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  What would you do... ?

This survey is geared towards US citizens. If you are not a US citizen, you can choose the option for that. If you are sufficiently familiar with the political climate in the US, you can also answer as if you were a US citizen.

You are just sitting down for supper when there is a knock at your back door. You get up and go to the door and find a young Arab there. After a moment you recognize him as the 17 year old son of a neighbor of yours. His family owns a small grocery store, and while you don't know them well, they have always been friendly, polite, and pleasant neighbors.

The young man looks terrified and keeps glancing over his shoulder. As you open the door he begs through the screen door:

"Can you help me? There are federal agents at my house, they are talking to my mother and I escaped through the back! In the beginning of October my father disappeared. We did not hear a word from him for two months- we were terrified for his life. My mother and I had to run the business alone, and I had to stay home from school many days to do this. Now papa's name has appeared on the list of people that the agency has in custody. We are told he has been hospitalized for 'unspecified injuries,' and that is all they will tell us.

"We are Afghani, we fled when the Taliban came to power, but we have always kept in touch with my father's brothers and sisters who stayed behind. Please believe me, we are peace loving people.

"Now the agency wants me to come in and answer some questions about my family. I have college applications due in a week, and my mother cannot run the store by herself. If I disappear, too, we will go broke. I need to hide! Can I come inside?"

The boy is in a panic and on the verge of tears. What do you do?


VotesAnswer
20Let him in before he finishes his story.
5Think about it and let him in.
2Tell him I don't want to get involved, and turn him away.
7Tell him he should go back to the feds and that as long as it's true that his family is innocent, they will be fine.
7Go with him back to his house and tell the agents that you are going to go in with him.
18Invite him in and call a lawyer.
7Something else.
12I am not a US Citizen, my country is not rounding up Arab men for questioning, or I cannot answer this question for similar reasons.

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daver
posted 17-Dec-2001 5:27pm  

Assuming that I were a US citizen I would invite him in, call my lawyer, and likely accompany him back to his store. He will be no more help running the store when he's on the run from the Feds than if he's detained. He needs a longer term solution than being hidden in my basement.
sequel
posted 17-Dec-2001 5:50pm  

They *are* going to find him, no use hiding him in my house. I'd walk him back over, as well as offer to call a good lawyer for him.
confetti
posted 17-Dec-2001 6:16pm  

I'd let him in but worry to death about my own safety as well. Remember that part of "Little Women" that wasn't published in the beginning, where Marmee (or should I say, Abba Alcott) hid a slave that was being searched for under the floorboards in their house--where I believe they kept meat dry? That was beautiful.
anonymous
(reply to confetti) posted 17-Dec-2001 6:19pm  

no we *don't* remember that part of the book!?! Maybe because were just not fudging well read as you snotty lousy little brat. Isn't *that* beautiful?
juliw
posted 17-Dec-2001 6:56pm  

I'd invite him in, but I'd also call the police, just in cae he or I was in danger.
juliw
(reply to confetti) posted 17-Dec-2001 7:00pm  

Yes, I loved that book.
juliw
(reply to Gamera) posted 17-Dec-2001 7:06pm  

Speak for yourself, butt-hole. Some of us actually HAVE read a book. Leave confetti alone, or if you really must express your opinions, at least be enough of a person to take ownership of them. Don't hide behind an "anonymous" facade. (Look it up.)
Opinions are just like butt-holes. Everybody has one, and everybody thinks someone else's stinks.
jkiehart
posted 17-Dec-2001 7:22pm  

Let him in. Call a lawyer.
Zang Survey Central Subscriber
posted 17-Dec-2001 7:45pm  

I'm a Canadian citizen, and from what I've gleaned from the media lately, things aren't too much different here. So, adjusting a few small details like back/screen doors and such (I live in an apartment building) I'd have him inside my place before he had a chance to glance over his shoulder a second time. I would just let him talk, and perhaps try to advise him if I could, and offer to help in any way. I'm not sure what I could do. The bit about his father sounds particularly scary. That would upset me a bit I think. I might even get angry, and that doesn't happen very often.
Zang Survey Central Subscriber
(reply to Gamera) posted 17-Dec-2001 7:47pm  

TOPPER! It is you! I was wondering who came up with this. Excellent survey! *Zang gives the big thumbs up*
Zang Survey Central Subscriber
(reply to Gamera) posted 17-Dec-2001 8:00pm  

I just read what you wrote in qualification. I wasn't aware of that.

HEY EVERYBODY! READ WHAT TOPPER WROTE IN ADVANCED STATS.

Do you have any links about that stuff? (I might just go hunting for it in the mean time anyway)

*Zang hands topper the super-duper golden survey award for 2001, and gives her a big smooch*
spidertea
(reply to Gamera) posted 17-Dec-2001 9:48pm  

Interesting survey.
spidertea
(reply to jkiehart) posted 17-Dec-2001 9:49pm  

That's what I'd do too.
Kristal_Rose Survey Central Gold SubscriberBronze Star Survey CreatorSurvey Qualifier
posted 17-Dec-2001 10:07pm  

I don't know what I'd do, but i'd certainly let him in. I invite everyone in. I would try to coach him on steering his karma, but a week is a very short time for that. A lawyer wouldn't have occurred to me, but I suppose I know a couple that would counsel a case like that.
Kristal_Rose Survey Central Gold SubscriberBronze Star Survey CreatorSurvey Qualifier
posted 17-Dec-2001 10:14pm  

Talk in the streets is disturbing. I saw one gal on her porch wearing a towel around her shampooed hair, and her boyfriend suggested that might not be wise to do in today's public. ..talk about your paranoid social climate.
mandy
posted 17-Dec-2001 11:22pm  

I would invite him in and call a friend of mine who is a lawyer.
Gamera
posted 18-Dec-2001 12:58am  

This is going on and it scares the hell out of me- partly because I'm not doing anything to stop it. Of course I made up the specifics of the family, but I keep hearing the statistics of how many men have been taken with no phone calls, no chance to contact their family, and I find myself needing to put a human face on those numbers to understand what's going on. It just reminds me too much of General Pinocet "saving" Chile from the Socialists and Communists, and President Fujimore cracking down hard on crime in Peru. Each accomplished a great degree of financial and physical securities for their respective countries, but at what cost?
Gamera
(reply to Zang) posted 18-Dec-2001 1:04am  

Wow, thanks. You can buy the first round of drinks next time we get together. *wink*

As for links, mostly I've been getting my news from NPR (National Public Radio). You can listen to them on the web (at www.npr.org), but they don't publish full text transcripts of their programs- much the pity.

Dino
posted 18-Dec-2001 5:40am  

I'm too suspicious. I would think it was a scam to get money out of me and send him on his way.
skylark
posted 18-Dec-2001 6:40am  

This was a nice survey - though I couldn't vote. But there are no Arabs in Afghanistan! If you don't count al-Qaida.

There are several ethnicities in Afghanistan, to mention a few: Pashtuns, Tajiks, Uzbeks, Aimaks and Hazaras. Most of those peoples speak Indo-Iranian languages. They're definitely not Arabs and neither do they speak Arabic.
skylark
posted 18-Dec-2001 7:09am  

Oscar
posted 18-Dec-2001 12:48pm  

let him in
Wookiewoman
posted 18-Dec-2001 1:21pm  

I would let him in until the agents left his house, then he would have to go back home and discuss the situation with his mother. There really wouldn't be anything else I could do for him but pray for him and his family.
juliw
(reply to Gamera) posted 18-Dec-2001 1:33pm  

I agree with you, and with your comments in Advanced Stats, as well. This survey is fantastic, definitely one of the best I've seen!
jkiehart
(reply to Gamera) posted 18-Dec-2001 3:22pm  

Here in NYC when mayor Guilliani instituted his "Quality of Life" plan, young black men were getting shot left and right. He cracked down on jaywalking offenses, however the only ones getting "busted for jaywalking" were young black men, and it seemed pretty clear to me that they were just rounding all these men up to start files on them or whatever.
Well, one time, drunk, I was talking about the dramatically lowered crime rates in New York City, and that I felt safer riding the subways, walking around alone at night, etc. My friend replied, "I bet the white Aryans in Nazi Germany felt pretty safe, too."
Woah!
I can't recall the exact quote, but it's something like, "Those who are willing to sacrifice liberty for safety deserve neither." Ben Franklin, I think.
Gamera
(reply to skylark) posted 18-Dec-2001 4:30pm  

I'm so embarrassed by my ignorance. I know it's wrong, yet I still find myself using "Arab" as a synonym for "Middle Eastern."
Biggles
posted 18-Dec-2001 5:10pm  

I'm British *grin*
Zang Survey Central Subscriber
(reply to Gamera) posted 18-Dec-2001 7:38pm  

I did search around on that and came across a transcript of the president of the ACLU addressing...(a congressional committee or something, I can't remember, and that wasn't really the point). She covered a lot of the same info, but said it was more like 5000 arrests...
everglow
posted 18-Dec-2001 9:57pm  

let him in. or go back and say if they take him they take me. i can't stand discrimination.
Gamera
(reply to Zang) posted 18-Dec-2001 10:23pm  

5000 Arrests? My understanding was that there had been about 1200 detainments and about 500 arrests out of that.
Kristal_Rose Survey Central Gold SubscriberBronze Star Survey CreatorSurvey Qualifier
(reply to jkiehart) posted 18-Dec-2001 10:35pm  

I was once on a bus bench in LA, and the police pulled over a drunk sitting next to me. They asked for his ID and to see the contents of his bag. I got politely irate and asked what basis they had for harrassing him. They asked for my ID, then insisted that If I really lived in LA now, I was supposed to change the address on my license within 10 days of the move. That I hadn't driven in several years was no excuse. It seemed very police-state to me that I had to carry current ID to sit on a bus bench, and I believe I said so.
jkiehart
(reply to Kristal_Rose) posted 18-Dec-2001 11:19pm  

I KNOW!
"Show us your papers, NOW!" How Gestapo.
Hmmpf.
If I'm not driving or doing anything which might cause me to be ID'd (buying cigs or alcohol, going to a club), I don't take my ID. I don't know if it's illegal or not. I've heard it both ways.

The problem with America (besides our atrocious health care system), is that, seriously, the cops do whatever they want, and the lawyers straighten it out after all is said and done. It's a "shoot first, ask questions later" mentality. And it's wrong.

Anyhoo, K Rose, what are your holiday plans? How do you celebrate? I don't know, but something tells me you have very unique traditions.
*wink*
Kristal_Rose Survey Central Gold SubscriberBronze Star Survey CreatorSurvey Qualifier
(reply to jkiehart) posted 18-Dec-2001 11:40pm  

My ex, bro, and two teen kids live a very conventional folksy lifestyle in Alaska. and I will be with them. My kids actually reside on multiple consciousness planes (my daughters got things beyond me), but aside from her being a goth and spending all her time writing novels, they all appear quite conventional.
jkiehart
(reply to Kristal_Rose) posted 18-Dec-2001 11:43pm  

How nice!!!!
You're going to see your children! From your little description you must be very proud of them, and vice versa.
I wish you the best. Now stop communicating with the radio and TV!

Is there a story as to why your brother is living is Alaska with your Ex and your children?
Maybe I don't need to hear it?
Kristal_Rose Survey Central Gold SubscriberBronze Star Survey CreatorSurvey Qualifier
(reply to jkiehart) posted 18-Dec-2001 11:57pm  

She left me for him when i was becoming a yogi, and now i have a five year neice. I am my childrens step-aunt. Their sister is their cousin, etc.
Why or how do you wish me to stop talking with the radio. I wouldn't know what to do with my life, since I've been doing it 13 years now.
jkiehart
(reply to Kristal_Rose) posted 19-Dec-2001 12:43am  

Oh, honey, you know what to do with your life. You just need some focus. Though I probably don't need to tell you this, maybe you should turn off the t.v. and radio (or just listen to public radio and television).
How WEIRD and unique to be a step-father/aunt.
ASexyBabe
posted 19-Dec-2001 1:18am  

other
Dino
(reply to Kristal_Rose) posted 19-Dec-2001 3:59am  

listen to your breath.
Kristal_Rose Survey Central Gold SubscriberBronze Star Survey CreatorSurvey Qualifier
(reply to jkiehart) posted 19-Dec-2001 6:51am  

At least what I watch/hear is about my life and the things I am interested in rather than about anything that comes. I'd call that focus. My problem is that I can't make decisions or priorities. I spend hours shopping because every choice is a dilemna. On days i'm connected though, i just channel advice and zip through it. it's like becoming dependant on your computer for your social communications.
anoddoblivion
posted 19-Dec-2001 1:57pm  

No matter what I or anybody else does, he will still have problems. Me doing something to try to help will just make it worse.
Katrina16
posted 19-Dec-2001 6:00pm  

I'd tell him to hide somewhere until things settled down.
Zang Survey Central Subscriber
posted 19-Dec-2001 9:20pm  

Detainments. That is what I meant, not arrests. Here's the link I found:

http://www.aclu.org/congress/l120401a.html

...maybe it was "questioned".

Gamera
(reply to Zang) posted 20-Dec-2001 3:03am  

Thanks- that's a really good and thorough link.
jettles Survey Central Subscriber
posted 20-Dec-2001 11:11am  

i think i would think about it and then let him in and then i think i would wonder over to their house and see what was going on! i don't know what i would do after that. i don't particularly agree with most of the changes in policy and law here since sept. 11 and how our rights can be violated now in many ways..........
mandy
(reply to Gamera) posted 20-Dec-2001 8:14pm  

This survey is brilliantly done.
lerojist
posted 24-Dec-2001 1:43am  

The safety of my family would come first. I wouldn't let strangers into my home. I think the boy, and his mother should talk to the agents, and answer their questions. If innocent, they shouldn't have anything to worry about.
Biggles
(reply to jettles) posted 24-Dec-2001 4:34pm  

Hey, go and leave Bill a nice message in Feedback! And spread the word!
jettles Survey Central Subscriber
(reply to Biggles) posted 25-Dec-2001 5:09pm  

hhhhhmmmm, by here i meant in the US, not survey central!!! sorry for the misunderstanding...... i am fine with what is going on at sc!
Biggles
(reply to jettles) posted 27-Dec-2001 5:23pm  

Sorry, I wasn't referring to your comment here - I was just talking generally! I guess I just confused the situation.....*wink*
natsim
posted 4-Jan-2002 1:24am  

Let him in and put the kettle on.

I voted even though I'm not a US citizen. I hope that's okay.
anonymous
posted 14-Feb-2002 6:02pm  

prolly sick my dog on him or shoot him myself



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