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How do you feel about interracial marriages?

I am thinking of marrying a person of another racial background and I am trying to find out how people (general public)would feel about this and react to this.



 

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Cain
posted 7-Nov-2002 9:50am  
Each to their own. If you love that person it doesn't matter what anybody else thinks.
Biggles Silver Star Survey Creator Gold Qualifier This user is on the site NOW (7 minutes ago)
posted 7-Nov-2002 10:08am  
As long as two people are old enough to get married and want to get married then I think they should be able to get married. I don't consider interracial marriages to be wrong or improper in any way just as I wouldn't consider gay marriages to be wrong or improper.
sonikJ
posted 7-Nov-2002 10:58am  
I don't see anything wrong with marrying someone of a different race. We're all human, and to whom we are attracted is a very personal choice. I am personally attracted to men of my own race only, but that's my taste. I believe in the old French saying, "Chacun à son goût", which means, "To each his own".
Enheduanna Survey Central Subscriber This user is on the site NOW (10 minutes ago)
posted 7-Nov-2002 11:28am  
I think they're fine. People who have a problem with them are idiots.
dab Survey Central Subscriber Gold Qualifier This user is on the site NOW (2 minutes ago)
posted 7-Nov-2002 12:10pm  
I don't feel anything at all. Other people may marry anyone they wish; what's it do me?
Iseult Survey Central Subscriber Silver Star Survey Creator Gold Qualifier
posted 7-Nov-2002 12:19pm  
Ach, whatever.
they Bronze Star Survey Creator Survey Qualifier
posted 7-Nov-2002 12:36pm  
I feel the same way about it as I do any marriage.
Glassa
posted 7-Nov-2002 1:50pm  
I don't see any problem with it. We're all humans, just some of us have a different skin color. Who cares what that skin color is?
You could be purple as far as I'm concerned.

BTW, this is a conservative Republican speaking. The stereotype is NOT true. We are far from racist.
romkey Survey Central Gold Subscriber
posted 7-Nov-2002 1:59pm  
I don't think about them. Race isn't a consideration for me when I think about other people's relationships.

why no options?
autumnlight
posted 7-Nov-2002 2:10pm  
If you love that person it shouldn't even be an issue. Why do you care what everyone else would think?
jettles Survey Central Gold Subscriber Gold Qualifier
posted 7-Nov-2002 2:24pm  
i have no problem with any two people in love marrying or being together......... as long as they are both in agreement and consenting adults!!
starrpickle
posted 7-Nov-2002 2:27pm  
I have no problem with it but if you plan on having children it may be difficult for your child unless people change their perspective but even children have to make a choice of what they are ex.. black or white and with what type of culture do you plan to raise this child hopefully you understand that question and are not inferring anything from it
Frostbrand Silver Star Survey Creator
posted 7-Nov-2002 2:42pm  
I'm all for 'em! We should just keep fudging till we're all the same color.
BrightBlue
posted 7-Nov-2002 3:04pm  
I have no problems with it at all. Race means nothing to me, black, white, green, yellow, whatever...you're a person no matter what.
darkshadowsseeker
posted 7-Nov-2002 3:22pm  
I have no problems with this. Skin color and ethnicity have never been issues with me for I believe that we are all the same under the skin. What's important is what type of person you are marrying, not their skin color or ethnic group. Are they loving, kind, etc.? That's far more important to me than anything else.
weepydebacho
posted 7-Nov-2002 3:24pm  
You should be able to marrying anyone you wish.
Biggles Silver Star Survey Creator Gold Qualifier This user is on the site NOW (7 minutes ago)
(reply to Frostbrand) posted 7-Nov-2002 4:01pm  
*Not* a good idea! Diversity is one of our greatest strengths  * smile *
kaleb777 Bronze Star Survey Creator
posted 7-Nov-2002 4:21pm  
I don't care. Personally I think marriage is stupid, no matter what race you marry. The important thing is that you love the person and make a commitment. Race and a silly, expensive ceremony are trivial matters.
Zang
posted 7-Nov-2002 4:44pm  
Precisely the same way I feel about marriage in general.

If you want to gauge reaction, you'll get a better indication by going out together in public as a couple, in your own town. I would think that if you are contemplating marriage, you would have already done this quite a bit by now. If you are getting negative reactions, you might just want to relocate to a place where people are more tolerant of such things. I live in Vancouver, Canada. That sort of thing is so common around here that it doesn't raise any eyebrows at all.
anoddoblivion
posted 7-Nov-2002 5:00pm  
It doesn't matter.
Strider Survey Central Gold Subscriber Gold Qualifier
posted 7-Nov-2002 5:20pm  
I have no problem with them.
juliw
posted 7-Nov-2002 5:56pm  
I don't want to marry a black man. (I am white.) But, I think it should be up to the couple. It does kind of bother me when a (white) person gets involved with a black person, when the white person already has white kids.
harekrishnadasa
posted 7-Nov-2002 6:55pm  
dora
posted 7-Nov-2002 7:41pm  
Fine.But:

1)It's true that the majority of people is attracted to people of the same race,especially in countries where people of a different race are uncommon.It's natural,but so it's the other way around.I don't feel attraction for non-white people,but I don't think is wrong to feel that way.
2)Is fine but it will be difficult,so if you are really in love,do it,but remember it will be hard.I guess you already know that,anyway,so good luck to you and your partner!  * smile *
Biggles Silver Star Survey Creator Gold Qualifier This user is on the site NOW (7 minutes ago)
(reply to juliw) posted 7-Nov-2002 7:41pm  
Why?
mandy
posted 7-Nov-2002 8:40pm  
I think any two humans who love each other should not concern themselves with what colour the skin on their bodies just happens to be.
Galomorro Bronze Star Survey Creator Gold Qualifier
posted 7-Nov-2002 8:45pm  
5{ am in favor of it. Why the heck NOT? Why should this be an issue at all. The only reason I can think of is sometimes culturally, but if the couple love each other, this should not be a serious problem and they can learn from one another. I always wonder why people act so negatively towards this... let others mind their own bizness and let love happen where it will...
Zang
(reply to Biggles) posted 7-Nov-2002 11:12pm  
That's what I was going to say!  * smile *
Why indeed!
Dino
posted 8-Nov-2002 5:37am  
"I don't want to spend my life being a colour"

However I am a nasty nasty person and when I see Caucasian women going out with Afro-Caribbean guys I can't help thinking that somehow there is something common and trashy about them. But screw me - do your own thing!
Zang
(reply to Dino) posted 8-Nov-2002 9:45am  
That might very well be true. The toffee nosed bastards are far too concerned about what other people might think!  * wink *

I'm sure you wouldn't think that if they both looked all posh, getting out of an expensive auto and strolling into a nice restaurant...
Dino
(reply to Zang) posted 8-Nov-2002 11:50am  
Not really - I'm taking about the people who live on the council estates near me.
msgman Silver Star Survey Creator Survey Qualifier
posted 8-Nov-2002 5:36pm  
I think they're fine. However, I do think that anyone contemplating this should be aware of the fact that a lot of people - from both sides of the divide - will disapprove. You need to be prepared to face up to that, and not be surprised when it happens.
juliw
(reply to Biggles) posted 8-Nov-2002 6:31pm  
I just think it makes things more difficult for the children. There are a lot of prejudiced people in this world who might mistreat the kids because of that.
kirst
posted 8-Nov-2002 8:27pm  
I don't view interracial marriages any differently than marriages between the same race.
Zang
(reply to Dino) posted 8-Nov-2002 9:26pm  
So the people who live on the council estates are probably all common and trashy anyway. No?
Biggles Silver Star Survey Creator Gold Qualifier This user is on the site NOW (7 minutes ago)
(reply to juliw) posted 9-Nov-2002 10:39am  
A fear of other people's prejudices shouldn't prevent you from doing something. Exposure changes the world. It's easy to be prejudiced about a group of people that you've never met but having known them, it's going to take a very deep rooted hatred to maintain the same opinion.
juliw
(reply to Biggles) posted 9-Nov-2002 11:17am  
True.
pterodactyl
posted 10-Nov-2002 2:41am  
I think they're a bad idea... just like all other types of marriage.
SueBee Survey Central Subscriber Bronze Star Survey Creator
posted 10-Nov-2002 1:54pm  
If two people are in love and want to be married, race should not be an issue. Unfortunately though, there may be times when the couple would have to endure other people's prejudice in the matter. They should probably be prepared for that possibility.
cody
posted 10-Nov-2002 3:09pm  
Not so good... I don't know. I am fond of the similarity principle and as a general rule the races are very much dissimilar. It is a HUGE point against the relationship.

On the other hand, if there is a black woman and a white man both in medical school, they both speak with North-Eastern accents, they both grew up in wealthy NYC suburbs, they both want to be endocrinologists... it is irrelevant what race they are, y'know? For all practical purposes it isn't a major dissimilarity given all the similarities.

General rule though, the races are dissimilar. I have inhibitions about marrying a girl who isn't German... much less who isn't European!

There are different cultural and ethnic traditions... and these are strongly correlated with race. Marrying within your traditions is probably a good idea. There are many, many, many, black-American traditions though, and just as many white American traditions... and some are more similar than others, and in some cases whites are living within the black traditions and vice versa... but, for the most part, blacks are living black traditions and whites are living white traditions, and there is a major difference...
dora
(reply to cody) posted 10-Nov-2002 5:34pm  
You're a product of many many traditions and different cultures,aren't you? Like everybody else.But the fear of the other is pretty natural,I guess,because WE are the others.Okay,I did too much cultural anthropology lately!  * wink *

I wouldn't marry a black man because I'm not physically attracted by them,and as I say that's natural,but I don't think much about traditions,more about the fact that I like light skinned people,but I know I'm a patchworth of different influences,and I secretely admire those that marry out of their race and culture.We need them.

cody
(reply to dora) posted 10-Nov-2002 7:33pm  
Well, I'm just getting at the fact that people tend to get along better the more similar they are (in fact, aside from proximity/propinquity it is the most impotant factor in interpersonal attraction). And a favoritism for ones own culture is natural.

Personally I think diversity blows. I am extremely fond of the unadulterated tradition, the untouched, pure, tradition.

I don't think the Native Americans benefitted much from the 'diversity' that European culture gave them. Nor do I think that the Celtics were done a favor when they were diversified by the romans. I think culture should be untouched. Purity is a virtue.
dora
(reply to cody) posted 11-Nov-2002 3:20am  
Are you very right-wing?
That's one of the things I like of the "new" approach of cultural anthropology,that is a lot against purity,is a very un-racist field in itself even though in the past has been over-paternalistic.I think everybody benefits from diversity and that you can be pure and mixed at the same time,thus creating new degrees of purity,I feel myself very celtic-roman,which is the main background of my area and even though I know those people didn't get along at their time for a while (and being romantically partial to Celts),I can't deny that I'm a product of both.It's like moaning because you have a nose.I'm proud of having a nose.

Oscar
posted 15-Nov-2002 8:12pm  
I don't have a problem with them. I think that in certain places in America the family will experience discrimination and reactions from people that don't agree with them. You'd have to be strong of character and sure of your decision.
bill Survey Central Gold Subscriber Double Gold Star Survey Creator This user is on the site NOW (1 minute ago)
posted 1-Dec-2002 5:25pm  
It's fine and you shouldn't let it stop you, but it's likely to be an issue in the relationship and in how others evaluate you.
julianapostate
posted 5-Dec-2002 3:39am  
interracial marriages are ok by me
kirsty
posted 23-Dec-2002 1:46am  
I personally don't like this.
RGirl
posted 11-Feb-2006 3:51am  
I don't care. Marry who you want.
clare
posted 26-Jul-2006 2:31am  
Everybody is the same under the skin. Marry whoever you want.
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