Which quality do you think is most outstanding in yourself?

I look pretty good. I'm intelligent. I'm a nice guy. I'm funny. I have a good job, I'm good at it, and I earn a lot doing it. I'm good at maintaining a few close relationships. I'm creative. I never feel sexy though.

I put my sense of humor. The fact that I can't stand to be around people who don't get my jokes is probably a manifestation of this perception of myself.

Don't know, but I have one, sure...

I think intelligence and many of the other qualities listed are very closely linked (eg creativity, humor, competence) - but maybe I'm just defining intelligence in an overbroad manner.

I put down my intelligence, but there are just so many that it could be. You should have allowed us to pick more than one. I think it's a pretty even toss up between a bunch of things. I think that I am very kind, I have a good sense of humour, I work hard and well, people like me, I am extremely creative and imaginative, I can provide for myself...I am not lacking in the appeal department but I think it's kind of -can't think of the right word- vain?? I absolutely hate when guys come over to talk to me, and I can tell they don't give a damn what I think about anything, they just think I am a hot "chick". I find it very insulting, besides I didn't chose the way I look. It was all chance and genetics, so I can't take credit for that. and I am just babbling now so I'll stop. --hey bill, your probably oozing with sexuality...so feel sexy damn it!!

I'd like to think no one quality is more outstanding than another. I guess a few may be sadly lacking:) but I'd rather not have just one outstanding quality.

This is an oversimplification of complex issues. Each of us has unique qualities that in combination create certain features.

Tie b/tw kindness and competence in personal relationships. The kindness is all me, but the latter is thanks to every butt-hole I've ever dated and my mother. So, pick one.

This is really hard for me, because I don't think I really excel in any of these categories. I think I'm mostly fairly well-balanced between them, although I might have to asterisk "competence in personal relationships" and then debate what competence means. I finally picked one, but I think it only stands out if you know me really well.

oh, and my sense of irony....

I feel that I've been given the gift of kindness. I always want people to feel comfortable around me. I smile often, and my friends always know that I am there for them no matter what. My heart is the best quality that I have.

My ability to confuse and astound people, as well.

Eh?

I'm surprised nobody said looks. Are we a modest bunch or an ugly one? Or do we all just have wholesome values...

my low self-esteem

Uh, none of the above is outstandingly apparent in my self so I guess I'll say all of the above.

I am the mediator, the counselor, and the social director. Relationships are supreme!

Hm, tough one.

Wow, it's sad how hard I find it to check any of those. I could say I have any of those qualities, but to call them outstanding feels uncomfortable. And I'm afraid to check anything and then have people say "She thinks she's _____? Bwahaahaa."

oo, tough question. I'm at extremes wrt the general population for several of these (intelligence, sense of humor, earning power, professional competence) but not wrt the people I hang out with, so they don't stand out in my daily life. The things people (including me) most often seem to notice about me (which is the best operational definition of "outstanding" I can come up with on short notice) I would sum up as "my awareness of myself."