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Melf 
| | #1 posted April 14, 2009 at 7:48am (EDT) |
Ok, so dad kicked me out last night. I left some pots on the side, got back and the door was locked. He's been all obsessive about selling the house. Shouted at my brother's window until he let me in. I got a phone call - this woke up my dad, and he came down and told me I have to find somewhere else to stay for the 'foreseeable future'. I had ten minutes to call a couple of mates, fill some carrier bags (forgot my passport, remembered my favourite DVD  ) and leave.
So this sounds all very bad.
However, for a while now, me, my girlfriend, and her husband (feel free to ask any questions you may have) have been talking about getting a house share when I finish college, but we're going to do it early. So I'm staying at their house now (they still live with his parents at the moment), but it's really only going to be for a week or so until we can move. Don't know where yet.
So, basically, everything's fine, and I might not be able to be on here very often for the next couple of weeks. But, then again, it might be the same as normal. Just felt I should tell you all.
Lots of hugs and that to you all  |
gambler 
| | #2 posted April 14, 2009 at 8:37am (EDT) |
me, my girlfriend, and her husband .............any, erm *cough* "private pictures"???
But seriously, I thought you were living in college accomodation? has your Brother been kicked out too? do you not get on with your Dad?(Obv not, but), I am a little confused, if he is selling what about your Brother?
Where are you? in the north, right? Your girlfriends husbands parents (that seemed long winded?) seem very accomodating forgive the play on words?
Hope it works out for you
Regards David |
cloudhugger
| | #3 posted April 14, 2009 at 9:06am (EDT) |
We have room here....if my Mary doesn't find out we're good. |
Irene007   
| | #4 posted April 14, 2009 at 9:58am (EDT) |
You left some pots on the side? I don't get that part. You mean like pots and pans or what?
That really sucks Melf - he doesn't seem very supportive while his kid is still in school... I don't understand his actions and what has it to do with selling a house? |
jettles
| | #5 posted April 14, 2009 at 10:11am (EDT) |
hhhhmmm, that seems like quite a reaction to some pots!!! hope it all works out for you....... keep us up to date on how you are doing!! |
EyesOfCharisma
| | #6 posted April 14, 2009 at 12:21pm (EDT) |
You can always come and live here... we can perm each others hair!! 
Sorry things aren't working out... I know what it is like to have a crappy parent...
I also don't understand the pots thing? |
FauxLo
| | #7 posted April 14, 2009 at 1:10pm (EDT) |
I totally understand the pots thing... Melf's dad is a dick.  (Sorry Melf, but he is.)
Flashback: Didn't I get into it years ago for making a statement like this? Well, anyway, I'm right... AGAIN. He might be a good guy to everyone else in the world, but as a dad, right now he's a dick. |
Cain
| | #8 posted April 14, 2009 at 4:31pm (EDT) |
Hey Melf, you sound pretty chilled out about this whole thing, so if you're happy, I'm happy for you! Good luck. |
JessicaWoman99
| | #9 posted April 14, 2009 at 5:23pm (EDT) |
Oh so sorry to hear this is very stressful and gee the Comic she is going through a living hell as well |
cloudhugger
| | #10 posted April 15, 2009 at 1:07am (EDT) |
Yes, I hear the Comic may be looking for a roomie  |
JessicaWoman99
| | #11 posted April 15, 2009 at 1:09am (EDT) |
It is just so sad what we are all going through in life and it is not fair to any of us |
LindaH
| | #12 posted April 15, 2009 at 1:21am (EDT) |
Everything is temporary. |
cloudhugger
| | #13 posted April 15, 2009 at 8:50am (EDT) |
JessicaWoman99 wrote:
> It is just so sad what we are all going through
> in life and it is not fair to any of us
Please do not drag me into this. |
JessicaWoman99
| | #14 posted April 15, 2009 at 8:56am (EDT) |
Well you are now in on this |
Melf
| | #15 posted April 15, 2009 at 10:19am (EDT) |
gambler wrote:
> me, my girlfriend, and her husband .............any, erm *cough* "private pictures"???
>
> But seriously, I thought you were living in college accomodation? has your Brother been kicked
> out too? do you not get on with your Dad?(Obv not, but), I am a little confused, if he is selling
> what about your Brother?
My brother is going to move with him. He's selling to pay my mum's divorce money... me and my dad don't get on very well.
> Where are you? in the north, right? Your girlfriends husbands parents (that seemed long winded?)
> seem very accomodating forgive the play on words?
Yeah, they see me as a friend of my girlfriend (how much they know, we're uncertain) the husband (which I am), and their daughter (his sister), who I've been mates with for ages.
>
> Hope it works out for you
>
> Regards David
Thanks |
Melf
| | #16 posted April 15, 2009 at 10:20am (EDT) |
cloudhugger wrote:
> We have room here....if my Mary doesn't find out we're good.
Hurrah! |
Melf
| | #17 posted April 15, 2009 at 10:21am (EDT) |
Irene007 wrote:
> You left some pots on the side? I don't get that part. You mean like pots and pans or what?
Sorry, dishes. Dialect
>
>
> That really sucks Melf - he doesn't seem very supportive while his kid is still in school...
> I don't understand his actions and what has it to do with selling a house?
Because if anything is out of place he brings it all back to how we won't sell the house. It's a bit crazy. |
Melf
| | #18 posted April 15, 2009 at 10:22am (EDT) |
EyesOfCharisma wrote:
> You can always come and live here... we can perm each others hair!!
>
> Sorry things aren't working out... I know what it is like to have a crappy parent...
>
>
> I also don't understand the pots thing?
Seems I confused everyone! How is the hair? |
Melf
| | #19 posted April 15, 2009 at 10:22am (EDT) |
FauxLo wrote:
> I totally understand the pots thing... Melf's dad is a dick. (Sorry Melf, but he is.)
>
> Flashback: Didn't I get into it years ago for making a statement like this? Well, anyway,
> I'm right... AGAIN. He might be a good guy to everyone else in the world, but as a dad, right
> now he's a dick.
Basically yeah. It's cool, I know this.  |
Melf
| | #20 posted April 15, 2009 at 10:22am (EDT) |
Cain wrote:
> Hey Melf, you sound pretty chilled out about this whole thing, so if you're happy, I'm happy
> for you! Good luck.
Thank you |
Iseult 
| | #21 posted April 15, 2009 at 7:17pm (EDT) |
At least you're not 22 and your dad is trying to make you live with him. My dad wants me to move in back with him. As if. |
gambler
| | #22 posted April 16, 2009 at 9:10am (EDT) |
?
Oh Christ, someone translate this for me please now Iam REALLY confused????
Yeah, they see me as a friend of my girlfriend (how much they know, we're uncertain) the husband (which I am), and their daughter (his sister), who I've been mates with for ages.
maybe I am tired?
Regards David
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EyesOfCharisma
| | #23 posted April 16, 2009 at 11:14am (EDT) |
I am confused also, and I still don't understand 'pots' |
llamamama 
| | #24 posted April 16, 2009 at 11:19am (EDT) |
I think it just means that she didn't do the dishes and he flipped out on her.
Or maybe I'm lying. |
FauxLo
| | #25 posted April 16, 2009 at 1:03pm (EDT) |
No, you've got it right. Her dad used the pots as an excuse to be a spaz. |
llamamama
| | #26 posted April 16, 2009 at 1:25pm (EDT) |
Yeah, I hate when that happens. |
cloudhugger
| | #27 posted April 16, 2009 at 6:49pm (EDT) |
Bang the drum and old tin pots... |
cloudhugger
| | #28 posted April 16, 2009 at 6:50pm (EDT) |
I am high on you-know-what. |
JessicaWoman99
| | #29 posted April 16, 2009 at 8:21pm (EDT) |
Put on our war feathers send a smoke signal pound on them drums look them in the eyes got you now!!!!!!!!! |
verouge
| | #30 posted April 21, 2009 at 3:51am (EDT) |
First I am sorry you're kicked out, and I hate the way your dad is dealing with your things. Hopefully things will get better soon.. But I am glad you're gona solve your problem and have a house with your beloved people.
But I still dont understand:
The family of your girlfriend's husband think you're a friend to both their daughter and their daughter-in-law. What about the husband? He knows his wife is bisexual. His family feel comftable about having their son and his wife and his wife's friend sleeping over?
Are you feeling ok being in a relation with a bisexual married woman? You dont see this in Lebanon.
Usually gay/lesbian people here refuse to get involved in a relation with bisexuals especially if these last one are already in a relation with the different sex.
Sorry for being free in asking whatever came to mind! |
Melf
| | #31 posted April 21, 2009 at 5:54am (EDT) |
verouge wrote:
> First I am sorry you're kicked out, and I hate the way your dad is dealing with your things.
> Hopefully things will get better soon.. But I am glad you're gona solve your problem and have
> a house with your beloved people.
Thanks
>
> But I still dont understand:
> The family of your girlfriend's husband think you're a friend to both their daughter and their
> daughter-in-law. What about the husband? He knows his wife is bisexual. His family feel comftable
> about having their son and his wife and his wife's friend sleeping over?
They think of me as a good friend to their son, daughter, and daughter-in-law.
>
> Are you feeling ok being in a relation with a bisexual married woman? You dont see this in
> Lebanon.
Yep
> Usually gay/lesbian people here refuse to get involved in a relation with bisexuals especially
> if these last one are already in a relation with the different sex.
>
I know, it's a pretty weird situation
> Sorry for being free in asking whatever came to mind!
I don't mind! |
verouge
| | #32 posted April 21, 2009 at 6:15am (EDT) |
Melf wrote:
> verouge wrote:
>> First I am sorry you're kicked out, and I hate the way your dad
> is dealing with your things.
>> Hopefully things will get better soon.. But I am glad you're gona
> solve your problem and have
>> a house with your beloved people.
> Thanks
you're so welcome!!
>>
>> But I still dont understand:
>> The family of your girlfriend's husband think you're a friend to
> both their daughter and their
>> daughter-in-law. What about the husband? He knows his wife is bisexual.
> His family feel comftable
>> about having their son and his wife and his wife's friend sleeping
> over?
>
> They think of me as a good friend to their son, daughter, and daughter-in-law.
I bet you are... It's just the bad circumstances..
>>
>> Are you feeling ok being in a relation with a bisexual married
> woman? You dont see this in
>> Lebanon.
>
> Yep
Good!
>> Usually gay/lesbian people here refuse to get involved in a relation
> with bisexuals especially
>> if these last one are already in a relation with the different
> sex.
>>
> I know, it's a pretty weird situation
But I like it!
>> Sorry for being free in asking whatever came to mind!
>
> I don't mind!
Yeah I know.. hehehe.. Hopefully things are better now! |
gambler
| | #33 posted April 21, 2009 at 8:53am (EDT) |
Mel,
Are you feeling ok being in a relation with a bisexual married woman? ............ Thats erm, "different" How does this work with the husband? is he cool? does he give you guys "girl time" ...I am trying to get my mind around it, obviously it works, but the dynamics must be strange.
I was tempted to say something juvenile like "If I was the husband, I would not be able to believe my luck!!!!" but decided against it........
Regards David |
FauxLo
| | #34 posted April 21, 2009 at 2:25pm (EDT) |
I wouldn't imagine the dynamics to be strange. I've known plenty of threesomes and though I've never been in one (for more than a few hours  ), I haven't noticed anything odd about any of them. Is that the case, Melf? |
cloudhugger
| | #35 posted April 21, 2009 at 2:33pm (EDT) |
My friend is a lesbian. Always has been. She decided to be married to get God's and her mom's and her mom's church's approval. (whatever ) However, her husband know about her and I, and he knows that if she doesn't get her fair share of...girly girls she would most likely leave him. He loves her so according to my friend, if she has a one night stand on occasion to satisfy her true self he is OK with it. I find it difficult to believe...yet somehow exciting. One night before me and Mary were, she seduced me and than she told her husband. I wanted to kill her, but his angry response to that was that she did not wake him. ewww |
Melf
| | #36 posted April 22, 2009 at 3:47am (EDT) |
gambler wrote:
> Mel,
>
> Are you feeling ok being in a relation with a bisexual married woman? ............ Thats
> erm, "different" How does this work with the husband? is he cool? does he give you guys "girl
> time" ...I am trying to get my mind around it, obviously it works, but the dynamics must be
> strange.
He's basically one of the most laid back people you could meet... they've been together since they were about fourteen, so obviously they know each other really well and all our schedules kind of work out so he and she get time, and her and I get time.
> I was tempted to say something juvenile like "If I was the husband, I would not be able to
> believe my luck!!!!" but decided against it........
>
> Regards David
|
Melf
| | #37 posted April 22, 2009 at 3:47am (EDT) |
FauxLo wrote:
> I wouldn't imagine the dynamics to be strange. I've known plenty of threesomes and though
> I've never been in one (for more than a few hours ), I haven't noticed anything odd about
> any of them. Is that the case, Melf?
 |
verouge
| | #38 posted April 23, 2009 at 6:53am (EDT) |
I just wonder, after you got your shared house, (and I am serious about this question, it's just my curiosity), how are you gona sleep? I dont mean "making love", I mean just sleeping, each in a bed? all in one bed? |
FauxLo
| | #39 posted April 23, 2009 at 7:01pm (EDT) |
Bunk beds? |
verouge
| | #40 posted April 24, 2009 at 4:59am (EDT) |
I thought about it too.. |
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