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llamamama  
| | #1 posted October 31, 2009 at 9:34pm (EST) |
So remember that girl..who is no longer my friend..because she stopped talking to me?
Well apparently she got the letter for when she's supposed to go to court to get her license. Nevermind the fact that she got her permit June 7, 2007...the day she should have gotten her license..So by that fact she should have gotten her license March 7, 2008...On her 17th birthday. Did she? No..of course not. Most kids don't get their license/permit right when they're supposed to..But few hold it for over two years.
Anyway..come to find out that she's gotten her letter saying she has to go to court..But gasp..she's in DC..So only her mom has to go..(which I think is totally ridiculous). That irritates me..but it also irritates me that there's no way she got 40-45 hours of driving. Somebody was lying somewhere. And I hate when people lie about these things.
I'm also upset that I didn't know..although..why should I, I guess.
I guess I'm so pissed about it because I still don't want to hear about her at all. It's still too soon. Is that weird? It hasn't been long enough for me to be hearing about fantastic things she's done.
I'm sure I'm still even a little bitter..But it's hard. I can tell myself all day long that I honestly don't care..But I am worried..and I do care...even if only a little..I mean geeze..we were friends for nine years.
I find myself saying things like, "Well, she'll never be a good driver because her mom only has one car." Like why would I say that? I'm sure she'll be fantastic at driving just as she's been fantastic at everything else in her life.
Ugh.
Am I seriously messed up for being upset about this? |
jettles  
| | #2 posted November 1, 2009 at 8:33am (EST) |
no, i don't think so........ there are certain things we hold on to much longer than others. this relationship seems to be one of the things that you just can't let go of even though you might think you have or want to. 9 yrs is a long time to be friends and not so easy to let go of............. dont overthink it! |
FauxLo
| | #3 posted November 1, 2009 at 2:20pm (EST) |
She's a butthole and will probably wreck her mom's uninsured car leaving them to rely on public transportation and walking. Take solace in that.  |
llamamama
| | #4 posted November 1, 2009 at 3:53pm (EST) |
All of those are lies..But I will take solace in the false  |
Irene007 
| | #5 posted November 2, 2009 at 11:54pm (EST) |
Stay away from Facebook, is my advice. |
llamamama
| | #6 posted November 3, 2009 at 12:38pm (EST) |
How does that help? |
EyesOfCharisma
| | #7 posted November 3, 2009 at 1:19pm (EST) |
I don't know what to tell you... I had a best friend and well... she totally screwed me over and I wish nothing but harm to come her way... I will never forgive her and I don't want to hear one thing about her (good or bad) |
llamamama
| | #8 posted November 3, 2009 at 1:26pm (EST) |
I don't want harm to come her way...it's just too soon. 'Course I could spend all day thinking about it...but then I'd also be upset with her mom because she wouldn't cut me a break. |
meowry
| | #9 posted November 4, 2009 at 7:29am (EST) |
There are better alternatives to actual harm. Like humiliating. That would be great. She shouldn't have to be harmed, but she does deserve some kind of punishment. Let's hope, karma smacks her in the face. |
llamamama
| | #10 posted November 4, 2009 at 9:28am (EST) |
Unfortunately, I'd never know if she was humiliated. She obviously doesn't tell me anything..And she never talks to her parents either.
I don't want her to be humilated or hurt though. No sense in making her feel like I do. |
Iseult 
| | #11 posted November 4, 2009 at 5:14pm (EST) |
Live and let live.
Don't wish harm to her, she's not worth it. |
Irene007
| | #12 posted November 5, 2009 at 12:52am (EST) |
llamamama wrote:
> How does that help?
There's something fundamentally wrong with that place and I regret ever creating my account. Some people actually live there and are chatting with this one and that one all day long. There's bound to be some discord when people get so close - I've heard of stories where one member of a family got pissed at her sister-in-law for posting a "not picture perfect" image of her (she's a model and terribly vain). That's when the fight started... *rolls eyes*
I also got contacted by someone from my past - way long ago past, whom I really didn't care to renew ties with. Thankfully he still lives 7 hours away.
Then there's the creeps trying to get a date...
I've been in my house for over 3 1/2 years and I've spoken once to the neighbours at the back because I needed to tell them that I was replacing the wood fence with cedar hedges (I have a pool and they have a daycare business) - I spoke once to the neighbour next to me or rather he spoke to me (don't remember what for) and I discovered that the nice waitress in the fancy French restaurant on the corner is my other neighbour - she's cool but I never see her at home. Oh and the lady across the street came to my door once at 4 in the morning to tell me to lower the music. I choose to not mingle with people who live that close - they end up knowing too much about your private life and things can occasionally become nasty (I've experienced that with the idiot who lived next door from my old house - cat murderer!!!). You don't choose your neighbours so... I keep them at arms lenght but that's harder to do on FaceBook. |
llamamama
| | #13 posted November 5, 2009 at 9:48am (EST) |
While I do agree with what you said..She didn't stop talking to be because of things on Facebook. I never tagged her in photos because she'd untag herself anyway. I didn't ever really comment on her Facebook anyway because she lives..right there.
I think it's dumb when people don't like the pictures or whatever..All of my friends seem to have a good sense of humor about the pictures that people post about them anyway. |
Irene007
| | #14 posted November 5, 2009 at 9:53am (EST) |
Yeah... I really liked the one my son's girlfriend snapped of me when I fell asleep in my office chair, mouth opened and snoring away!  |
llamamama
| | #15 posted November 5, 2009 at 10:02am (EST) |
Well, I'm never around people who would do that. People I'm around post pictures of what we did that day or whatever. Which is good. Teenage kids already look stupid..We don't need pictures that are so unbelieveably embarrassing. |
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