Can CyberSex be counted as cheating?

I don't really think it could be thought of as so. There is no physical interaction--and technology's limits (right now ) can go only so far.

it depends on the agreement between the partners who might consider it cheating

Only if.

depends on your relationship situation. i think it could be problematic to a relationship.

I think it can. In many cases it leads to cheating. If you are doing it for fun and not hiding it from your SO then it could be ok. My ex did it often and tried to hide it from me. Eventually she started setting up meetings with these people. It may not have been cheating at first but it was definetly was dishonest.

The intent was/ or is there. If pleasure is obtained then yes it is cheating.

I think the couple would need to discuss it and come to their own conclusions.

Absolutely. I believe cheating or unfaithfulness isn't to do with actions, but to do with a person's heart or attitude. Why even entertain the thought if you are totally committed to your SO? What is love?

I think it is cheating unless all parties involved agree it is ok then it is not cheating. I would not do it.

Yes, of course. It's cheating emotionally.

Look, you're going to get into trouble all the same anyway. You ask me, if you want to cheat, do it physically. Sheesh. You may as well get an orgasm out of the whole thing. AND you'll know what the person you're screwing smells like.


Good survey!

I would say "No", but it would depend on the person's SO, what their feelings were.

Most definitely.

All depends on what promises and understandings you have. In the situation I'm in now, the only thing I would consider to be cheating would be if she were to fall in love with an Italian guy, move there, marry him, and send me a post-card.

Yes, it definitely would be considered cheating.

it is not adulterous behavior, I'd consider cheating anything that hurts your spouse or SO, then the answer would have been Yes rather than No

i think if you really care about your partner, you would not want to engage in cybersex. but it is not actually cheating on your spouse or SO

absolutely...

(anybody up for a quick cyber shag )

Yes.

me?

only if you shave your scrotum!

I think Wicksy missed you

It already is shaved!

too much information...

speak for yourself!

i never doubted his obsession

It's a grey area. I think it is for me, and I don't engage in it, I know there is the opinion out there that it's harmless and frivolous since it's the internet and the 'rules' dont apply. If I caught my SO doing it I know how I'd feel. It should count. So should manners and politesse.

If you are with someone else, spend your energy on them.And that's my opinion!!!!!!!