Whose opinion of you matters the most?

Ideally, you should judge this question seeing "you" as the general you, the whole you. But if you can't...like, for example, if opinions of how you strain spaghetti are the only ones that you care about, that's fine too.

Votes	Answer
16	Me.
10	A combination of some of the above.
5	My significant other.
3	My father.
3	My employer(s).
3	All of the above.
3	Other.
2	My mother.
2	My child(ren).
1	Other friend(s).
1	Other person(s).

Votes	Answer
1	I don't know.
0	My sibling or siblings(s).
0	Other family member(s).
0	My guardian(s).
0	My best friend(s).
0	My coworker(s).
0	My employee(s).
0	My teacher(s).
0	My classmate(s).
0	My mentor(s).

User	Comment
Iseult	posted 5-Sep-2002 3:59pm People around me in general. Some people told me I care to much what people think.
teatree	posted 5-Sep-2002 4:35pm My daughter followed by me, myself and I.
southernyankee	posted 5-Sep-2002 4:35pm well, I don't have a mentor, so I guess my teacher's then. But if I still don't like what I hear from all of the above, I could just turn to the ME-and-fudge-everyone-else mode instead.
Zang	posted 5-Sep-2002 5:53pm Why mine of course! I'm my own worse critic. I don't really give a rat's ass what anyone else thinks anyway... Not that I'm above asking friends or family members for advice. More often than not, I'm just using them as a sounding board for my own ideas anyway...
confetti	posted 5-Sep-2002 6:00pm I love hearing people's opinions of me because they're all so good (and far from the truth). So I don't care about them.
Lahdee	posted 5-Sep-2002 6:17pm No one really anymore but God. I put my children because I want to be a good role model to them.
grmbrand	posted 5-Sep-2002 6:36pm In order: me, my wife, close family, friends
Biggles	posted 5-Sep-2002 7:10pm Used to be my mum. Now it's mostly just me.
dora	posted 5-Sep-2002 9:03pm Me.But I guess that maybe my parents opinion counts as well.I mean I do what I want,but if it's not what my parents want sometimes I feel a bit guilty.So maybe it's me/my parents.
mandy	posted 5-Sep-2002 9:05pm Mallory's
juliw	posted 5-Sep-2002 9:24pm my own opinion...I like me
juliw	(reply to Zang) posted 5-Sep-2002 9:25pm same here
harekrishnadasa	posted 5-Sep-2002 9:31pm Krishna's opinion.
Iseult	(reply to harekrishnadasa) posted 5-Sep-2002 10:38pm How can you tell what's Krishna thinking?
Zang	(reply to juliw) posted 6-Sep-2002 12:38am Hi!
Dino	posted 6-Sep-2002 8:44am All and none of the above. I can be an ultra sensitive person sometimes and the opinions of passers by on the street can affect me. Other times I can be visciously hostile and laid back and no-one can affect my decision save for myself.
Jemmy	posted 6-Sep-2002 3:22pm Probably mine.
juliw	(reply to Zang) posted 6-Sep-2002 6:02pm Hi! What's up?
Amanda	posted 6-Sep-2002 9:53pm God's opinion of me is far more important than anyone else. But, right under Him, is my opinion of myself.
harekrishnadasa	(reply to Iseult) posted 7-Sep-2002 12:59am You can find Krishna's views here: http://www.asitis.com/ http://story.news.yahoo.com/news?tmpl=story&u=/020831/168/25j6c.html Hare Krishna!
mimind	posted 7-Sep-2002 1:01am my own...after that its definately moonstones, if she thinks low of me its pretty hard to feel otherwise. fortunately it works the other way too. when she is liking me..i just feel good.
jettles	posted 7-Sep-2002 10:19am my family and partner....... although i guess i am the most important one actually!!
Bibliophile	posted 8-Sep-2002 2:33pm I think my own opinion matters the most, but I also value the opinions of my family and friends on many subjects.
wolfchik9	posted 8-Sep-2002 7:51pm Me! Then my SO.
cody	posted 8-Sep-2002 9:14pm A random attractive female strangers. Though, that probably just reflects where I'm at in relationship to Ericson's eight stages.
sonikJ	posted 8-Sep-2002 9:46pm But God, first and foremost.
Glassa	posted 9-Sep-2002 1:57pm I have to say a combination of all of the above. But as long as I'm happy with myself, I guess that's all that matters. I was thinking in human terms, but God's opinion matters more than mine of course.
ASB	posted 19-Sep-2002 12:18pm I have no care in the world what anyone thinks of me. I do not wear my heart on my sleeve.
wererat	posted 21-Sep-2002 10:33pm Court Judges
joachim	posted 24-Sep-2002 2:31pm In short, me, but if there is a significant other in my life that person's opinion is also quite important. Friends, too, but I often feel that they will have their opinions about me no matter what I do so I usually just let them. I am far from proactive in improving my status with others.
starrpickle	posted 4-Nov-2002 12:12pm Nobody's should but they all do

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