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| 411 | WCKW, I think... | What are the call letters of your favorite radio station(s)? |
| 412 | Where is Eunice??? I'm out of New Orleans. Is it close? Why am I being lazy and asking, why don't I just look it up for once?! I'll check it out. | What are the call letters of your favorite radio station(s)? |
| 413 | It is a document with a great job offer, large salary and great benefits included. | Your package has arrived! |
| 414 | I need a job. I've been sick all week and I'm depressed that I spent my 2 weeks off with severence pay doing nothing but blowing my nose and taking long hot baths to let the steam clear my sinuses. Plus being sick doesn't exactly help my sex life. Okay, I've spilled. Now give me my 7˘ worth! | The Psychiatrist is in. 7˘ |
| 415 | I'm close! Still a little congested. I'm waiting on a response from someone who requested my resumé. And until my SO is off for the weekend there will be no sex... but just wait until this weekend! | The Psychiatrist is in. 7˘ |
| 416 | Thanks for the input. I think I did need the rest so the break was nice but I do need to get a move on since my bank balance is slowly dwindling. | The Psychiatrist is in. 7˘ |
| 417 | I needed a break. Thankfully I didn't have to beg for it, or break any laws to get it! I wish it wasn't met by sickness but it let me sleep and catch up on some tv show I had been missing. I got caught up on those movies I never got to see too. Thanks for the reply!!! | The Psychiatrist is in. 7˘ |
| 418 | I understand you're worried about how your husband might take it. He should be free to go to the family gatherings as he has always done. However, you should not feel obligated to go somewhere when you know you will be harrassed. He hopefully understands your feelings and hopefully he will relay to them why you are not attending the events. The impact of you not being there may cause an uproar, they may be furious that you would dare not attend, but that is strictly their problem. This is not the day of the obedient wife who does as her husband and her elders (being his family) tells her is right and proper. Today, we are our own persons. Do what feels right. If you decide to go and are uncomfortable, you are free to leave. Say you don't feel well, it's not a total lie. You can't feel wonderful around people who don't hold you in high regard. Just keep your own sanity in mind and try to maintain a peaceful, loving attitude toward your husband, as his family is no reflection on him. Good luck in this situation as I know it is a very difficult one. | The Psychiatrist is in. 7˘ |
| 419 | Thanks, I will take it easy when I can instead of trying to do everything during my time off. I'm glad you really read what I said and took it to heart. I had a problem with my SO's parents not that long ago. I didn't come to SC for advice, I went to my best friend's house and vented until I decided what to do about it. I was hurt and upset and didn't want to deal with them but we were supposed to be going to a family dinner for their anniversary. Well, I didn't feel like celebrating a day for the people who invaded my privacy and disrupted my home. So I didn't go to the dinner. My SO went and he was really upset that I didn't go. His mom asked if I didn't go because I didn't feel well and he agreed. He didn't agree with my feelings about what his parents did so that was a completely different matter. All in all, I decided to drop it after not having seen his family for about a month (we were all busy with work and home projects) since there was no way I was going to confront them and he certainly wasn't going to say anything since he didn't feel the same way. To sum it all up, I did what made me feel better and he did what made him feel better and now it is all in the past and we're all over it (to a degree). So, glad you two agree about the problem, you're lucky! | The Psychiatrist is in. 7˘ |
| 420 | He is off all day Saturday and Sunday. He wants have a garage sale hunting day on Saturday which means getting up at the crack of dawn that morning. then there's a craft show we were in once that's this weekend, so he wants to go to that too. I guess after a long day of shopping he'll be hungry and tired, so I might have to make him take a nap so I can keep him up all night... I've thought this through, you see! I'd pass on your condolences but he'd probably wonder why I was sharing the lack of good lovin' with the rest of the world... some people just don't get it! | The Psychiatrist is in. 7˘ |