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Iseult  
| | #1 posted May 19, 2005 at 10:12pm (EDT) |
What is to fingerbang someone mean? | darkshadowsseeker
| #2 posted May 20, 2005 at 1:21am (EDT)
edited May 20, 2005 at 2:38am (EDT) |
Iseult wrote:
> What is to fingerbang someone mean?
Generally it means when a guy inserts a finger (or fingers) into a woman's vagina in order to bring her to orgasm by moving his fingers in a manner simulating intercourse and, in addition, it usually involves stimulating the clitoris with a thumb or finger. It can be woman on woman as well. It can also involve inserting a finger or fingers into a partner's anus too in a manner simulating intercourse. Hope I wasn't too graphic. | DucKid
| | #3 posted May 20, 2005 at 1:22am (EDT) |
I knew what fingerbanging was and Iseult didn't! | darkshadowsseeker
| | #4 posted May 20, 2005 at 1:32am (EDT) |
DucKid wrote:
> I knew what fingerbanging was and Iseult didn't!
So..your point is? | DucKid
| | #5 posted May 20, 2005 at 1:35am (EDT) |
I'm younger than her! | darkshadowsseeker
| | #6 posted May 20, 2005 at 1:39am (EDT) |
DucKid wrote:
> I'm younger than her!
Yes, but it's possible that she hasn't come across the term before now. The culture and enviroment you grow up in have a lot to do with the knowledge you have acquired. | Iseult
| | #7 posted May 20, 2005 at 9:27am (EDT) |
Thanks Kate. That's what I kind of figured out it is, I just wanted to be sure. I saw in the South Park last night. | gambler
| | #8 posted May 20, 2005 at 9:42am (EDT) |
haahahahahaahah,
I saw an episode of south park where all the mothers were talking and they came across the word RimJob and one mother pipes up and says casually ....... "Oh thats where someone sticks their tongue up your ass"........... they all turn around and look at her and she quickly says "oh, I read it somewhere"
 | CarolL
| | #9 posted May 20, 2005 at 9:57am (EDT) |
I saw that gross old Sue Johannson on the Sunday Night Sex Show explaining rimming to someone the other night-----ewwwww. | Iseult
| | #10 posted May 20, 2005 at 10:37am (EDT) |
Carol, Sue is not gross, she is funny. Okay, she is kind of gross.. and funny at that same time. | gambler
| #11 posted May 20, 2005 at 11:38am (EDT)
edited May 20, 2005 at 11:38am (EDT) |
.......... Kind of like What has performing oral-sex on a woman and being in the mafia have in common?.............. One slip of the tongue and you are in the crap?
Ugh sorry........................ | whizkid
| | #12 posted May 20, 2005 at 1:48pm (EDT) |
Hey Sweet Cheeks,......be aware of : Many inexperienced lovers out there take the term "finger fudging" too literally and believe that jamming their fingers into the soft folds of a woman's vagina is the way to go. Can they say "Ouch!" You will want to wash hands well to make sure that you do not introduce harmful bacteria into the vagina or introduce it into the urethra. Unfortunately, there can be some negative side affects to making contact with the urethra. The urethra is sensitive and is easily irritated. It is fairly easy to expose the urethral to bacteria that is harmful when introduced and thus often results in a UTI. The activity that can cause a UTI can be sexual or non sexual. A woman who wipes her genitals after urinating from the back (dragging harmful bacteria from the anal region to the urethra) can introduce the makings of a UTI. Any sexual activity that makes contact with the urethra whether it is from fingers, a sex toy, the mouth, the penis, etc. can result in painful urination and infection. To help prevent infections and reduce the chances of irritation, a woman should drink lots of water and urinate just before and right after urethral stimulation.
Taking precautions such as washing whatever is going to come into contact with the urethra beforehand may assist in preventing such an infection. If an infection occurs it is easily treated with antibiotics. If left untreated the infection can become more serious and spread into the kidneys. Trim fingernails, so as to not cause pain or tears.
If you ask most women who have had a UTI, they will tell you that it is pretty painful and something that you would go to a medical facility at 3am if you had to so that you could get some relief! Have the necessary tools, and toys such as lubricant, STD protection (if needed). Using lubricant is always welcome, as no matter how excited and wet a woman gets, that moisture is easily taken away and rubbed onto the fingers and hand leaving her feeling a bit tender. Creating a relaxing atmosphere can also include doing some sensual foreplay. Get into the mood doing such activities as: massage, using sweet or spiced body lotions or oils, soft kissing, a bubble bath, and many other creative ventures.
Finger tips that tease and play with the clitoris in the beginning of a fingerings session will create a nice introduction to getting a woman ready for penetration clitoral stimulation will provide a nice opening, so let's start by discussing the clitoral orgasm. This orgasm occurs at the peak of clitoral stimulation. It begins with an intense sexual excitement within the clit and then as the orgasm peaks it surges waves of pleasure throughout the body. Only several years ago did Masters & Johnson break the myth that this was the only kind of orgasm that women could have, when they showed proof of the g-spot orgasm.
The clitoris is the most sensitive part of a woman's body and sexual arousal is always felt in the clitoris no matter where the orgasm takes place. It is usually that the sexual arousal first originates in the clit, and is considered an orgasmic starting point. Duck kid, are you a homboy or a girlfriend!
| darkshadowsseeker
| | #13 posted May 20, 2005 at 4:16pm (EDT) |
Iseult wrote:
> Thanks Kate. That's what I kind of figured out it is, I just wanted
> to be sure. I saw in the South Park last night.
You're welcome! I'm glad I could help. | darkshadowsseeker
| | #14 posted May 20, 2005 at 4:19pm (EDT) |
CarolL wrote:
> I saw that gross old Sue Johannson on the Sunday Night Sex Show explaining
> rimming to someone the other night-----ewwwww.
I know what you mean. She's very informative, but at the same time I feel as though it's my grandmother teaching about dildos, buttplugs and vibrators and discussing sexual techniques! A very creepy feel getting info from her! | Matty
| | #15 posted May 20, 2005 at 8:42pm (EDT) |
Iseult wrote:
> What is to fingerbang someone mean?
you're wasting your time; you should just be plain old fudging | Iseult
| | #16 posted May 20, 2005 at 9:36pm (EDT) |
> I know what you mean. She's very informative,
> but at the same time I feel as though it's my
> grandmother teaching about dildos, buttplugs and
> vibrators and discussing sexual techniques! A
> very creepy feel getting info from her!
I saw her live, she gave a lecture at my uni. She was saying how she feels more than comfortable to discuss sex with everyone and anyone except with her children. She says that she is very shy when it comes to that. | darkshadowsseeker
| | #17 posted May 20, 2005 at 10:08pm (EDT) |
Iseult wrote:
> |> I know what you mean. She's very informative,
>> but at the same time I feel as though it's my
>> grandmother teaching about dildos, buttplugs and
>> vibrators and discussing sexual techniques! A
>> very creepy feel getting info from her!
>
> I saw her live, she gave a lecture at my uni. She was saying how
> she feels more than comfortable to discuss sex with everyone and anyone
> except with her children. She says that she is very shy when it comes
> to that.
That's understandable. It's one thing to talk about sex and sex devices with strangers, but it's quite different to discuss the same stuff with your children. | Iseult
| | #18 posted May 20, 2005 at 11:26pm (EDT) |
Exactly. I acknowledge my parents being sexual beings and I know that they had sex at least three times (you know, my brother, my sister, and I), but I really don't want to hear about it. | darkshadowsseeker
| | #19 posted May 21, 2005 at 12:13am (EDT) |
Iseult wrote:
> Exactly. I acknowledge my parents being sexual beings and I know
> that they had sex at least three times (you know, my brother, my sister,
> and I), but I really don't want to hear about it.
I think if my grandmother had started talking about her sexual relations my head would have exploded! Fotunately for me, she was from a generation where things of a sexual nature weren't discussed openly. |
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