from your picture you do NOT look fat. believe me, when i was 18 i thought i was fat as well (i was 5'6" and about 135 which isn't model skinny, but not horrible, either), now i'm 26 and after having two kids i'd kill to be the size i was then.

> I'm not patient enough and I'm fat.
...would you rather look like an emaciated runway model?

Hun you look great! Get over it! I wish I was 20 again.
Good thing my woman is down playing slots right now!

I just checked your picture and you look so cute.

I dunno, I guess I need time to used to the whole fact that I actually do have an appetite. It all started going downhill after I quit smoking.

No.

my freckles, i can never get a tan. i always turn out with spots

speaking of pictures...after looking at yours, i noticed the jewelry, (of course), you're wearing. anyhow...i just made this necklace the other day that SCREAMS you!

interested?

ugh, right???
when i was a late teen, i thought i was so hideous fat etc etc...looking back at a couple of pics and stuff, i would kill to look anything like that again.

Sure, I'd love it.

Funny you should mention my jewellery, since it's all gone now. See, my sister (that dog) just packed it all up with her and she's in Denmark now and I won't see her until next April.

f-in sisters

well...my email is on my profile. drop me a line w/ your addy and stuff

I can't find your email on your profile.

being me

I'm not very nice.

thanks i know, smoking is evil! half the reason my weight is (somewhat) down right now is because i started smoking again. nice diet, eh?

Your fine. Just look at me.

Come on, it's just a bad hair day.

my aversion to confrontation.......... i have to force myself to stick up for myself many times.

I am very selfish, so I can't share my life with another without hurting them. I don't mean material matters, because I like to share my money with my friends.

I'm lazy.

Honestly, I think all teenage girls and most women think they're fat. I am not and have never been fat. I know that in the logical part of my brain - but I have days where part of me *believes* that I'm fat. I can keep that logical voice telling me that's silly, but if I ever lost that, it would be easy to convince myself that I was fat. I'm about 5'7" and weigh about 125 - 130lbs (it varies with my cycle). Not fat! And yet some days.... I honestly don't know why we should feel this way - it's pretty sad.

I think myself fat because I'm not tigheted up. Eg I don't have muscles to support me under my skin so everything jiggles.

There's a level of tonedness which it would be nice to have, Some people overdo it though - women with really sinewy arms and sixpacks look a little odd.

I know what you mean, it's not very nice (like what Jenet Jackson has).

I tend to dwell on little bad things that happen and ignore the big good things.

I find it hard (unnecessary) to make small talk so I rarely call anyone. I use the phone for business.

I get on a lot easier with women. I would like to have some close male friends but I can't handle endless talking about rugby stats or gambling.

I wish I knew more about cars.

I dismiss people who I feel believe in crap.

I don't let anyone close to me.

I swear too much.

I love beer too much.

I need to expand my vocabulary.

I argue with people who give orders I find ridiculous.

I have a BIG problem with authority.

I have no concept of time.

I need at least 2 things to be happening at once or I'm bored.

Wow, that's a long list. It's great that you can admit all of these things though. And you know, you could change any of these things if you wanted Except for the beer loving cause I love it too!

There's a few things I don't think I could change. I have very little respect for anyone who believes in anything that can be disproven by history or facts.

My ability to piss people off in a matter of seconds
My dependency on others