Searching "comments":
| # | Comment | Survey |
|---|---|---|
| 11 | Pomeranian: I'm gay and that was far too damn gay for me. | Choice of a Lifetime: Have you "chosen" your sexual orientation? |
| 12 | Sorry 'bout that, Cloudhugger. One of the first replies mentioned how I slighted the bi choice in this hypothetical. And you're right. People who stay in the middle of the road tend to get run over...even though they're the ones who are "looking both ways". (Hope you got all those puns, ha.) | Go Straight or Stay Gay: If you died today and you were told that you get a new life again but this time you had a choice... |
| 13 | There's only one problem I have with your expressed views (however you mentioned it twice): the word "choice". This survey purports to reveal everyone's honest view: Is sexuality a choice?
Given your response, maybe the most apparent difference between gay and bi is that bi's believe sexuality is a choice? I know I could choose to live a straight life - I even tried desperately to carry out such a life for seventeen years (12 - 29). Got laid, got married - the whole bit. And, quite frankly, does the fact that I did live out the straight way of life for so long qualify me as a "bi"? I don't know. But, since 12 years old (actually, I was three when I knew I was different from other boys), all that was an act I had to deliberately carry out to appear straight - and I felt it was a necessity of survival. I remember Thanksgiving Day at 12 years old, spending most of the day hidden, crying my eyeballs out because I discovered I was "a homosexual". Then, "hating God" for it; then, growing determined to change it; then (17 years later) realizing that I just wasn't going to achieve that goal in life. How could anyone choose to be attracted to a certain gender? If that is your case...first, I believe it if you do; second, I am envious that you have a "choice" in the matter at all. If I ever had the choice, I would have been the first in line to "be cured". Give me the shot, pop me the pill, top it off with shock treatment. It all would have saved me so much hatred and disgust for myself, and one hell of a lot of lonely, undisclosed heartache. I'd love to know what sort of person I would be if I were straight. (Although the few gay friends I have called me "the straightest gay" they know - ha!) Of course now, having been in a once-in-a-lifetime relationship with the same incredible man for so long, I "choose" to no longer "act". Screw it - my partner was worth the whole fight...with myself and the world. | Go Straight or Stay Gay: If you died today and you were told that you get a new life again but this time you had a choice... |
| 14 | Haha! Good outlook! | "Hey, Baby!" Have you ever been dubbed a "hottie"? |
| 15 | Uhhhh...huhh? | "Hey, Baby!" Have you ever been dubbed a "hottie"? |
| 16 | My mother only. My father didn't utter such pansy words. | Do you recall the first time that one or both of your parents expressed, "I love you"? |
| 17 | Ha! Good point! Never thought about that probability in most every case. | Do you recall the first time that one or both of your parents expressed, "I love you"? |
| 18 | I said it back - in two different situations. I was immature and felt that move was sparing their feelings. | The Feeling Is(n't) Mutual: Have you ever had a romantic partner tell you they love you...when you weren't exactly sharing the same sentiments? |
| 19 | gambler: With a subscription to the Department Of Transportation records institute and the proper authority to do a background check on people (as most any Human Resources Director usually has), that actually could be located.
Melrfaz: In all fairness, you win. However, I asked "The New Puritans" when their link will be active to the lyrics to all their songs. Another user at their myspace page says it's under development, due to popular demand. If you look on the right side of this page, midway down, you'll see the "Lyrics" link (inactive at the moment) for their song entitled "Elvis". | E-Challenge (Part 2): If you want to partake, try to expose something - anything - that can't be located on the Internet. |
| 20 | Japanese Keyboard
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