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| 31 | OK. ABOVE ALL, I HAVE TO APOLOGIZE FOR NOT WRITING ANY SOONER. I'VE RESTRICETED MYSELF TO ONCE A WEEK ON THE INTERNET SO THAT I CAN FOCUS MORE IN SCHOOL. SO WITH THAT IN MIND, EXPECT LONG LETTERS FROM ME ADDRESSED TO EVERYONE. JEMS: I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL THAT GUYS OUR AGE ARE IMMATURE, BUT 24 (OR 22) IS WAY TO OLD. TECHNICALLY, HE'S A BIT SHY OF DOUBLE YOUR AGE. CRUSHES HAPPEN, I AGRE. BUT YOU'LL SEE THAT WHAT YOU WERE ORIGINALLY ATTRACTED TO WILL FADE AWAY. ALTHOUGH THE MATURITY LEVEL IS THERE, YOU'VE GOT TO LOOK FOR MORE. ICUROK: I SEEM TO HAVE GOTTEN THAT ALOT WITH THIS SURVEY "ABOVE/BELOW THE LEGAL AGE". LET'S FORGET ABOUT THAT. LEGAL AGE BEING 5 YEARS OLD, IS IT RIGHT THAT A 16YR OLDDATES A 30YR OLD. BOTH ARE LEGAL (UNDER THE CIRCUMSTANCES I'VE BROUGHT UP). WHAT'S YOUR OPINION. SUPPLICANT: I'M LOST. WHAT'S BDSM? MIRELLEINS:SAME SITUATION AS ICUROK. LEGAL AGE IS 5YRS OLD. WHERE DO YOU STAND? YOU ARE ONE WISE WOMAN. FIRST OFF, THANK YOU FOR THE HELP. SECOND, I NEVER THOUGHT OF IT YOUR WAY. WHAT'S WORSE? BEING GROUNDED BY MY FATHER OR MARRYING A MAN WITH ONLY ONE THING ON HIS MIND? BOTH CAN BE ARGUED. IF I WAS GROUNDED BY MY DAD, I WOULDN'T BE ABLE TO MEET ANYONE, GOOD OR BAD. IF I WAS STUCK IN A WEB WITH A HUSBAND WHO NEVER LETS ME LEAVE THE HOUSE BECAUSE ALL HE WANTS TO DO IS SCREW ME, I WON'T MEET ANYONE, INCLUDING FRIENDS AND FAMILY. SEE YA NEXT WEEK! ANGELA | Do you feel that it is right to date someone considerably older or younger than you? |
| 32 | You said it not me | Do you feel that it is right to date someone considerably older or younger than you? |
| 33 | You see. That's what I look for. Most people just end their response with "It depends on the legal age of consent". I don't know about you, but I can't work with that. Detailed information helps a lot (since I go through all the trouble to reply to everybody else). And what I meant about putting the legal age at five was that the legal age being when a person can tell right from wrong (Studies prove that the age is 5/6). I would never do it myself or support anyone who does it. I just tried to move the bar (the bar being the age limit) out of the way of the discussion. Am I making any sense here? | Do you feel that it is right to date someone considerably older or younger than you? |
| 34 | yes i am! however it took a lot of work on my part. Above all, we are all allowed to be stupid sometimes, so don't apologize, Jems. Second, I was thinking to myself earlier "Why does everyone put so much emphasise on age?" Finally it dawned on me. Yea, yeah, moral beliefs, blah, blah. But then, think of it. The question was about dating someone considerably OLDER or YOUNGER. Age. The question makes you focos on age, therefore it is 100% likely that everyone, in their response, will bring about age, and more importantly, the legal age. I agree with Wicksy. Older is fine. How much older is the problem. That was my light bulb moment I will have to say toddoloo for another week or so (now with Christmas preperations and all...) But you know what, as hard as it may be to deprive myself, it is very rewarding. How? I don't know. I just keep telling myself that and pretend as if it were the truth to help me feel better. | Do you feel that it is right to date someone considerably older or younger than you? |
| 35 | Jems, baby, the legal age is 18 for all 10 provinces and 3 territories. | Do you feel that it is right to date someone considerably older or younger than you? |
| 36 | Nope, it's 18. You wanna hear something. I met this guy recently and we are so in love with each other. I'm 15, he's 22. So... TO EVERYBODY, I CREATED THIS SURVEY WHEN NOTHING SPECIAL HAPPENED IN MY LIFE. I STAYED MUTUAL. HOWEVER, I MET A GUY, 22, AND WE SOOOOOOO HIT IT OFF. SO JEMS, I SEE WHERE YOU'RE COMING FROM. I KNOW HOW THE EMOTIONS FLY, YOU FEEL EUPHORIC, AND YOU FEEL YOU CAN TAKE ON THE WORLD WITH AN OLDER GUY BY YOUR SIDE (THAT'S HOW I FEEL RIGHT NOW). BUT, AFTER TELLING 20 LIES TO MY PARENTS JUST TO MEET HIM AT MCDONALD'S, I REALIZED THERE ARE TOO MANY RISKS. LUCKILY, MY GUY IS WILLING TO WAIT THE 3 YEARS. WE'LL SE WHERE LIFE TAKES US THEN. BUT I MUST SAY, THIS EXPERIENCE REALLY OPENED MY EYES. ALTHOUGH AGE SHOULD NOT BE A FACTOR ON LOVE, IT IS. | Do you feel that it is right to date someone considerably older or younger than you? |
| 37 | Everybody hates lonliness. But if we open our eyes, we are never really quite alone. Our friends easily substitute for that lonliness. | Do you feel that it is right to date someone considerably older or younger than you? |
| 38 | I know how you feel, but which of the two sticks with you through thick and thin? All a guy is thinking of is when he can get his next sexual fix. And don't say "not all guys are like that", because they are. TRUST ME! Remember the guy I told you I met at the New Years Eve party, well, when I told him my legs were shut, miraculously he stopped calling! Take it from me child, wait! | Do you feel that it is right to date someone considerably older or younger than you? |
| 39 | TO EVERYONE! IT'S BEEN A FUN RIDE, BUT IT MUST COME TO AN END. I FEEL THAT I HAVEN'T BEEN ABLE TO COMMUNICATE WITH THOSE WHO PARTICIPATE ON MY SURVEYS. I CAN MAKE EXCUSES, BUT NOTHING JUSTIFIES WHY I CAN'T WRITE ANYMORE. TIME IS PRECIOUS AND, FRANKLY, I DON'T HAVE ENOUGH OF IT. THEREFOR, THIS IS THE END OF IT. I WON'T BE CANCELLING MY ACCOUNT (MAINLY BECAUSE I DON'T KNOW HOW) SO IF YOU FEEL MY SURVEY IS A PLACE THAT GETS YOU IN CONTACT WITH ANYONE ELSE, FEEL FREE TO USE IT. HOWEVER, DON'T EXPECT ME TO BE WRITING BACK. I WANTED TO THANK EVERYONE FOR HELPING ME SINCE OCTOBER 1ST (THE DAY MY FIRST SURVEY WAS ISSUED). JEMS, TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF AND KNOW THAT THERE IS MORE TO LIFE THAN GUYS. KRISTAL_ROSE, YOUR ADVICE HAS GUIDED ME THROUGH SINCE DAY ONE AND YOUR WORDS OF WISDOM ARE AN INSPIRATION. I KNOW I DON'T SPEAK FOR MYSELF WHEN I SAY YOU ARE EXTREMELY RESPECTED FOR YOUR WONDERFUL INPUT. MAARTEN, REMEMBER THAT WHEN I BECOME THE FAMOUS STAR I TOLD YOU ABOUT, YOU'LL BE THE FIRST ON MY VISIT LIST! A PROMISE IS A PROMISE! MIREILLENS, GOOD LUCK, AND DON'T GIVE JEMMY TOO MUCH OF A HARD TIME. SHE'S YOUNG! IAMLOSER, THANK YOU. THANK YOU FOR MAKING ME REALIZE THAT ALTHOUGH SOMEONE DOES NOT LIKE SOMETHING I HAVE DONE, IT SHOULD NOT BE TAKEN PERSONALLY. THERE ARE HITS AND THERE ARE MISSES. SO, THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH. OH! I REALLY HOPE THE PEOPLE I MENTIONED CAN READ WHAT I SAID. IF ITS POSSIBLE TO SPREAD THE WORD TO THOSE PEOPLE (JEMS, I KNOW I CAN TRUST YOU TO DO THAT FOR ME). THANK YOU. GOOD-BYE! ANGELA VELLA AKA star2b_ca | Do you feel that it is right to date someone considerably older or younger than you? |
| 40 | I do it like the centuries of my Italian ancestors did. The napkin on the blouse, the fork and spoon in my two hands and dig in! (Can't forget the glass of red wine!) | What spaghetti eating method do you use? |
