What accessories do you like to wear?

None of the above.

Just glasses, but I hardly call them accessories. I need them to see.

I always wear between one and three earrings, a watch, a ring, and a toe ring. If I need to see further than five feet away, I wear glasses, with sunglasses if I'm outside and it's sunny. I also like to wear belts, hair clips and necklaces, but don't regularly. (Except I've been wearing hair clips lately to keep my hair up, as it's been very hot.)

I like shawls, rings, glasses, and belts.

I don't like to wear any sort of accessory, ever.

Sunglasses (in the Summer if I go outside in the daytime). A belt most anytime I'm dressed. I recently bought myself a watch, I haven't worn one for about five years.

I wear glasses, but I'm not too fond of them.

I like watches, but I have an expensive taste so I can't afford the one I'd like to have. I have 2 Swatches and some old Russian military watches.

Sunglasses, earrings, watch, nipple rings and my phone which is always clipped at the back of my jeans under my t-shirt.

I don't "like" wearing glasses, but have to. I like to wear my favorite ring and my watch everyday, ear rings most days, and occasionally, necklaces.

I like wearing sunglasses, especially my black ones if I haven't got any make-up on or if I don't want anyone to recognize me. I love bandanas and hats because then I don't need to do my hair. I almost always wear the same silver hoop earrings. I change all necklaces, bracelets, belts and rings based on my outfit. I wear a watch almost every day. I wear hair clips whenever my hair is up, because I need them to hold the shorter pieces in.

Sunglasses
Eyebrow ring
Bobby pins and/or pony tail holder

A Walkman in a case; a backpack; glasses normally except now my far-vision pair is broken; a belt.

Sunglasses-I wear them a lot, but lose them all the time. So, it depends on if I know where they are if I am wearing them.
Earrings-I wear earrings 98% of the time.
Bracelets-If I am dressed casual, I usually wear a beaded bracelet that my Mom brought me when her and my Dad went to the Virgin Islands.
Watch-I always have a watch on, except in the shower.
Rings-I always have on at least one ring, sometimes two. Once in a while, more than two.
Hairclips-I wear hair clips every so often. Usually if I am hanging out at the house, I'll throw my hair up in a clippy.
Necklaces-I always wear a gold chain that my Dad gave me for my 16th birthday. I only take it off to clean it about once a month. Other than that I've only taken it off once and that was because the doctor MADE me because I was having a c-section.

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Sunglasses, and bandanas sometimes when I'm working, a belt sometimes, and a watch sometimes.

Only a watch. I tie my hair back sometimes, but I never bother with slides. Tying it back is for functional purposes (eg. so it doesn't fall into the guts of some animal I'm dissecting) rather than appearance.

A watch. I wear glasses most days but I don't LIKE to.

i have a really pretty spiral hemp necklace/choker with stones embedded into the material, the stones have intricate designs carved into them. it's been around my neck for about ...ohh 5 months now and hasn't come off i even take showers w/ it we have become one. i love it

watch is the only one I can think of. But I 'recetnly' lost mine, so I havent worn it for a while.

Actually, although I wear many of them at times, the only ones I wear regularly are Earings, Watch, hair clips. I used to wear belts but I have switched to beltless clothing. Although I would like to I often find that I just don't have the time to put on all of these accessories every day!

My favourite new one is hair scarves.

Oh my God! I will wear a watch until it falls off my wrist. Even if I'm not on time watches are just cool. I'm must be the biggest dork but my watch reminds me to slow down and not get so caught up with time. God I'm such a dork!

wheres the option for bondage gear?

*grabs the remote for your vibrating briefs and turns it up to high*

A belt to spank mandy

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Do you where these things out in public? I guess some people do as jewelry?

I constantly wear the T-Shirt depicting me as A Calvin Klein Underwear model ( which I DID audition for in NYC, but failed to get the part)

I see granny. A ring of tequila shot glasses to belt back a few, right?

Just that black & White striped combo with the number 098874 plastered across your chest.

Sunglasses to hide the constant state of constriction and dilation your poor pupils are perpetually in.

That you stole, no doubt, from those two old Russian military soldiers outside Moscow in the winter of '44.

When you suddenly find yourself flat on your back (through no fault of your own, of course) do you have time to quickly reverse the position of your...phone?

You wear a watch to let you know how long it takes you to put on and take off all that "metal" per day, dear!

You can also stare at women's bewbs without getting your face slapped!

C-section on your 16th birthday? What was wrong with going to a prom?

(or kissing)??

Copper, especially, sooths the tortured soul sending magnetic waves through-out the Epicenters of all life-confirming cells. Your own "metallic sign-signals" keep us aware and perthy.

It's 9:00am, Snake...in case you didn't know

Even better!!!

Cock rings and butt plugs should always be kept in your back pocket, Lex.

Some of the jewelry is plastic beads.

Jawohl!

I didn't say that I had a c-section on my 16th birthday.

I actually had my son when I was 17.

I don't tend to kiss people whilst dissecting animals. Then there's a risk of getting guts in my mouth

I don't often find myself on my back, either by getting a smack in the head or being pushed back onto a bed by a woman, while I'm wearing my phone.

no, that cant be right. I very rarly and up and done showering that early. Dont ever except me online at that time.

Musta been when your on, or the time of where ever the hell you live. That dont help me crap.

BTW: your wrong, its 3:03 pm (central time) right now, I still got the time on my comp, in case you didnt know.

That's a shame! (about both of the examples you've given)
BTW, What's going on with you? I've read some of your previous comments to other people. How can a sweet, gentle, considerate, sensitive (and it's like pulling teeth to tell you that) man like you be so distrusting and suspicious of everyone? You know, looking over your shoulder all the time...looking through peep holes? What's that all about?

Which is fine I guess, as long as you go around wearing your 'comp" on your wrist all day long with a very, very strong watchband. Do people move out of your way when you approach them? (I mean about wearing the "comp" on your wrist, no about...uou just being you.)

I've been burnt too many times. Unlike most people I learn from bad experiences.

Why "too many times"? Of course, you needn't have to tell me any of this but are you speaking: financially, romantically, emotionally ? Is there one "area" in particular you keep finding yourself getting "burnt in" or is it across the board? Do you see what I'm getting at?

My experience with people is more negative than positive. The bad experiences far outnumber the good. It is for that reason I keep them at a distance. My sex life has always been one night - anonymous if possible - so that isn't a problem. My bad experiences are with friends who turn out to be absolute scum.

Do you think your present attitude has helped or hurt you become a better person to the world? Of course, I don't pretend to know how your sense of betrayal has effected your every day life, but do you feel you can ever find it in your heart to start to trust people again? Or is that concept totally alien to you now?

Well ever since I've reduced my contact with people my level of stress and my frequency of losing money and doing work for other people who are just users has dropped incredibly. If I get less grief by reducing my human contact I can't see why people get so uptight about it. If I was talking about a fear of dogs because I was mauled, people would understand but with humans they think *I* have the problem.

No one SHOULD believe it is a problem unless you THINK it is a problem, K.(And apparently you don't). Reducing human contact is not the same as eliminating human contact, I guess. I just want to make sure you are not living the life of a hermit because judging by your responses on this SC, you are a very likable, social person!

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I think it would be Ok to live as a hermit though. It's just part of the human spectrum. I play a few lottos each week and I can say if I won my human contact would reduce more. Right now having to work I must interact with people, but if I had the money I could avoid that too. If the person is happier, why shouldn't they do it? I am sociable when I find people I can trust. Right now I'm always waiting for the people I think are OK to say something negative to me. I can't handle the anticipation of when it all goes sour.

You've taken up much to much room in the "comment box". Try to keep your answers brief

Then you set yourself up to give credence to your point that "to be a hermit is OK" (it's really not).
By waiting for people to disappoint you...you are probably never listening to the aspect that they "really care about you".
And if they don't disappoint you in obvious ways, you are going to find more subtle ways to experience distrust from them to keep your distance.
It's like you've lost the war before fighting the first battle.
This, current, comment disturbs me, even more, than the previous ones. You are heading down a path, actively looking for reasons (which I'm sure you always find) to close doors in peoples faces. And the REAL person you want to block from your conscious is YOURSELF...but you haven't realized that yet or you wouldn't be looking for the "external" to block you away from society.

*Your last sentence speaks volumes. Someone has broken your heart.

Why is it less OK for a person to want to be a hermit than to want to interact with people constantly? Maybe those who can never be alone have more of a problem with themselves.

When prisoners are thrown into "the hole" for months on end...never seeing another human being, they usually emerge a little wacko. I know..I know..I know it's usually not their choice...the point being that isolation breeds isolation, and you wouldn't be so "social and vocal" on this SC thing if you really embraced the solitude you CLAIM to desire.

That's if they are social people. If you force a solitary person to stand up infront of a crowd you will end up with a nervous wreck. Not everyone needs other people around them all the time. I think those who do are weak. I knew someone who had to have other people around them all the time. They had a huge phone bill. I think people like that have a real problem. They are uncomfortable by themselves.

SC is different. I can stop interacting at any time and not have to have people buzzing around like mosquitos asking me if I'm OK. I can take as much of SC as I need to or take none at all. People in person aren't like SC.

There is a difference between "needing to have people around them all the time" and "being social, and checking in with society every now and then".
Since you are so against the idea of have "people surrounding you", you...at one time...was such a person but have been hurt too many times, which caused you to eliminate people (or they eliminated you) from your life. Now, you eliminate them simply because you do not want to trust people again.
The solitary people you are describing usually want to be "one with nature" and such. I hear none of that from you. You simply want to avoid humanity.
People ask if you are "OK" because they are concerned about you..because they like you K...and people on SC are "just" like people in person. I am.
No one is going to put you in front of a crowd of complete strangers...but wouldn't you like a birthday party, at some point, surrounded by friends who care about you. It can happen. But it won't happen if you hide under the covers all day.

No. I have never liked birthday parties, even as a kid. The idea of being the centre of attention is my worst nightmare. I do want to be one with nature. I live on the fringe of Brisbane now, and I will probably look for land further out. In my experience, the bad of humanity far outweighs the good. I only gain from avoiding people.

I know I have been accused of putting words into peoples mouths, but it really called "reading between the lines"...and you are calling out so loud and clearly, right now, exactly what you do NOT want. Bad humanity outweighs the good? You gain (what???) from avoiding people.
Of course, I can't tell you WHAT to do, but if you are initiating your life as a reclusive then it is going to feed on itself and you will soon be consumed within a vortex of isolation from which escape will be more and more difficult as time passes. You find yourself alone and bitter from events that have happened so long ago, you can barely remember them...but you are, now, alone because it is the only thing you know how to be. It doesn't have to be that way.