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What do you do when someone around you is grouchy?




VotesAnswer
10Grouch back at them
20Ask them what's bugging them
23Ignore them
28Get away from them
20Try to help them feel less grouchy
12Other

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paulyw Survey Central Subscriber Gold Star Survey Creator Gold Qualifier
posted 8-Jul-2004 12:22pm  
I would ignore them and tell them to move in with Oscar The Grouch if they continue to be grouchy.
bill Survey Central Gold Subscriber Double Gold Star Survey Creator
posted 8-Jul-2004 12:26pm  
all of the above
pandora
posted 8-Jul-2004 1:04pm  
It depends on the day, who it is, and how I'm feeling.
autumnlight
posted 8-Jul-2004 1:15pm  
It depends on who it is. If it's someone I care about then I will try to make them feel better, if it's someone I don't know then I'll get away from them.
FordGuy Silver Star Survey Creator Gold Qualifier
posted 8-Jul-2004 1:29pm  
Humor is my best weapon - I usually try to make them laugh.
they Bronze Star Survey Creator Survey Qualifier
posted 8-Jul-2004 1:39pm  
All of the above.
moonstone
posted 8-Jul-2004 1:53pm  
All of the above depending on the situation/person.
dora
posted 8-Jul-2004 2:17pm  
Ignore them
Try to help them feel less grouchy
Ask them what's bugging them

LuridHope Bronze Star Survey Creator Survey Qualifier
posted 8-Jul-2004 3:06pm  
Depends on who it is too, distraction, redirection, focus.
Enheduanna Survey Central Subscriber
posted 8-Jul-2004 4:09pm  
Depends.
Zang
posted 8-Jul-2004 4:58pm  
That depends very much on who it is. If it is a stranger, I would avoid them. If it were someone I knew, I would just act like normal and wait for it to pass. Probably they just need to vent.
justjulie
posted 8-Jul-2004 5:34pm  
it all depends on who the person is, what they're grouchy about, etc etc
Biggles Bronze Star Survey Creator Gold Qualifier
posted 8-Jul-2004 5:40pm  
It really depends on who it is and why they are grouchy. If it's my mum and she's grouchy because she and my father have been sniping, then I might give her a hug and then just stay right out of the way. Although less so now, she turns to me more as someone to talk to in times like that now I'm older. When my parents were in "moods" after fighting when we were little, it was completely awful. Good job they hardly ever fought. My job then was mostly to go and hug my little brother - things like that always really got to him, like they were never going to be fixed or something.
freebird
posted 8-Jul-2004 6:00pm  
usually steer clear until they decide not to be grouchy  * angry *
leahdoll
posted 8-Jul-2004 6:33pm  
Avoid them. Who likes to be around a grouch!?!
Iseult Quadruple Gold Star Survey Creator Gold Qualifier
posted 8-Jul-2004 7:29pm  
Appear indifferent.
ROCKMAN
posted 9-Jul-2004 9:42am  
I'll ask what's wrong or ignore them.
Danger
posted 9-Jul-2004 10:03am  
first i try to help them cheer up, if that doesn't work then i ignore them, and if that doesn't work i leave
Traviedoll
posted 9-Jul-2004 12:44pm  
I try and get them out of it, by pretending they aren't in it or asking them what it wrong, usually both backfire and they snap at me, which then i either dog them out "What the hell is wrong with you?! You may be having a bad mood but don't be a dog to me!" or ignore them for the rest of the day........
romkey Survey Central Gold Subscriber
posted 10-Jul-2004 2:37pm  
It really depends on why they're grouchy, what the situation is, and whether I'm grouchy.
Dino
posted 10-Jul-2004 6:13pm  
Ignore them
uible
posted 10-Jul-2004 7:37pm  
This is one of those questions that has a lot of variables. Like, why are they grouchy? What is my mood? What is my relationship to them? Get away from them is probably the closest to my usual MO. Plus, when I'm in a bad mood, I have generally tended to become isolated, unless I was drinking . . .
denise804
posted 11-Jul-2004 1:37pm  
I snap back at them then get away from them.
nasale
posted 11-Jul-2004 10:58pm  
I just try to ignore me  * smile *
SOPHIESMOM
posted 12-Jul-2004 2:18am  
It's according to WHO it is.If it's someone I care about,I'll ask them what's wrong and try to cheer them up...BUT if it's someone I really DON'T LIKE anyway,I will ignore them and if they are still grouchy,I would get away from them!
ElvisFan67
posted 13-Jul-2004 2:07pm  
I try to avoid them as much as possible.
iamdonte
posted 15-Jul-2004 8:02am  
I try to keep my distance and hope for the best.
Violet
posted 19-Jul-2004 2:59am  
Ask if there's anything I can do to help them or make them feel better, and if there isn't, I stay out of their way until they're feeling better.
moviesnob
posted 17-Aug-2004 1:52pm  
Ask them what's up. Make them feel guilty if they're making my job harder.
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